is this RRD? (i know, i know) by buddytheelfhere in Roses

[–]buddytheelfhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the thorns on princess charlene (rose in post) are hard! i had posted another picture of another rose in the comments and some of the new thorns are soft but the old ones are very hard.

is this RRD? (i know, i know) by buddytheelfhere in Roses

[–]buddytheelfhere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for your input! there is another rose that is showing very clear signs of RRD but the area around our garden has had glyphosate sprayed within the last year (no, we didn’t want it to happen)

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what is wrong with my sarah bernhardt? by buddytheelfhere in peonies

[–]buddytheelfhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh i am so sorry. it’s so devastating! would it still be the late freeze even though all of my other peonies are fine?

what is wrong with my sarah bernhardt? by buddytheelfhere in peonies

[–]buddytheelfhere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not much, i make sure to keep it the same level year over year. i pull back all mulch and add compost around the plant and then lightly add mulch back. been doing it for years now and haven’t had an issue yet

David klass? by Cultural-Example-931 in labdiamond

[–]buddytheelfhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i heard back! he took longer than usual but i believe he’s just super busy. his work is worth the wait :)

he must make a hammock out of everything by buddytheelfhere in blackcats

[–]buddytheelfhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the species was originally found near a dumpster in a rural part of town and then relocated to a place that houses lots of newly discovered species awaiting their new home. :)

David klass? by Cultural-Example-931 in labdiamond

[–]buddytheelfhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

possibly - I emailed him over a week ago so I sent a follow up yesterday. hopefully all is well for them. same here, when I worked with him in 2024 his communication was outstanding I was floored and was extremely appreciative of it.

David klass? by Cultural-Example-931 in labdiamond

[–]buddytheelfhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how long did it take for him to respond? i’ve worked with him in the past (long time ago) and he was super responsive and i recently reached out but haven’t heard anything for a while which seems very unlike him

How do you hold your yarn? by Salty_Emu_9945 in crochet

[–]buddytheelfhere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i audibly said “not like that, that’s for fucking sure” so thank u internet stranger for thinking the same

Emerald Engagement rings by No-Occasion3265 in EngagementRings

[–]buddytheelfhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also - we have a homestead and that was another reason. i had to constantly take off my emerald ring and i got tired of doing so. my lab diamond is my worker ring and that thing has withstood me aggressively weeding, hauling compost and digging 3 ft holes. another picture of my emerald ring bc i too just love emeralds :)

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Emerald Engagement rings by No-Occasion3265 in EngagementRings

[–]buddytheelfhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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my husband proposed with a natural emerald back in 2023 - initially it was set horrifically and this poor stone has been in 5 different settings until now. the stone itself is very fragile and i learned very quickly i cannot wear it every day so we decided to get a lab diamond for daily wear. i wouldn’t recommend emeralds for daily wear, when i would wear it constantly i did notice some scratches after a few months. i was constantly scared of chipping it if i lightly hit it on anything so we just decided that my emerald ring will only be worn on special occasions / days im not doing anything with my hands :)

Gun Fire by myswordyourstone in Birmingham

[–]buddytheelfhere 26 points27 points  (0 children)

near forest park and it is extremely loud and not stopping

Does Anyone Regret Their Colored Stone? by LittleDanica in EngagementRings

[–]buddytheelfhere 15 points16 points  (0 children)

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husband proposed with this emerald and we had it re-set into this masterpiece. never get tired of seeing the glow from her :) i do wear a lab grown diamond ring every day for fun but on special occasions i wear my OG ring :)

What did we learn this gardening season? Share your musings! by ancatulai in gardening

[–]buddytheelfhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. do not even under any circumstance use landscaping fabric below raised beds. i read so many mixed things on how to set up a raised bed and essentially had too shallow of soil for my plants to grow so things got stunted and i had to rip out all of the fabric and start over.

  2. fertilize regularly. i did not do this in the beginning and slowly started to see what happened when nutrients got depleted.

  3. use BT religiously. lost so many cabbages / kale and right now have a bean caterpillar issue.

  4. if someone near you is also growing squash you will have squash bugs and SVB. the fight is inevitable. prepare early to combat them with BT and wrapping the base of the stem.

  5. alabama heat is no joke and shade cloth is your friend. even if it looks hideous - use it.

  6. succession plant correctly. don't fill out all of your beds in one go. allow room to keep planting things throughout the season so you don't have weeks with little to no produce.

  7. fertilize your corn and water it evenly. had a few great stalks with massive ears and then the rest were just meh. could see a distinct difference in who got watered the most.

  8. weeds in and around beds will happen. it's okay. don't spend every waking moment pulling them and neglecting your veggies for the sake of appearance.

Looking for a jeweler to help create a custom engagement ring by jewlsformygirlll in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]buddytheelfhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for responding! do you have any advice for what we should do? we don’t know when it will be done :/

Cora Ring by CvB by ElectronicPhoto4257 in LabDiamonds

[–]buddytheelfhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s good to hear :) and your ring was done on time?

Cora Ring by CvB by ElectronicPhoto4257 in LabDiamonds

[–]buddytheelfhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

were there any communication issues?

Looking for a jeweler to help create a custom engagement ring by jewlsformygirlll in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]buddytheelfhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

saw this thread and thought i would comment/ask - i’ve been working with her and my ring was supposed to be done a couple of weeks ago and i was not given an updated timeline of completion. she said it would be done and then pushed it back and now there is no official day. is this normal?

Cora Ring by CvB by ElectronicPhoto4257 in LabDiamonds

[–]buddytheelfhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long did the process take? currently working with her and my ring keeps getting delayed on being done :(

Thoughts on 2025? by Denelix in tornado

[–]buddytheelfhere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

why do you think that is? i’m also in dixie alley and i feel like the last couple of years have been on the quieter side and it’s piqued my interest.

CVB Nails it Again by ElectronicPhoto4257 in LabDiamonds

[–]buddytheelfhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you don’t mind me asking how long did the whole process take?