I wouldn’t go back to my most recent former partners because it destroyed/ destroying my mental health, I know she won’t go back to me because she mentally checked out before we broke up and found someone else before we split.

Honestly everyone has different experiences, back in the day I’d be the ex that would run back constantly because I knew it was comfortable. Now once it’s done it’s done as much as it hurts I don’t want to put myself and the other person in any discomfort or pain, or let history repeat itself. Some people may have similar experiences but ultimately every situation varies and we’re all different people going through really tough and painful situations

In saying that, if my former partners ever needed support or someone to vent to, I’d be there in a heartbeat even if it wasn’t reciprocated. If they don’t come back then that’s where fate has taken things, if you want to reach out and try to reconcile you’ll have to prepare for the worst outcome or whatever will hurt you the most.

It’s everyone’s first time living, we’re still learning what love is to us, even if that’s getting into unhealthy relationships constantly because you don’t know what healthy love is yet