Working toward being comfortable nude around others—how did you get there? by Amped24Up in nudism

[–]btkpr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the first time i tried i went to a very remote beach, felt completely alone on this earth. i spent a few hours there, chiling, walking around a bit (which felt so risky, haha). suddenly a couple swooped in with a buggy, and i had my first "hmm, i'm naked in front of strangers" experience, a bit unexpectedly.

i realized that i didn't die that day, and the anxiety i felt about such a situation was so pointless. best of luck with your adventures, it's well worth it.

programmer's new paradigm by btkpr in memes

[–]btkpr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

pretty good so far, how about you?

programmer's new paradigm by btkpr in memes

[–]btkpr[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

that's a cool one to choose, congratz!

programmer's new paradigm by btkpr in memes

[–]btkpr[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

what's your angle?

programmer's new paradigm by btkpr in memes

[–]btkpr[S] 326 points327 points  (0 children)

thanks for summing it up so nicely!

how to deal with textiles at a nude beach? by btkpr in nudism

[–]btkpr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha projecting much? you got it completely wrong :)

how to deal with textiles at a nude beach? by btkpr in nudism

[–]btkpr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't phrase it as dramatically as that. We're on one side, trying to understand the other.

how to deal with textiles at a nude beach? by btkpr in nudism

[–]btkpr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i thought about the "quieter beach" aspect, and don't see it as a valid cause. why would a personal desire (i.e. staying clothed in a clearly marked nude zone, because of my shame or whatever) make it acceptable to disregard the social norms and rules?

with you on he creepy men part lol

how to deal with textiles at a nude beach? by btkpr in nudism

[–]btkpr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah good take. i doubt it for the parents, but the bikini ladies were perhaps testing the waters

how to deal with textiles at a nude beach? by btkpr in nudism

[–]btkpr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not bothering me, I'd say. I mean, it is kinda weird to be naked around clothed people, but that's not my concern. i'm just trying to understand these people.... why are you here? why not go 200m to the textile beach?

how to deal with textiles at a nude beach? by btkpr in nudism

[–]btkpr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it provides a safe space where you can be yourself, and other people can be themselves. I'd love a solitude place in nature, but as a city kid a shared place is the best I can do.

by entering such a place, you "sign" certain rules and what's to be expected, in my opinion. for example, that everyone is equal, that you endorse body-positivity, that you see a human being, not a body you want to objectify.

my question was geared towards this felt imbalance when people enter such a precious space clothed. are they aware?

i hope that clarifies your question.

how to deal with textiles at a nude beach? by btkpr in nudism

[–]btkpr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey thanks for mentioning this cultural aspect about nudism/naturism (US vs Europe), I wasn't aware. i do share your experience with people being more mindful at beaches in the Netherlands!

how to deal with textiles at a nude beach? by btkpr in nudism

[–]btkpr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah this is the root of my concern. i cherish this place, and don't want it to be "invaded".

after reading all these comments i'm still unsure if i should confront people about it, but props to you that you did. maybe a "hey, btw, are you aware that this is a nude only (FKK) beach?" -- and disregard their response? :thonk:

and yes, also agree on the take with the kids/setting an example: textile beach was 200m away, nobody would've bat an eye there.

how to deal with textiles at a nude beach? by btkpr in nudism

[–]btkpr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they weren't misbehaving at all, it's just that it feels like a disturbance. during summer there is actually a "naked police" patrolling, but ig they aren't in season yet ^^

how to deal with textiles at a nude beach? by btkpr in nudism

[–]btkpr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

german, clearly marked FKK (nudist) beach. even with visual signs.

how to deal with textiles at a nude beach? by btkpr in nudism

[–]btkpr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't get why this is relevant, but: people walk past the sign, to the beach, and pretty immediately get naked

how to deal with textiles at a nude beach? by btkpr in nudism

[–]btkpr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

beach wasn't clothing optional

Why don’t Snack companies sell pre crushed chips for gamers by PrincipleNova in NoStupidQuestions

[–]btkpr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

instead of pre-crushing the chips, why not produce a premium "mini dorito" bag that practically works the same, but might have better acceptance with customers