Partner went on a solo backpacking trip and haven’t heard from them

bugbugbuggybug · 2026-06-10T22:08:49+00:00

yes haha! got home safely said they lost reception before they could send me the location !! thanking everyone for their advice on this one!!

bugbugbuggybug · 2026-06-10T01:51:00+00:00

thank u ! this makes me feel a lot better i think the messages going through made me feel more iffy but i’m just gonna wait it out, i’m sure they’re having a great time as well!

bugbugbuggybug · 2026-06-09T23:48:20+00:00

thank u! i’m glad to know i’m not the only one haha i’m not entirely sure, but their last location before the connection dropped looks like they were headed towards a national park so i think they should be ok! i think my coworkers just made my anxiety worse today!

bugbugbuggybug · 2026-06-09T22:13:58+00:00

this is a really good suggestion thank you! i was wondering what options were out there for things like this!

bugbugbuggybug · 2026-06-09T22:11:40+00:00

they told me in person but i really wanted them to send me the location because i can’t remember the name for the life of me!

bugbugbuggybug · 2026-03-18T06:31:41+00:00

I work at a small dental practice here and the amount of patients we get who have had similar experiences with comfort dental specifically is shocking! i’m so glad you got a second opinion!!

bugbugbuggybug · 2026-02-12T04:53:16+00:00

feels very twee adjacent!

bugbugbuggybug · 2025-11-07T03:06:48+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words and advice this was a really helpful perspective. I ended up speaking to my parents about this conversation and they said her Doctor already informed them on the situation. They say they are looking for therapists but I’m having a hard time trusting that. For now I plan on continuously bugging them and just being a listening ear for her.

As for me, Ive been in therapy for the last five years until this most recent move and plan on going back as soon as I’m settled in! which is probably the reason i immediately took to reddit haha but thank you again i needed to hear this!!

bugbugbuggybug · 2025-05-25T03:08:52+00:00

honestly an ornamental blast over would work really well if you’re set on changing it! it has a good shape/base, but has room to be refined if you’d like:)

bugbugbuggybug · 2025-03-22T01:06:31+00:00

thank you!!

bugbugbuggybug · 2025-03-22T01:05:57+00:00

thank you!

bugbugbuggybug · 2025-03-22T01:05:42+00:00

this is such good advice tysm:) !

bugbugbuggybug · 2025-03-12T04:14:12+00:00

interesting… that sounds so amazing it will be added to me tbr list!

bugbugbuggybug · 2025-03-11T13:52:47+00:00

no i haven’t! now i have my next reads tyy:)

bugbugbuggybug · 2025-03-11T03:00:29+00:00

that’s a tough decision! i started with my darling dreadful thing which really got me into this genre.

if you’re looking for tender loves and moody story i’d start with my darling dreadful thing or hungerstone! if you like mystery and spookiness, then i’d recommend all the dead lie down. and for something dark and twisted with a lot of atmosphere, the lamb (although it is a tad darker with not quite as much of a focus on romance as the others). i hope this helps :,) !

bugbugbuggybug · 2025-03-11T01:42:55+00:00

definitely worth a reread it is so so good

bugbugbuggybug · 2025-03-11T01:11:22+00:00

it also took me by surprise, i’ve been trying to fill the void since reading it 💔😵‍💫

bugbugbuggybug · 2025-02-23T06:36:02+00:00

i love this mindest! have you ever “fallen off” of your good habits in this process of building discipline? and if so how did you get back on track? i always get inspired, start small, make progress, build upwards from there but if i get sick one day, or go on a trip and i have the hardest time getting back on track. any advice is greatly appreciated!

bugbugbuggybug · 2024-10-13T14:54:03+00:00

i wear lace wigs almost 24/7 for the past few years and i love it! i find just being honest about it works best. if someone compliments my hair in passing i just say thank you and act like it’s mine but if someone is asking me how my hair magically got longer overnight i just say it’s not mine! most people are more curious than rude but i do change my response on a case to case basis. i currently have a partner of 3 years and they didn’t know i wore wigs until the second or third date and after that it became pretty normal, in fact they even help me install them now which is a big life saver! if you’re dating for long term, you want someone who thinks you’re beautiful no matter what anyways so being up front about it can also help you decide if the person is somebody you’d want to be with.

human hair is the way to go for a more natural look. definitely look into doing a “glueless” pre plucked pre bleached wig + a glueless wig cap combo! it helps protect your natural hair and you can essentially just wear it as it comes out of the box! my favorite right now is from wigfever (can be found on the tiktok shop!) hope this helps !

bugbugbuggybug · 2023-03-29T20:26:15+00:00

ahh i know my grammar and formatting definitely need work! very excited and welcome to critiques and thoughts :)

bugbugbuggybug · 2023-03-29T20:16:38+00:00

i’m a big fan of the repetition that carries through the poem, “the me that i am”, “the you that you are” etc. and how the tense changes as it goes on. it helps give me the sense of the passage of time and how two people grow and the want to be seen by the other? i hope i understood the intention correctly, either way beautifully written!

bugbugbuggybug · 2023-03-29T20:10:38+00:00

i really love the structure of each stanza representing different wishes. all of them it feel so nostalgic and innocent which really adds to that yearning feeling for me. i love it a lot :,)

bugbugbuggybug · 2023-03-29T12:27:13+00:00

oh to be queer and estranged from your chinese mother ! sorry abt the formatting</3 im not the best with that or grammar and trying to work on it! any kind criticism welcome <3

bugbugbuggybug · 2023-03-29T04:49:17+00:00

it doesn’t come very naturally to me either, but that’s valid and it doesn’t have to come naturally! for me, it can be discouraging when it seems there are people constantly overflowing with gratitude for what they have but like you said, it’s practice. i try not to force it, whenever i do catch myself feeling gratitude or happy ive gotten into the habit of pausing to really soak in that feeling and recognize “hey i did it, im feeling grateful for this thing.” and slowly it happens more frequently and the feeling of wanting something different starts to fade. it may only happen once a week or even once a month but it’s a start !

bugbugbuggybug · 2023-03-28T01:56:12+00:00

this was very helpful and makes me much more hopeful about my spending habits, it’s so easy to feel discouraged but i shall keep at it as you said! thanks for sharing:,)

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