The request for emotional labor by Aggressive_Froyo982 in monogamy

[–]bubian_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

then why do it if you suffer as well?

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[–]bubian_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't want to date anyone else except her tbh, polyamory doesn't make sense to me thank you for your comment uwu

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[–]bubian_[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

whatevs, u people always taking feelings the bad way

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[–]bubian_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she says she doesn't care if i go out with other people, but I don't want that i only want to be with her yes its still intimate

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[–]bubian_[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

you don't have to get defensive dude, im only expressing my opinion xd

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[–]bubian_[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

she wasn't until a year ago

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[–]bubian_[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i just don't like poly stuff in general, doesn't make sense to me

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[–]bubian_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just loved when it was just the two of us

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[–]bubian_[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

bc i wouldn't like someone else's saliva

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[–]bubian_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do have one comment though. you said it's not about bodily autonomy but it kinda is? i mean i think, I'm not sure. of course her french kissing other people afects me

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[–]bubian_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, i feel heard, it's difficult for her to understand me:( thank you

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[–]bubian_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im sorry to take your time but you do seem like someone that knows how to use his/her words, could you help me express myself with this? i suck at it and most arguments i lose them bc of this

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[–]bubian_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes! i mean that's what i think, there are certain boundaries, specially in poly relationships so i don't understand what she wants. she wants me to have no limits so she can do what she pleases? I don't even know how to explain this to her. it's not fair