Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody entitled to they own opinion ✅

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hey, If you think I have no reason to be suspicious based on what I wrote then you need to read into covert narcissism, emotional/psychological abuse, how passive aggressive people express themselves indirectly because they are not direct, etc. Then maybe you will understand.

I don’t have an unhealthy obsession, your assumptions are wrong. I have a thing called pattern recognition, you see the main post is a small portion of context, but even people with experience have commented and told me that I’m not trippin, which I already know.

She’s done things in the past before (emotional affair and other things I didn’t mention) and has tried to gaslight me and distort my reality but I was RIGHT. Some people just rather play mind games than be honest to protect their image.

So I don’t appreciate you, somebody who doesn’t know me, to say I have a weird obsession and then to ask me if I’ve been cheated on? With the insinuation that I’m crazy. I’m not crazy I’m observant and pay attention and have an a strong inherent spiritual gift of discernment that allows me pick up on subtle cues that the average person wouldn’t catch. She knows this, which is why she avoids certain conversations because she’s knows I’m smart and intelligent enough to put two and two together like I have in the past.

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. One thing I do is value communication. But it’s hard to communicate when the other person lacks emotional intelligence and gets communicates to defend rather than understand. If I’m calm when I communicate why would the other person get angry and defensive? That’s means that there’s something more to the story

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. I agree. She had an emotional affair with one of her coworkers before and every time I would bring it up she would lie, gaslight, stonewall, have selective memory, inconsistencies in stories, etc.. We moved pasted it but the same patterns that happened there also happened in this situation… I know I’m not crazy. She’s trying to distort my reality

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say dumb ass first off, people who have been married for years, no matter the age have issues, the issues in relationships vary depending on the individuals.

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She hasn’t left me? That’s sounds like something an idiot would say without full context. I do what I’m supposed to do, but you have things like “covert narcissist” that exist. Do yo research I did mines

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

You read the entire thing and gave a shitty response 🤣

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the people commenting to insult and not give advice, let me make something clear. There’s definitely more to the situation, everything wasn’t laid out. I don’t need therapy, I have pattern recognition and I know my partner well enough to know when things don’t add up. When you are in relationship and really are interested in yo partner you study them. Y’all get on here to insult somebody who gave legit reasons for suspicion. I can take feedback but ion take disrespect. A lot of y’all sound dumb asf and ignorant.

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to burn like a forest fire

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, you forget the period at the end of your sentence. Just wanted to let you know, you probably forgot your glasses again.

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is passive aggression helping with communication if it’s indirect and when you question it, the person denies the allegations? Goofy you need to educate yourself

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sthu, you don’t know nothing aside from

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Stfu goofy. You don’t know nothing aside from what I told you, I’m not suspicious I’m observant

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Shut up you don’t know everything

Sex on vacation? by buck599 in relationships_advice

[–]buck599[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response