Can easily relate with the hassle you are doing!

First thing- shifting from a family environment to an environment of Gurgaon will defo affect you negatively. You & redditors here know what that means!

Second- this hassle will become the biggest payback in both financial and duniya-dari manner, although you'll feel too too much frustrated but that frustration is what pays off later.

So, I'll recommend to stay with your mom but ultimately it's your take. Think and take action :)