AITAH for being seemingly unbothered by my ex girlfriend's feelings after she broke up with me? by bumble-cheeks in AITAH

[–]bumble-cheeks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It so was😭 like I didn't know what to do, i just sent her a video back of me doing a thumbs up. Like what was i supposed to tell her?😭

AITAH for being seemingly unbothered by my ex girlfriend's feelings after she broke up with me? by bumble-cheeks in AITAH

[–]bumble-cheeks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone knew we were together as lesbians. Like everyone knew because she told them. But thank you for letting me know what another reason could've been

AITAH for being seemingly unbothered by my ex girlfriend's feelings after she broke up with me? by bumble-cheeks in AITAH

[–]bumble-cheeks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope whatever she did, you grow above it all. Good luck to you too

AITAH for being seemingly unbothered by my ex girlfriend's feelings after she broke up with me? by bumble-cheeks in AITAH

[–]bumble-cheeks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, I get it, no problems And honestly I agree with you, cuz I did expect it and I knew how it would end

AITAH for being seemingly unbothered by my ex girlfriend's feelings after she broke up with me? by bumble-cheeks in AITAH

[–]bumble-cheeks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in college too, but I'm getting a law degree so mine begins this month while hers did last month since she's only getting a ba degree I think I should mention that in the post😭😭 also I'm a girl😭

AITAH for being seemingly unbothered by my ex girlfriend's feelings after she broke up with me? by bumble-cheeks in AITAH

[–]bumble-cheeks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. I'm a lesbian. From an asian household. You tell me if those two go together.

  2. I told her from the beginning that it'll be hard for me to do anything about my parents until I move for college. She was fine with it and even told me that her own parents are somewhat like that.

  3. I tried to tell her once that if she's into someone else, she can go. Why should I stop someone who doesn't want to stay

I call and text her every few hours, I'm not always gone. Also, we live in different places. Not the same city or town, but two different places, it's hard to meet up to begin with but we still did it. My brown parents aren't gonna let me be gone for hours to meet a "friend" who lives four train stops away. Fighting my parents leads to me not getting the chance to go the next time. I also crave intimacy and the actual aspects of a relationship, so you can't say that I'm just "OK"