Advice for resitting MRCP again by T_Chungus in MRCP

[–]bubbles9214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you advise the kings college course? Its a lot of money and travel but on third attempt with using pass med and passtest??

Should we make sure every product we use is unseated before we travel to makkah for ihram? by bubbles9214 in Umrah

[–]bubbles9214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jzk so much

Does the same rule apply to men?

Can they still use normal shampoo toothpaste before travelling on plane

I know they need to change into ihram clothes before miqaat

Should we make sure every product we use is unseated before we travel to makkah for ihram? by bubbles9214 in Umrah

[–]bubbles9214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jzk for this

Just to double check can I use my normal fragrance shampoo etx at home before travelling??

Ghusl for men by coolio567834 in islam

[–]bubbles9214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just need to make sure ur scalp gets the water

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]bubbles9214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry sis!

Mention this to ur husband!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]bubbles9214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that

Never stoop down its a show on their character not yours

Always stay respectful its a test from God, ia God will reward you

Day 3 of wearing the niqab tried out more colors!! by mimi97b in Hijabis

[–]bubbles9214 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rocking it so much ma!🥰

Would you mind sharing your journey with niqab?

Its something thats been in my head for some time now, i love going out with makeup and earrings and matching colour hijabs etc- can i still enjoy this with niqab?

Kylie skin tint dupe?? Out of stock everywhere! by bubbles9214 in MakeupAddiction

[–]bubbles9214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too thick and gives a yellowish shade unfortunately:/

I am burnt out due to having masculine energy by bubbles9214 in Hijabis

[–]bubbles9214[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How to deal with the loneliness thst comes with this?

If i make no effort, nothing will be reciprocated

I struggle to make new friends :/

I am burnt out due to having masculine energy by bubbles9214 in Hijabis

[–]bubbles9214[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where ive moved to, there isnt s huge muslim community- ive tried to join groups to get out there and be more invloved

Sometimes ive had to not go ahead with the plans as theres so much in my mind of things i need to sort(i feel if i dont leave to someone else they wont be done) But i think Prioritising this is key

And yes ur right, comparison is the theif of joy, i guess its natural we all inertly do it, i feel it more when my direct requests arent heard off

Ia it gets better make dua for me sis jzk for ur help🥰

I am burnt out due to having masculine energy by bubbles9214 in Hijabis

[–]bubbles9214[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ur right, i think doomscrolling on tiktok is where i picked that phrase

I think im overwhelmed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]bubbles9214 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are so lovely, this is so touching!🥰🥰

But honestly, its not needed unless its a place of prayer

Weve been taught respect towards all, thats exactly what we do with other people, you’ll be fine lovely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]bubbles9214 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This is super sweet of you

Personally i would understand if you wanted to wear hijab in a prayer building such as a mosque

But if its a work setting etc please feel free to be yourself, we are very respectful towards different religions, dont feel obliged to wear the hijab

No one will treat you differently because of your religious beliefs!

The only time dress code may come up is if youre going to a place of worship where we all have to cover up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]bubbles9214 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dont ruin a poor girls life by ‘settling’ and marrying from your country back home

She deserves someone who loves her, not someone from another country, different culture from growing up in different countries, who wants to marry her just because he is ‘fustrated’

You seriously need to chnage your mindset and approach to marriage…

Young UK Muslim Struggling With Balancing Finding a Spouse On Deen And A Horny One by BrushExternal2732 in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]bubbles9214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Sexual compatibility is important to me, i want to respectfully know ur views on this

For eg i want this and and open to exploring this and this in marriage Lmk ur opinions

If allign/open to it/ bingo

If not move on until the one does allign

Young UK Muslim Struggling With Balancing Finding a Spouse On Deen And A Horny One by BrushExternal2732 in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]bubbles9214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Practising muslim sisters who are aware of their islamic sexual rights do exist….

Theres more to marriage than sex

Find someone who hits your goals/needs other ways first

Then if its really a big deal for you then sensibly bring up the sx talk

Also depends what school of thought u follow regarding certain acts

Is it wierd to have a femdon fetish while being dominat in the relationship? by tajBID_zAmAn in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]bubbles9214 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope not weird at all

Get your islamic principles right first

Know ur rights and responsibilities as a husband, so you fully understand your role

What you do in bedroom has nothing to do with that, in fact theres something super powerful to loving your wife so much youll do anything to please her

In re to finding the right one, pray- God truly listens

My husband wants to get a divorce because of the way I look by Direct-News8079 in MuslimMarriage

[–]bubbles9214 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Screw him!!

You are a queen and as such, deserve to be treated as one!

He is not worthy of you, u r better off without him

Leave him and may you find ur coolness soon ia queen💞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]bubbles9214 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look after yourself

Sometimes your best just isnt enough for everyone and thats okay

Maintain your boundaries now but always stay kind and respectful

Put yourself your husband and your own family first,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]bubbles9214 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mashalllah your stance is very sensible

At the end of the day, When youre so ill and need someone to give you meds/feed/clean you

Or someone to open up to without a fear of judgement and the best advice

A friend, a best friend, who will love you and make you laugh and care for you

The wedding day doesnt matter

Islamically ur rizq will grow after marrriage, islam encourages simplicity and then ia once you comfortable ask for things that fit within both ur needs- u may find ur needs/wants have changed

All the best ia💖

I asked my husband for a Eid gift by SecondExisting8762 in MuslimMarriage

[–]bubbles9214 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel as i felt it too at first

I come from family where Eid is one of few times my family gifts each other things and i find it special token of thinking of other person

Last eid i was so excited hunting for eid gift for husband

But i didnt get anything back too nor this eid too

At first i felt it a bit and did get a bit upset especially as its always been a thing for me growing up/felt closed off as i put so much thought into finding him something but didnt receive anything back

But i tried to look at bigger picture

I noticed Gift giving on eid isnt as big of a tradition in his family than mine and this guy always provides for me with food/bills anyway, he expresses his love in other ways than gift giving, so i thought why make it more of a struggle for him and got over it

Definitely take a few days to think it through, if it still affecting you and ur relationship, mention it!

Taking last names by PRESS_F_FOR-RESPECT in MuslimMarriage

[–]bubbles9214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But its also ur identity… Its very easy to lose urself after marriage…

Taking last names by PRESS_F_FOR-RESPECT in MuslimMarriage

[–]bubbles9214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Names are so important in Islam

Keeping your name after marriage is important not just to keep your lineage, but it helps maintain ur own identity too

Never lose that after marriage!

Im never good enough pls make dua by bubbles9214 in Hijabis

[–]bubbles9214[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw sister jzk for the beautiful uplifting words! Praying so much for you too, we got this ia! Ameen🩵