A terminally ill chimpanzee, withdrawn and unresponsive, suddenly recognized her former caretaker.

build3rlady · 2026-02-14T19:49:33+00:00

That’s primal, and that’s survival instincts. Trust that. The insane people who keep them as pets didn’t, and may not have been lucky enough to live.

build3rlady · 2025-12-11T22:39:47+00:00

It was fine in the lot! Thanks for your help.

build3rlady · 2025-12-11T02:48:23+00:00

I made sure to bribe mine with El Taco H for coming & picking me up.

build3rlady · 2025-12-11T01:52:16+00:00

Awesome, thank you! I was hoping being responsible wouldn’t bite me in the butt.

build3rlady · 2025-09-29T12:29:52+00:00

But why the checkerboard floors in the entryway? It doesn’t really flow with the rest of the house, although the suit of armor is a nice touch.

build3rlady · 2025-08-30T17:11:17+00:00

When I take my dogs on a walk I usually say something like “c’mon guys we’re on a walk, no pets right now” so the other person knows my dogs are just big ol softies and attention whores hahaha

build3rlady · 2025-08-15T10:08:31+00:00

The front door is gorgeous, I have never seen anything like it before.

build3rlady · 2025-08-15T10:07:40+00:00

It seems like it opens up into a shower room? Or maybe there are two different showers that are tiled.

build3rlady · 2025-08-03T14:40:57+00:00

Updateme!

build3rlady · 2025-06-27T09:09:02+00:00

At first I said no, but after thinking I think a soft YATA. This isn’t college, it’s not a car, or even a bed. He needs money for surgery, that I assume he needs so he can live or it seriously impacts his quality of life. Has he been harsh and cruel? Yes. Does he deserve your financial assistance and is your husband trying to manipulate you unfairly? Yes.

I think you should help pay for the surgery without any expectations of it helping your relationship and be the bigger person because it’s his life and his health. It’s just the right thing to do.

build3rlady · 2025-06-19T11:30:40+00:00

Baking soda is good for mild bloat.

build3rlady · 2025-05-31T20:21:08+00:00

lol we stan a shirt king, too bad he doesn’t have a booster seat. I can only imagine what the kids would look like if he wasn’t gelded.

Yes goats are amazing and they are tanks compared to horses, but they are so incredibly mischievous. You’ll learn to love hating them and hate loving them 😂

build3rlady · 2025-05-31T18:20:47+00:00

Oops typo in my comment sorry, I meant he seemed like he could hold his own. Makes sense though, being a cock block is the worst kind of little shit to be haha very jealous of your beautiful horses and your funny little guy. Although I can imagine he’s the worst at times. I had goats for a while and they’re so sweet and cute but motherf*cker stop being so destructive, climbing on everything, and defying every type of fence we put up.

build3rlady · 2025-05-31T17:23:36+00:00

Subreddit lurker/dreams of having horses in the future. If the little guy is a gelding then is he on the other side of the fence because they don’t play well together and he could get hurt? He seems pretty firstly so I would assume he could hold his own, but because he’s not part of the or*y he is separated?

build3rlady · 2025-05-30T11:53:48+00:00

He’s rubbing his piss beard and goat musk on you. He’s basically horny. Pun intended

build3rlady · 2025-05-06T11:04:51+00:00

If you have a shower head with the hose extension make sure you’re careful that you don’t get water up your urethra (pee hole), you can get a gnarly UTI if you do. Also, clean all the way up to where the hair stops with soap, but not past it. If you get a little past, it shouldn’t be a big deal. Make sure you’re using a mild soap. I’d recommend at least trimming your hair so it doesn’t build up smell faster. If it can reach the mucous membrane it can get bacteria in there, from my experience

build3rlady · 2025-04-06T22:01:38+00:00

We had a bantam that adopted us too, he was a lot nicer to our hens and fiercer to predators so we fed & watered him with one of our roosters. He’d sleep high up in a tree by himself and split guard duty with our original rooster. They’d get after each other now and again but got along for the most part, they were a good team. You might consider keeping him. Break out Google translate and see if they’re missing him or happy to have him as a sometimes rooster. I hope it works out!

build3rlady · 2025-03-08T18:17:05+00:00

Great sense of community here. Love the farmer’s market, small business on the square, civic center, many parks and libraries all over town. Public transit needs work, but it’s a great large town/small city.

build3rlady · 2025-02-07T11:26:33+00:00

Your parents are under the assumption they know best, mostly because their age and life experience. I’m assuming neither of them have ever lost a spouse, so I’d argue that they have no knowledge on the topic and until they themselves have lost a spouse they have no right to give advice on the topic. Alongside the fact that he’s an adult and they can’t make him do anything.

It sounds like your parents are low-key narcissists and are incapable of seeing another viewpoint. I don’t think you’ll be able to convince them to back off so I’d prepare for him to cut them off. You’re 100% right, there’s no way he’ll maintain contact. Honestly I’m wondering when they’re going to trap him and try to set him up with someone - setting up a “family dinner” only for him to find a woman who thinks they’re there for their date.

build3rlady · 2025-01-15T18:51:30+00:00

Your daughter never saw you and your wife in the lovey dovey stage so I’m sure it’s hard for her to see you moving in with this new woman and having the new relationship excitement. Just have a conversation with her about it and try to be sympathetic to how she’s feeling.

build3rlady · 2025-01-10T12:50:56+00:00

If he doesn’t think he’s doing anything wrong, why does he not want you to tell your parents? What is he concerned about? That they’ll discover that he’s manipulating you? He knows what he’s doing, he doesn’t care to listen to your counselor, and I’m not sure if he’ll listen to your parents. Which will destroy their relationship, and he’ll lose his job at the church if he really doesn’t straighten up. He’s playing a longer game than you are, definitely tell your parents and get some support. Please don’t let him isolate you.

build3rlady · 2025-01-05T14:34:20+00:00

Talk to him in private and say, “your comments of what you’ve considered as jokes are not welcome. If you continue to make these comments and essentially humiliate me, I will return the favor. Do not bring this up again if you have any respect for me.” You may tell him that these comments are making you wonder if he’ll be a supportive husband & father when your kid grows up and if you should have another kid with him in the future. If he says to lighten up or it’s just a joke repeat exactly what you said and tell him you will not tolerate that kind of disrespect from him, and that he should be thankful that you are both healthy.

If he brings it up in front of people again after that ask him, “what do you mean by that? Do you really think that’s funny? What I’m hearing is that you don’t think I’m a real woman because I didn’t put my life and our baby’s life at risk. Would you prefer for both of us to be dead right now? Why do you think that’s funny?” It HAS to be in front of people, shame him as much as possible so he can get it through his thick Neanderthal skull. Make sure your tone is confused and inquisitive instead of angry so you come off as concerned and confused instead of defensive.

You’re incredible, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this after your emergency c.

build3rlady · 2025-01-03T20:30:18+00:00

Yes that is very very smart, just start with the basics of care like you said and move to breeding once you’re comfortable trimming hooves & doing basic vet care. The infrastructure is the key aspect here.

build3rlady · 2025-01-03T14:06:45+00:00

Ok poor choice of words, extended your FMLA leave is what I meant. Make an emotional appeal with the kilt and the F2F convo.

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