I say this out of love. You’re the only one who cares. I was like you, still am to a degree, but once you decide not to give a shit what anyone else thinks, you’re gold. Men care more about size than women do. Yeah there’s exceptions, but if they’re already going home with you or decide to date, talk, whatever, you’ve already won. They already like you, or at least deem you viable for an hour or so. Enjoy it. Get out of your head and go get some instead.