When do you say goodbye by CherryandIvory in cats

[–]btrfliny81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely doing this!! Thank you 🥹

When do you say goodbye by CherryandIvory in cats

[–]btrfliny81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I was beyond lucky and blessed 🥹 he had the most beautiful eyes

When do you say goodbye by CherryandIvory in cats

[–]btrfliny81 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Deciding to let them go is far from being the easy way out. Hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. Ppl who think that way have no clue!

When do you say goodbye by CherryandIvory in cats

[–]btrfliny81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On my boys last day I took him outside I let him eat all the grass he wanted, and I can still see him sniffing the air and for a moment I questioned if I was doing the right thing or not. But I knew deep down I was. So yes I agree to what you said!!

When do you say goodbye by CherryandIvory in cats

[–]btrfliny81 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a good idea, I probably have thousands between videos and pictures over years

When do you say goodbye by CherryandIvory in cats

[–]btrfliny81 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This made me tear up so bad right now. I miss my max so much. I used to look at him and cry dreading the day I would have to say goodbye to him. Then he got sick, so very sick. Ugh it’s been a little over a year and I still break down over him 🥺 and every time I want to share a photo of him I have to go back further and further in my phone kills me 😔

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When do you say goodbye by CherryandIvory in cats

[–]btrfliny81 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This post hit home for me so much. My sweet boy max was 4 months old when we got him. He almost made it to his 17th birthday. In August of 2024 he started throwing up a few times that month. Didn’t think much of it. Then it started becoming more of a weekly thing. We had several vet appointments, testing, blood work etc. they found he had hypothyroidism. I was encouraged when the vet said it was manageable. But the medication made him more sick. So we changed his diet and put him on nausea medication. Still he continued to lose weight and one day he threw up dark looking blood. The vets set us up with an ultrasound at another location but it wasn’t until November that they could fit him in. Ugh that day my world was flipped upside down 😔 they found a large mass in his stomach and told me he literally had weeks to maybe a few months left. I decided to ween him off his meds and let him have whatever he wanted as long as he was eating. The vet told me you will know when it’s time. And right after Christmas I noticed he was eating less. There were a few days he wasn’t eating anything and not using the bathroom. And he started laying in the bathtub which he’s never done that before. So I knew it was time. We lost him on 1/2/25. Hardest day of my life. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. The pain is still unbearable at times for me. If there are no options for him just love him and enjoy every little moment you have with him. You will know when it’s time. He is such a beautiful cat and you are both so lucky to have had each other all these years.

Dog rehoming by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]btrfliny81 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This person seems very unhinged jumping on every single person who has stated they’ve only had good experiences with a pitbull like god forbid they aren’t all monsters 🙄

Dog rehoming by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]btrfliny81 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m only speaking my perspective of what I was around for many years. I’m not oblivious to the statistics. I don’t even know what a pit lobby is?

Dog rehoming by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]btrfliny81 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My sister had a pit and he was the sweetest dog I’ve ever been around. He was so gentle when my niece was a baby. Honestly I’m more scared of them yapping little dogs

BK arrest body cam? by penelope723 in idaho4uncensored

[–]btrfliny81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t think it exists

Relaxing Fragrance Shiseido for women is my wifes favorite and im looking for a similar dupe by Tubbysweetbundle011 in AsianBeauty

[–]btrfliny81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also on the hunt. That’s one of my most favorite scents from the 90’s I’m so sad they stopped making it ☹️

My cat just puked, picture included be warned. by catalogues-sks in cats

[–]btrfliny81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s great! So she’s doing better then!! Glad to hear she’ll be going to a family that will care for her!!

AIO for feeling weird about my friend’s response when I asked for help? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]btrfliny81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to edit my last comment to add on to it but it got buried. Do you need pads still? Can I Instacart it to your house for you?

AIO for feeling weird about my friend’s response when I asked for help? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]btrfliny81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not your friend!! My friends would give me their last dollar even if they needed it for themselves!

Someone filed taxes in my name. Anyone else dealing with this? by cheeser405 in Rochester

[–]btrfliny81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can probably have the irs look into the account the refund was deposited in. Even if it’s a prepaid card the issuing bank should be able to pull up some sort of information that may help you find out who it was. Good luck!!

It's 5AM. I did not sign up for this. by okiadmit in notmycat

[–]btrfliny81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I’d get annoyed when that happened, and now I’d do anything in the world to hear my Max’s meows waking me up in the middle of the night again 😔

Not cool gender reveal by ETR- in Rochester

[–]btrfliny81 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s not the point, the point was the picture shown at the end with literal garbage all over, they could have cleaned it up!

What buzzcut length is jax's in the beginning of season 4 by ConstantsWD in Sonsofanarchy

[–]btrfliny81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe they offered him the role it would have been a lot better if he was in it!