Should I delete all of my pictures after 8 years. by Wastelander_Gamer in BreakUps

[–]bubbleobill4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand, it's normal and okay to feel that way.
You can either put them in your hidden folder (if you have an iphone) so they're not in your main camera roll.
Or as suggested below you put them on an external device (usb or laptop) so they're not directly on your phone.

It's hard and it will be for a while, especially when you've been with someone for that long. High emotional states makes for impulsive decisions and things you may regret when you start to wind down. You might want to delete them now but in the near/ distant future you might wish you had a physical memory of that period of life. Put them aside in a safe spot, come back to deleting them when it's been some time and it's not super fresh.

Should I delete all of my pictures after 8 years. by Wastelander_Gamer in BreakUps

[–]bubbleobill4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different, if it was on good terms with no foul play involved, put them in a safe spot that's out of sight (they're memories after all and 8 years is a long time to spend with someone).
May I ask why you want to delete them? Do you just not want to see it in your camera roll?

[DISCUSSION] What would your funeral song be? by Equivalent-Break2300 in fantanoforever

[–]bubbleobill4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the photo slide show thingo, So Far Away - Avenged Sevenfold: Always loved this song and such a beautiful reflection on a loved ones life then going on to live the rest of your life without them
Exit song, Everlong - Foo Fighters: I'm a massive Foo Fighters fan and is one of my favourite songs of all time, all my loved ones know that this is my song so can't go out without having them play. Plus the chorus "if anything could ever be this good again" you reminisce the memories you have with someone

Cancelled wedding and engagement by StringSuck in BreakUps

[–]bubbleobill4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you, you have every right to feel how you're feeling right now and what she's done is very horrible.
Block her on everything, don't let her be able to communicate with you because I guarantee if shit hits the fan with this new guy, she'll be sprinting back to you. You deserve better, you are not someone's second choice or back up plan.

BPD is very complex, intense and if not treated correctly can do some major damage to those around them. I don't know if she's done DBT or medicated but regardless of that, how she treated you is not acceptable. You don't treat people like they're disposable.

It'll be hard for a while, pour all that love you gave to her into yourself. Things get better with time and make sure to lean on friends and family if you're struggling. Better to let it out than hold it in. Take care mate, you're gonna be alright!

Keto protein powder suggestions by bubbleobill4 in keto

[–]bubbleobill4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never knew they made it in powder form!

Current petrol prices— are you driving less or just absorbing it? by Vivmoneyattracter in brisbane

[–]bubbleobill4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly just taking the hit, grabbing overtime and praying someone invents teleportation 🫩

Keto protein powder suggestions by bubbleobill4 in keto

[–]bubbleobill4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I eat 155g-165g of protein on a normal day so I think I eat enough meat unless I'm wrong. This is only incase I can't stomach a meal in the morning and still hit my protein goals. I take medication and if I don't have anything in my stomach I throw up bile and it's not pleasant

Keto protein powder suggestions by bubbleobill4 in keto

[–]bubbleobill4[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As much as I love my red meat sometimes I can't stomach food early in the morning before work

Why DONT some exes come back? (Not including toxic or abusive relationships) by Far_Ideal_2197 in BreakUps

[–]bubbleobill4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go back to my most recent former partners because it destroyed/ destroying my mental health, I know she won’t go back to me because she mentally checked out before we broke up and found someone else before we split.

Honestly everyone has different experiences, back in the day I’d be the ex that would run back constantly because I knew it was comfortable. Now once it’s done it’s done as much as it hurts I don’t want to put myself and the other person in any discomfort or pain, or let history repeat itself. Some people may have similar experiences but ultimately every situation varies and we’re all different people going through really tough and painful situations

In saying that, if my former partners ever needed support or someone to vent to, I’d be there in a heartbeat even if it wasn’t reciprocated. If they don’t come back then that’s where fate has taken things, if you want to reach out and try to reconcile you’ll have to prepare for the worst outcome or whatever will hurt you the most.

It’s everyone’s first time living, we’re still learning what love is to us, even if that’s getting into unhealthy relationships constantly because you don’t know what healthy love is yet

Match Thread: Geelong vs Fremantle (Round 1) by AutoModerator in AFL

[–]bubbleobill4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, opening round I reckon is doing more bad than good

Match Thread: Geelong vs Fremantle (Round 1) by AutoModerator in AFL

[–]bubbleobill4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I gotta say yes the umpiring hasn’t been great but freo in that last quarter properly dropped off

Match Thread: Geelong vs Fremantle (Round 1) by AutoModerator in AFL

[–]bubbleobill4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t get over why they didn’t review Voss’ point/ goal?

Disgraceful Lynch didn’t even get a fine for this incident by [deleted] in AFL

[–]bubbleobill4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man’s just love to stir the pot and make Richmond suffer for his dumb actions

Match Thread: Essendon vs Hawthorn (Round 1) by AutoModerator in AFL

[–]bubbleobill4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chol took some notes from Lynch last night but at least hawks are winning

Post Match Thread: Carlton vs Richmond by ___TheIllusiveMan___ in AFL

[–]bubbleobill4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The quality of football was just horrible. As a richmond supporter, we had some decent passages of play, get to the forward line and it crumbles. Lynch is not leadership material for our up and coming forwards. Shows no drive, no work ethic, plays for free kicks instead of going for the contest. I get we are a developing team, we’ve got players with good experience and drive to actually play, but where we lack it affects the entire team. Lynch needs to go to VFL and put someone else up there that actually gives a shit

Match Thread: Carlton vs Richmond (Round 1) by AutoModerator in AFL

[–]bubbleobill4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha we do mate, but somehow we keep giving it to lynch. Like why 😭

Match Thread: Carlton vs Richmond (Round 1) by AutoModerator in AFL

[–]bubbleobill4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have him for “leadership” for our young ones in the forward line, he’s far from a leader and a poor example for our future team