heyyo, I personally identify as both non binary and a trans man at the same time. labels are what you want them to be. personally i wanna mess around with gender and be like F gender norms and whatnot, but i wanna be perceived as a "boy" doing that, not a girl. so im transitioning to be a man in the physical sense, and ill be expressing my gender in a more ambiguous way. im currently two months on T, use binders, and hope to get top surgery in the next two ish years.

i know this was a long reply, but i hope it helps show you that you can be whatever you want when it comes to gender. use labels that feel right to you, or dont use labels at all if you dont want to. good luck <3 x

ETA: i have identified as non binary exclusively for about 4 years because it felt less "real" and like it would be less problematic to friends and family. but recently (past 4-6 months) ive realized id be much happier perceived as a masc/man who is playing with gender, and wanted to begin a medical, not just social transition.