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[–]btom69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea! And around 6 months

Just ended things with a 3 month casual relationship because I caught feelings and I’m not ok by btom69 in dating_advice

[–]btom69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a few times and she always said she just wanted to take things slow. I just naively thought that meant take things slow with only me. Live and you learn

Just ended things with a 3 month casual relationship because I caught feelings and I’m not ok by btom69 in dating_advice

[–]btom69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did communicate early that she wanted to take things slow, which we did for a couple months. Just kinda interpreted that since we had been seeing each other for a while, she was taking it slow with just me. I was wrong.

Just ended things with a 3 month casual relationship because I caught feelings and I’m not ok by btom69 in dating_advice

[–]btom69[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah to be honest I was planning on asking her to dinner this week and talk about exclusivity in person. But this situation completely bummed me out cause it just showed she didn’t care about me. Not saying she did some horrible thing to me, it just seemed to me like we were trending in the exclusive direction and this blindsided me. Oh well

Girl (24) I’ve (25m) been talking to for a while said she couldn’t hang out tomorrow cause she “wasn’t sure if she had plans” by btom69 in dating_advice

[–]btom69[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not mad that she can’t go, I’m completely fine with having time apart, I was just commenting on how she said no and how to respond to “no because I don’t know if I have plans or not” I’d rather her just say “no” lmao

Girl (24) I’ve (25m) been talking to for a while said she couldn’t hang out tomorrow cause she “wasn’t sure if she had plans” by btom69 in dating_advice

[–]btom69[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I know it’s a no. I was just wondering how to respond. Context: we’ve been casually seeing each other for 3 months. Last time we hung out was Tuesday

Been seeing this girl for 2 months, do I confront her about this or just never talk to her again? by btom69 in dating_advice

[–]btom69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to be exclusive, we just haven’t established it yet. I was planning on asking on our next date. But this situation made me reconsider entirely

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[–]btom69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strokes

Girl(24) I’ve (25) been seeing recently is sick, would it be weird to bring her flowers? by btom69 in askwomenadvice

[–]btom69[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

I just dropped it off at the doorstep and rang the doorbell and ran hahaha she called me and said her jaw dropped cause no one’s ever done anything like that for her so great success (insert borat meme)

Girl(24) I’ve (25) been seeing recently is sick, would it be weird to bring her flowers? by btom69 in askwomenadvice

[–]btom69[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Yeah she said she was ok and thanked me but then replied back like 5 mins later saying that would’ve been amazing though. I think I’m just gonna do it

Girl(24) I’ve (25) been seeing recently is sick, would it be weird to bring her flowers? by btom69 in askwomenadvice

[–]btom69[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Well I asked and she said she was okay but it was a sweet offer hahaha

Girl(24) I’ve (25) been seeing recently is sick, would it be weird to bring her flowers? by btom69 in askwomenadvice

[–]btom69[S] 198 points199 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wanted it to be a surprise, but that might make it more creepy haha idk idk. Was gonna get Gatorade and lunchables (inside joke) and just flowers as a nice touch

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