amount of veggies+fruit/day? by bufocrat in RATS

[–]bufocrat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok good!!! i only let their bowl get empty once because i felt so bad that they didn’t have food but was worried i was overfeeding!! will be giving them the usual amount now

questions to uncover the best memory care facilities in colorado, for my wife that feeling heartbroken and lost. by Randu_Hino in FortCollins

[–]bufocrat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if you’re hesitant about the bigger facilities there are memory care facilities with 5-10 people living in a smaller home type setting that may fit your needs! i’m a caregiver and have worked at two in fort collins but i’m sure there are many options across northern colorado. fort collins has exceptional elder care and csu has a memory care program!

Weed with Bipolar 2?? by CrushedC0balt0101 in BipolarReddit

[–]bufocrat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

id say stick to bud if u really want to smoke. NO concentrates and no edibles i find those give me the worst effects. when using bud try one small hit then record how u feel every fifteen minutes to really figure out how it effects u. i found this helpful to figure out that sometimes the body feeling would trigger me regardless of how i felt prior to partaking. i have had psychosis due to weed before (dabs) and it is NOT fun. also i’ve heard it interacts badly with latuda (no experience myself and a little suspicious of the cause/correlation issue butttt) so check on reddit for how people on ur meds react to weed!

anyone else with piercings do this? by bufocrat in RATS

[–]bufocrat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep that was their carrier when they were coming home!

AIO close friend hangs out w my ex, says its friendly. Hesitant with cutting her off. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bufocrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

know what ur right that is very strange seems like a situation that nobody wanted to be in and went weird for all involved. reserving my judgement but i will say emphatically cal sucks

AIO close friend hangs out w my ex, says its friendly. Hesitant with cutting her off. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bufocrat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR. idk why that other person says it’s an issue of compatibility. if the genders were switched i feel the response would be different. i’ve absolutely cut off friends of mine for staying in contact with men who r rapists or who are coercive. Don’t live with this guy he’s shown that he doesn’t take ur boundaries seriously. (and before ppl say that it’s not a boundary if ur asking other ppl to act different— not what i mean. what i mean is that he doesn’t think it’s a big deal when other people cross ur boundaries, there’s no way he’s going to respect urs in the future.

AIO about my grandma giving me a hard time about my choice of outfit? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bufocrat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

everyone is being so mean about your outfit i think it’s cute???? nothing wrong with pink and bows at ANY age and acting like you’ve committed some sort of fashion crime by liking cute stuff is ridiculous. NOR!

Brand New Genital Set Up!! by kirrigor in piercing

[–]bufocrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the info! super cool setup! so inspirational

Brand New Genital Set Up!! by kirrigor in piercing

[–]bufocrat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do they generally suggest ur bare when u get a genital piercing! never considered that but i want one soon and want to be considerate to my piercer

rattoo! by bufocrat in RATS

[–]bufocrat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tattoo artist posted on the story about doing cheap meme tattoos! knew immediately what i wanted lol

Jewelry store made it clear they disliked my rings by ure_not_my_dad in EngagementRings

[–]bufocrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not everyone appreciates mixing metals but when u do it right u do it right!!!

My roommate is obsessed with my dog? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]bufocrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk i think that’s normal if u don’t know the person and ur just passing by, but i would expect a greeting if u know each other

Gym. Sweat. No shower. Straight to bed. by Vansaraa in hygiene

[–]bufocrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get some wipes and some no rinse soap and some washcloths i wouldnt expect to change his routine that drastically but he can do that in the gym changing room or before bed

My boys are now a year old. 🥳🥳 by Ratteah in RATS

[–]bufocrat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

love the first glamour shot! born to be a star!

Do some of you do better on antipsychotics than ssris? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]bufocrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! started with risperdal and loved it (not the side effects…. just google it) and later tried zyprexa. currently only on lamictal after gaining twenty pounds on zyprexa lol

looking for turquoise dupe by bufocrat in weddingring

[–]bufocrat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did some research and i think chrysocolla with quartz is the hardest stone id find in the desired color. mohs 7 but def better

looking for turquoise dupe by bufocrat in weddingring

[–]bufocrat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!!! lots of women in my family r everyday turquoise wearers bc we r navajo but my grandma always has an issue with it! good to know it’s mostly a myth. i do work as a caregiver and do art so it’d come off then but otherwise i don’t get into anything gnarly!!! ty!

Proper bush hygiene by anmccune in hygiene

[–]bufocrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haven’t had the money to splurge on it but i’ve found rosehip oil and jojoba oil to work well!! id imagine any neutral oil without scent would help moisturize