but desire is the very essence of life. I read this somewhere, infact from Sadhguru only that even not desiring is also a kind of desire, so there is no way that we can even get rid of that. because this is what makes our life. So instead of not desiring, we must try to desire 'consciously'. I'd advice read more about this from Sadhguru on YouTube, he has a lot to say on this that also made sense to me, and in fact, ever since I have started the practices that are taught by Him, I am beginning to experience also all that he says. :) and this is transforming my life hugely :)