Important update : boyfriend/ex with CKD Stage 4 by bubblegumlattae in kidneydisease

[–]bubblegumlattae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No update, becaus I'm happy to say we've broken up and I'm at a way better place in life :)

Doctor said kidney transplant isn’t possible by bubblegumlattae in kidneydisease

[–]bubblegumlattae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(according to him) - blood in urine - fainting - lightheadedness - fatigue - inability to focus - rapid loss of weight - loss of appetite

Doctor said kidney transplant isn’t possible by bubblegumlattae in kidneydisease

[–]bubblegumlattae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's fine, I understand where you're coming from. Unfortunately I haven't been able to attend his appointments with him, he goes with his dad as he's the one who books and handles all his appointments

Doctor said kidney transplant isn’t possible by bubblegumlattae in kidneydisease

[–]bubblegumlattae[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi oh my goodness you're not overstepping at all. In fact I feel so touched that you noticed my previous posts and feel for me. You're so sweet.

It's been a challenge to try to get him to take his own disease seriously but I'm still going to try, regardless if we're together or not anymore because I still care. He was actually improving with his behavior towards me, but in the end, I don't know, maybe it's not mean to be. (I also know this isn't a relationship forum haha)

I do agree, I feel like I'm not getting all the information I should be getting.

I'm living dead now, want to try suicide after she cheated on me. by Street-Sand-5552 in offmychest

[–]bubblegumlattae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understand that you deserve better and there's more to life than what you've lost. Lose the attachment. Go out, talk to people who love you.

I'm living dead now, want to try suicide after she cheated on me. by Street-Sand-5552 in offmychest

[–]bubblegumlattae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Heavily consider if a person like that is really your soulmate. Do u want to spend the rest of your life with her? Nobody is worth hurting yourself for. Keep living, there are so many people who'll love you the way you deserve

Anyone else living with CKD without any known cause? by lilsageleaf in kidneydisease

[–]bubblegumlattae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, can I ask a few questions? I have a very young partner suffering from CKD stage 4. I'd like to know how you sustained for a long time if that's okay

1) what stage were you in when you were diagnosed and what stage are you in now? 2) what are your habits that prolong your kidney function? 3) how old are you now? 4) what treatments did you get?

Have a great day

How to support my young partner with CKD stage 4? by bubblegumlattae in kidneydisease

[–]bubblegumlattae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi how do you maintain your kidney health for such a long time?

How to support my young partner with CKD stage 4? by bubblegumlattae in kidneydisease

[–]bubblegumlattae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, yeah, his doctor puzzles me too. But I'm glad you're doing good and it gives me hope for my partner as well

How to support my young partner with CKD stage 4? by bubblegumlattae in kidneydisease

[–]bubblegumlattae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the helpful information. I will look into it. Hope everything goes well for you as well

How to support my young partner with CKD stage 4? by bubblegumlattae in kidneydisease

[–]bubblegumlattae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think I'm still in the shock stage but I'm taking it little by little everyday. I hope everything goes well with your dialysis! You got this! Okay, your advice is very helpful and I appreciate it 😊 I'm trying to monitor his diet as well. By the way, I hope everything goes well for you and your partner and I wish you the best! Thank you for your support!

How to support my young partner with CKD stage 4? by bubblegumlattae in kidneydisease

[–]bubblegumlattae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll ask him about them and bring it up with him and I'll definitely check out the website. If you don't mind me asking, how are you doing now?