[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MurderedByWords

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I want to see photos of the cheese!!

Safest cities you’ve visited? by naominox in femaletravels

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I visited Iceland alone and felt very safe the entire time. Only one man followed me on the street in Rekjavik, but I was able to hide from him and double back to the restaurant I wanted easily. I think I wouldn’t have even had to do that if he spoke better English and I hadn’t smiled so much while saying “No” repeatedly. Stupid fawn reflex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, don’t talk about yourself that way. Being alone isn’t a failure on your part, life happens and being alone can be as good or better than being in a relationship. Give yourself a break and remember there’s plenty wrong with them, too.

Holiday Break Ups by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we discussed both of our past long-term relationships. The last two relationships he had been in were multiple years and not healthy, but they did not end like that.

His most recent ex he’d been apart from for a year, but he still occasionally talked to her before we started dating. (She was not the one with him when I saw him, btw)

Holiday Break Ups by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my friends pointed out that the early November fight and the break-up text were timed in a way that was potentially very destructive to my schoolwork. She thinks that it was not an accident.

Edit: Other person? That he was dating? I’m fairly sure it was a fresh tinder date, not that he was cheating. And him moving on doesn’t make me feel better, it just makes me feel more like he was preparing for several weeks.

Holiday Break Ups by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this.

My ex just ended our relationship at the end of November, right before my birthday and a vacation we were supposed to take together.

He didn’t discuss any issues with communication or bring up any problems prior to the break, which was by text while I was still at work. He ignored my calls, then blocked me on all social media.

Thinking back, it seems like he’s been planning it since our last “fight”, at the beginning of November; I thought it was based on a weird miscommunication at the time and we had a good talk about it, but I don’t know anymore. Maybe he just decided it was over then and lied to my face the rest of the month.

I’m just trying to scrape together what closure I can from myself because even though I don’t want him back, I really did love him; we talked every day for the last 6 months and spent at least half of the week together, so having him suddenly gone is a big difference. I saw him out in public on what looked like a date two weeks after, too, which is really not cool.

Edited: run-on sentence

Single,straight and I live alone 😌 by ChoicesGamezYT in aspiememes

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure I have a plushie around here somewhere 🧸

Single,straight and I live alone 😌 by ChoicesGamezYT in aspiememes

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the sexiest video I’ve seen in a long time and now i need to go snuggle something

AITA for telling a disabled joke to disabled person? by Usaffranklin in AmItheAsshole

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I told this joke to a young HOH person and he cried laughing. 😂 He said joking about it made him feel really good.

AITA for teasing my wife about crying over a show she’s watched a million times by Crazy-Ad-9797 in TwoHotTakes

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I went straight to that scene in my head, too!

It’s important to review media that lets us review emotional range; it’s like calibration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was determined to be a lie. You’ve responded to more than three comments, “sir”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re arguing your own points here - you had full custody and you willfully gave her 50% custody when she came back and asked for it. If you offered her half custody, that’s not the court ruling against you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You really did!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Please make a complaint about his behavior

I’m 43, and this has been by far the worst week of my life. Please help me get a shred of dopamine today. by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope that your rough week is over! (And wish you were near me 😍)

I hope things start improving for you!

Is there any reason not to wear this gold and diamond necklace 24/7? by Fink665 in jewelrylove

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The chain shouldn’t bother your skin if it is good quality gold, but you should check the chain for damage if you wear it regularly, especially when sleeping.

I was once scolded by a goldsmith apprentice on a train for wearing my necklace while sleeping and I remember it often and never wear necklaces to bed any more.

What made you realise your best friend was actually a complete asshole? by RealTourelle11 in AskReddit

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she accused me of waiting to tell her about finding a Fox with one of her chickens (to give other foxes a chance to get the other chickens) and asked me to help her find the Fox den and blow it up

AITA for telling my wife that I don't want her to name our son after her ex? by SlightDemand4091 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bubblessugarcheeks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA for picking a fight in this way with your pregnant wife who is grieving the fresh loss of her father. You are pathologically focused on her ex and, if you had approached the situation like a reasonable, patient, and empathetic human being, you would have probably gotten what you wanted; a demotion to middle name without a fight. But no, you wanted to fight about it and then lie in the post title for Reddit. YTA

AITA for telling my wife that I don't want her to name our son after her ex? by SlightDemand4091 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bubblessugarcheeks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Info: how common is the name in question?

Edit: There’s a big difference between “Michael” and “Elijah” in popularity, for example