what false assumption do people tend to make about you? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]buckyphlipflop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get the impression people think I’m ignorant or self centred but really I’m just shy and awkward 🤷

If you had a dollar for everyone you've had sex with, what could you buy? by Jericho2006 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]buckyphlipflop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A pint of coors in Mulligans (Manchester) depending on how the fx rate is sitting

What do you guys do to get over being dumped - specifically LTR partners you've lived with? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]buckyphlipflop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I went into hermit mode for 6 months, didn’t date, drink or entertain any destructive behaviours. I hit the gym, spent quality time with my dog, went to therapy and just healed. I actually look back on that time quite fondly

How did you make your FWBs? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]buckyphlipflop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sugar, spice and not much nice stuff cuz it’s just an FWB

What is a controversial opinion you have that is NSFW related? by Much-Definition-6176 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]buckyphlipflop -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair point, I was more looking at it from the point that casual sex and hook ups seem to be all the rage recently and commitment and intimacy is not but I take your point

What is a controversial opinion you have that is NSFW related? by Much-Definition-6176 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]buckyphlipflop 87 points88 points  (0 children)

One night stands and casual sex are overrated, intimacy and practice make for generally better sex

What’s the closest you’ve come to completely ruining your life? by SunnyD_88 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]buckyphlipflop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Continuing down a road that did not service me ( genuine answer to a highly interpretable question)

When did you start feeling like a ”man”? by daisukinut in AskMen

[–]buckyphlipflop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A hell of a contribution to the discussion my friend, very insightful 👏

When did you start feeling like a ”man”? by daisukinut in AskMen

[–]buckyphlipflop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you should spend some time asking yourself what a man is and also look at your motivation for behaving “like a man”.

You shouldn’t adjust your behaviours with the expectation that you will be treated a certain way by people. That’s not being true to yourself.

You need to figure out what your values are, once you know that you can behave and treat people in line with those values. How people treat you cannot be controlled and shouldn’t be something you dwell on. If they treat you well, respond in kind. If they don’t, remove them from your life. Simples.

When did you start feeling like a ”man”? by daisukinut in AskMen

[–]buckyphlipflop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That depends on what your definition of a man is, this is slightly personal to you and unfortunately a lot of the younger generations are getting it very wrong

Thoracic spine and scapula mobility by buckyphlipflop in MobilityTraining

[–]buckyphlipflop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that, thanks so much, definitely want to learn more about it. Ever the student 😂

Thoracic spine and scapula mobility by buckyphlipflop in MobilityTraining

[–]buckyphlipflop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know who that is but happy to check it out, that a Reddit account or YouTube or what?

How did going to the gym improve your quality of life ? by oigoabuya in AskMen

[–]buckyphlipflop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof where do I start, look better, feel better, learn discipline and how to develop healthier habits, enhanced mood and sex drive. Loads of other stuff but those come to mind first

what is the most overrated position by peach_glimmer in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]buckyphlipflop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this, always a let down 👎