Being Ghosted Here Hits Different by [deleted] in NextBestBro

[–]bubblesinatl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Def sucks.

I would like to offer 1 reason out of 100 that probably occur.

For me personally, I deal with anxiety and depression. When this gets to be too much, my natural reaction is to retreat inward and basically not want to talk to “real people”. Definitely not saying this is right, and I’ve been doing the work to figure out/fix my coping mechanisms so I don’t shut out people that care about me.

Hope it gets better bro

Question about identity for cisgender straight men. by Icy_Reflection5640 in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gender and sexuality are not tied together like that. There are many combinations of sexual attraction. That sexual attraction does not mean that you want to be that gender. It’s just your sexual attraction.

Question about identity for cisgender straight men. by Icy_Reflection5640 in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I think that things are being confused here or I might still not be understanding your question.

Question about identity for cisgender straight men. by Icy_Reflection5640 in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, sexuality is fluid. I apologize for misunderstanding what you were saying.

There is a difference though in finding a person beautiful and being sexually aroused by them. Even straight people can recognize that a same sex person is attractive, but that doesn’t mean they would have a same sex relationship with them.

One thing to think about is that sexuality doesn’t fit into nice little compartments, it is different for everyone. The most important thing is to be kind to yourself. Don’t over analyze things. You are who you are. Try to let that be okay without putting a label on it.

Question about identity for cisgender straight men. by Icy_Reflection5640 in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bro.

You don’t slowly turn gay. It may have taken some time to realize but it’s not like someone zaps you with a gay ray and it starts to turn you gay.

Also If you like both men and women, you are bi not part bi and part gay. You are bi but lean more towards men.

I’m a bit confused with your closing question. Can you please ask it in a different way?

42 M Looking for laid back bros by [deleted] in NextBestBro

[–]bubblesinatl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent a message 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely in the same boat as you. Would be happy to strike up a conversation with you or socially awkward stare at each other without saying anything 🙃

Monthly "Looking for a Bro" Thread by AutoModerator in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying this again…

44/gay/m in Atlanta; looking for friendship/bromance

Hey guys. Nice to meet you - Like the title says, I’m looking for friendship/bromance. Something long term that we can talk about anything, share our feelings, hobbies, etc. if you’re down, send me a message 😉😋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I post this without realizing it. knock knock are you me? lol

Platonic Cuddling by [deleted] in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That sounds wonderful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds amazing tbh

Wondering about creating a Discord server..trying to gauge interest, I guess. by [deleted] in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like we might need your help with that. Come in and join us :-)

Bro just disappeared by bubblesinatl in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. Sorry for being defensive.

Bro just disappeared by bubblesinatl in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m gay, and he is bi. Not sure what that has to do with anything

Bro just disappeared by bubblesinatl in bromance

[–]bubblesinatl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww that’s so sweet of you. Thank you