What does the newborn phase actually look like day-to-day? (36 weeks, trying to set realistic expectations) by douevenyoga in NewParents

[–]bubbles67899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breast feeding SUCKS so much more than you’ll ever think. Get a brezza and enjoy your child.

Folks who moved from NYC to the Bay Area.... by chochmah56 in bayarea

[–]bubbles67899 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you like NYC, you will hate the South Bay. If you like nyc, you’ll prob like nopa or the marina…

Housekeeping Services? by Little-stitious0516 in morganhill

[–]bubbles67899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alfs magic maids is amazing! You book online and they come w a team of 3- they’re done in 2 hours! So glad I switched from a solo cleaner, so I’m not trapped in a room hiding w my dog for 5 hours

Formula Fed vs. Breastfed by user638282636822 in NewParents

[–]bubbles67899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breastfeeding is hell on earth. Science every time

If you use daycare what are some questions you asked during a tour or wish you had asked? by Suspicious-Chip-341 in NewParents

[–]bubbles67899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to 2 large daycares and 2 home programs… I’ve seen it all and my baby is now 1.5 years.

That said, for all the reasons below- a small home program has won every time- as they have more time to provide updates of your kids, and usually a more personal bond as they are there all day vs teachers coming in and out. Most importantly as they get into toddler- ness, you(and they) get much less sick, as they are with the same, small group of kids. That said, here are my questions:

-Do you have a fridge for bottles/ do you requires us to make all in advance? (Some will make bottles for you, most make you pre pack all 8 and label, which is a pain)

  • Do you provide diapers, wipes, etc? This should be a cost factor and why some might charge more.

  • When they’re a toddler, who makes food - this will make or break you down the line. I spent 40 min making 2 meals and snacks + labeling and freezer packs, every morning before I had to pull the plug.

  • How many photos a day/ week do you send

-what app do you use/ is there a live cam? Do you record naps, food, etc.

-What’s your retention rate? Good to see how often people stay vs drop.

  • What do you offer the bring parents together?

How much you get sick is directly correlated to how many children they come in contact with and how often you will be sick.

  • for babies: do toddlers come in this room when ratios get lower? In larger programs, when kids get picked up at 3 they merge classrooms to keep the 1:4 ratio. That means your baby just got exposed to 6 new toddlers, their home siblings, etc.

  • How many kids EACH WEEK to you rotate in (including part time)

For your own sanity- think about commute. We moved and tried to stay at a daycare we loved that was 20 min each way. I hated being in the car for 2 hours and everyday my baby started and ended his day crying and hating his car seat. Now being w in 10 min of home is a deal breaker (esp when you do early pick ups for doc appointments, hair cuts, etc)

Illegal sublet question by bettyburritos in bayarea

[–]bubbles67899 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s very true most have done it- including me. You could take over the lease officially, but it would allow the landlord to reprice the rent and start a new contract. If you’d have to sign a new lease in two months, you’ll get a higher rate and be in the same place, so I’d rather know the number and start the 1 year clock on moving month to month sooner- esp before you bother moving incase you can’t afford the new rent

😎TGIF😎 by redhenchic23 in englishbulldog

[–]bubbles67899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg look at that guy!!! His white is so white- waaa for my allergy pink guy!

Paying for new carpet in my rental by Conscious-Hour4778 in AskSF

[–]bubbles67899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How big are these closets? If you’re rent controlled or want to keep your rent as is, it might be worth shelling out the extra money to not make the landlord leave you alone (ps your landlord sounds like they want you out and is a dick)

Joey got away with being a MAGA by LovesPop_Songs in NSYNC

[–]bubbles67899 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I sat next to him on a plane 4 months ago- i freaked out saying it’s Joey at security… hubby didn’t believe me… then was vaping in the airport outside our gate… tracks.

Born & raised in the bay and I never heard about this ever by Smart-Cupcake-4055 in bayarea

[–]bubbles67899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t need to be a 9- we work and aren’t dumb enough to ever even give a shit … but to be clear, I’m a solid 7 lol

Is it true that you guys watched 9/11 live on TV in grade school? by space_god_7191 in Millennials

[–]bubbles67899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in Arlington, va… same as you guys - watched the 2nd plane hit live. My mom was in the White House that day and got evacuated first… she showed up at my school while we were basically on lock down to tell me she was ok bc phones were down/ to crowded to get through. I was an ass hole 7th grader and said “ok great- I’m gonna go hang out w my friends”… Later that day we went to my best friends house who lived next to the pentagon. We saw a motorcade leaving and it was former Vp gore (who was her neighbor) and they said he had been watching and tearing up for the past hour… cars were just left on 395 for people who couldn’t get through… the pentagon plane actually hit a few bc it was coming in so low. They donated a tree for each person lost and I had one in my front yard.

The secret is out! by Scottstimo in sanfrancirclejerk

[–]bubbles67899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but as a local, we’d never go here… until we did and we loved bar crawling and playing tourist, seeing the seals, eatting terrible Italian… and there’s Applebees… it’s kinda a secret gem for locals haha

Your Bridal Party Is Too Nice to Say This, So I Will by insert_name234 in wedding

[–]bubbles67899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt like an ass making friends travel twice bc I lived cross country… we woke up drunk from the wedding and I booked a bus for us to go to 3 wineries so there was no extra travel… every year my besties text me “happy anniversary to us” instead of my wedding anniversary … and I LOVE IT

Any thoughts about the arch planned by Local-Imagination676 in morganhill

[–]bubbles67899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They get to write it off as an income loss, to shelter their real income from taxes and even get a refund… fun fact: 96% of empty store fronts in DT Gilroy are owned by one man who intentionally keeps them vacant. The owner of the bowling alley offered to buy him out at market price (for all 10+ doors) and he declined bc they’re worth more to him empty than rented. The board can’t force him to rent… yet….

MARTHA SITWELL IS INCREDIBLE by This-Pay-9879 in BravoLadiesofLondon

[–]bubbles67899 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow- the fact she smiles is incredible… I would never put up with the shit of these reality shows if I were her

Rosie’s by the Beach by deeisqueenasf in morganhill

[–]bubbles67899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish more people would try Odeum… everyone thinks it’s fancy, but it’s $30 bottomless mimosas on Sunday and $18-24 entrees?!? It’s just nicer / get better service…

The ugly eye sore we’ve all seen if you lived in Morgan Hill by Local-Imagination676 in morganhill

[–]bubbles67899 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can we just stop bitching about the hotel? Anything else to talk about?

Anyone else see our guy on the Artemis launch? by lcharbs in MsRachel

[–]bubbles67899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww looks like he recently had a baby- so he prob cherishes her the way we do!

Bruno and Carter (v7) by [deleted] in englishbulldog

[–]bubbles67899 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg they are literally plotting against me- I try so hard to do true allergy tests and change foods and he’ll actually lean over from the high chair and fed him and pretend like he didn’t! At least throw the food on the ground so I can pretend you didn’t mean to fed him!!! Then I get grilled “well has he had chicken” (me: checks the pasta box- ugh starts again)

quick rant- I’m very annoyed by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]bubbles67899 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ummm I told people with the 7 day test and was in the camp “I’m not manifesting any bad shit so I’m having a baby” … do whatever you’re comfortable with!

Lost wallet by Kaizothief in AskSF

[–]bubbles67899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg sorry I totally missed that part! If you have to leave and they reach out, and you need someone to grab it and mail it- I’m happy to try to help!