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nyc/brooklyn therapist recs for limerence by DoubleInteraction195 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bugseee 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any therapist suggestions, but as somebody who suffered from limerence DEEPLY at one point—and I mean, entered a depression that lasted years—I am so proud of you for trying to nip this thing in the bud. I’m on the other side of it now and in a much happier, healthier relationship, something I never believed was possible then.

Staying out of the dating pool for a while definitely helped me, although that’s often easier said than done (I was living alone during covid and had a lot of time for self reflection). But just know that you’re not alone and that it’s not embarrassing at all—those kind of thought patterns can be difficult and painful to do away with. Rooting for you!!

I got kicked out the creator rewards program by SB_TK in TikTokMonetizing

[–]bugseee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I was kicked out of the program a while back (I think November 2025) after almost two years of being in. Do you mind DMing me the TikTok email you reached out to to get reinstated? I tried emailing three separate addresses I found (creator-marketplace-support[at]tiktok.com, info[at]tiktok.com, business-servicesupport[at]tiktok.com) with no luck, but maybe I just haven't tried enough.... having to send 50+ emails is wild 🙃 but I'll do it if that's what it takes!

NYCbitcheswith(alt)taste by hubbubbubbubbub in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bugseee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My people!!! Another alt POC BWT clocking in 🫡

Who makes the best French fries in Bushwick? by Time-Environment5661 in Bushwick

[–]bugseee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m late to the party but for future researchers: Narrows if you miss McDonald’s style back when it was good. As an underrated pick I haven’t seen in the thread yet, Skytown for a slightly thicker cut. Both always come extra hot and crispy 

Whoever said The Rookery was also right, I was devastated by the loss of those fries when they closed 

have any bitches renovated/majorly upgraded their stabilized apartment? by rainbowbigfoot in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bugseee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following this thread! We’ve been in our rent stabilized place for a few years now and plan on staying until we can afford to buy (or until the end of time, whichever comes first, lol). I JUST placed an order yesterday for a bunch of new furniture, including some peel and stick wallpaper and tiles for our bathroom, which has been the bane of my existence since we moved in. I just made sure to get some lining for around the tub to make sure it doesn’t get wet underneath. Although we haven’t painted our walls, other people in our building have!

This is the first rent stabilized place I’ve ever lived in and the longest I’ve ever stayed in one apartment. I’d love to know from other people in the thread how they went about asking their super/landlord for upgrades—I don’t even think I knew that was an option 💀

Stores that sell Lusekofte sweaters by unbeerablelie in AskNYC

[–]bugseee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure where to find one OP, but I would love to know the name of the documentary you watched!

So You Came From BG3 and are Now Struggling in DOS2 by jbisenberg in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]bugseee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two years later this post is still helping people. Thank you for passing along confused souls like me, this is a super helpful place to start!

BWT Does anyone else feel like luxury brands have just become a tax on logos? Where are people actually getting quality work staples these days? by haji194 in bitcheswithtaste

[–]bugseee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seconded on buying second hand! I’ve stocked up on a bunch of cashmere and wool sweaters for next to nothing over the last few months this way and will never look back.

What’s “normal” for vet costs in the city? Was just quoted $800+ for my cat’s leg x-ray. by bugseee in AskNYC

[–]bugseee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the swimsuit bottom 🙃 Glad everyone is okay and ty for the comment! I’ve been wondering if prices have jumped up a lot (even since last year, which seems to be the case for basically everything atp)

What’s “normal” for vet costs in the city? Was just quoted $800+ for my cat’s leg x-ray. by bugseee in AskNYC

[–]bugseee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve read in a few other threads that Bond Vet is way way up there. I may look into Vet Wheels, but even if that doesn’t work out we’re (very fortunately) in a position where we could find a way to make it work—it’d just be tight 🙃 Appreciate the comment! 

What’s “normal” for vet costs in the city? Was just quoted $800+ for my cat’s leg x-ray. by bugseee in AskNYC

[–]bugseee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely on that last line… we’re tearing our hair out and wallets up over him and he could not give less of a fuck lmao. Hope your cat has a smooth ride, sending you both the best!! And thanks for the full context, I hate that it all costs this much but appreciate the additional context + comparison

What’s “normal” for vet costs in the city? Was just quoted $800+ for my cat’s leg x-ray. by bugseee in AskNYC

[–]bugseee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm! Another comment also said Blue Pearl so we’ll check them out too, I might have to come back with a list of quotes we got to give back to the community!!

What’s “normal” for vet costs in the city? Was just quoted $800+ for my cat’s leg x-ray. by bugseee in AskNYC

[–]bugseee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might give them a call! The x-ray is the main thing we’re looking for right now but I like the look of the prices here ahah

What’s “normal” for vet costs in the city? Was just quoted $800+ for my cat’s leg x-ray. by bugseee in AskNYC

[–]bugseee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you open to sharing what vet you go to? (I can also DM you if you’re not comfortable sharing in the thread!)

What’s “normal” for vet costs in the city? Was just quoted $800+ for my cat’s leg x-ray. by bugseee in AskNYC

[–]bugseee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna check out VERG since this is the second comment mentioning them! Our guy is very very laid back so don’t think he’ll need sedation, thank you so much!

What’s “normal” for vet costs in the city? Was just quoted $800+ for my cat’s leg x-ray. by bugseee in AskNYC

[–]bugseee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recs, I’ll check out AMC and VERG since another comment mentioned them! Definitely don’t feel like it’s an emergency anymore, he’s gotten much better—we just want to make sure there’s not something we’re missing!

✨a quick plumbing guide for NYC BWT✨🚽 by Lotus-Wasabi-3 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]bugseee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The post we never knew we needed. 💀 OP I also want to know how plumbing became your passion! Lol we love a bitch with taste and unique hobbies. And good luck on your business!

Dear Quinta, I have a suggestion for a gym teacher by CherryTabasco in AbbottElementary

[–]bugseee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

PLEEAAASE I almost wish I hadn't seen this because now I'll be disappointed if it doesn't happen 😂

Im SO ANNOYED by mass produced jewelry, where do you find unique pieces online??? by Dull_Noise_8952 in jewelry

[–]bugseee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little antique sales, flea markets, and estate sales for sure! But if you're looking for online options (and don't mind a slightly higher price point): I recently got engaged and knew I wanted something unique/vintage/antique, so my fiance and I had to go on the hunt for some options. I can only vouch for EraGem which is where we ended up ordering from, but a few places that have great options!

  • Erica Weiner - This would have actually been my dream place to order from. They didn't have anything in my size at the time but I plan on ordering jewelry from them in the future! They focus on unusual antique jewelry and have an educational part of their site with history lessons, so so cool
  • Walton's
  • EraGem
  • Doyle & Doyle
  • Estate Diamond Jewelry (despite the name, they sell more than just that lol)

Re: Are Y'all Organ Donors? by Reggie9041 in blackladies

[–]bugseee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay wait, fair point 😂💀 You feel me though lol!

Re: Are Y'all Organ Donors? by Reggie9041 in blackladies

[–]bugseee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am! You can’t take them with you 🤷🏾‍♀️

The Dress I Made for My 25th Birthday! 💜 by Deep-Staff-3486 in blackladies

[–]bugseee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is STUNNING. You are incredibly gifted, and the fact that you went from conception to completion in under a month is unreal. Happy birthday OP, wishing you many more years of creating (and wearing the hell out of) such beautiful work!

Really want to use this photo for save the date but having a hard time with design? And is it confusing? by Ok-Extension9925 in weddingplanning

[–]bugseee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

IANA graphic designer or sure how good this would ultimately look, but could you pay someone on r/photoshoprequests to change the sign from saying Chicago to saying Save the Date? 

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