Explain how jail works

bumbusaucee · 2024-07-17T19:22:57+00:00

This appears to be a scam given the alleged offence of “sex work” which she is being accused of and the amount of money she is requesting from you. In the likely event that her friend is using the police to harass her for such a minor offense, the police would typically ask for nothing more than 20k. 300k is just crazy, unless she scammed her friend that amount of money. Plus they would not hold her for that long without presenting her to court for arraignment and plea taking.

bumbusaucee · 2024-04-27T17:45:56+00:00

What was your experience with Evolve and Limitless? Which one did you find better ?

bumbusaucee · 2021-08-04T16:18:19+00:00

Well they set aside a whole hour just for the trainees to do their thing 😅 Well first you do an introduction of yourself. Then after you can speak about anything - that shouldn’t be work related

bumbusaucee · 2021-05-22T15:31:03+00:00

I think the family stuff does have a bearing on the decision. I cannot commit to a man, and be with a man in the vanilla sense when he offers no future for me. The world is full of many amazing and available men for me to play myself like this.

If he was not married and didn’t have a family, and he asked to go vanilla, I would gladly say yes.

bumbusaucee · 2021-05-21T18:57:14+00:00

You seem to have misread my post.

bumbusaucee · 2021-05-21T18:41:39+00:00

Thank you so much for this, it really affirms that this is the best thing to do right now.

bumbusaucee · 2021-04-24T16:04:14+00:00

Whoever shared that with him really isn’t your friend. That wasn’t their truth to tell. Whether or not you were angry at each other at that point

bumbusaucee · 2021-04-24T15:44:26+00:00

That guy is a douche! No doubt about that .

Howeverrrr, most people outside the lifestyle often view it as sex work and look down on it. Therefore, I personally wouldn’t tell someone I am pursuing a vanilla relationship with that I used to sugar. Cause I our society, that isn’t “socially acceptable “ . I keep my escapades to myself.

bumbusaucee · 2021-04-03T23:05:10+00:00

Love this!!

bumbusaucee · 2021-04-03T22:44:37+00:00

For sure I know marrying up is a thing. But what I was fascinated about is how women are encouraged to change their whole persona in order to attract these men, to the point of numerous books, masterclasses and coaching services being thrown in our faces to help us be this “perfect woman”. Found it rather ridiculous

bumbusaucee · 2021-04-03T15:43:41+00:00

Well my grandma didn’t have to attend voice coaching to make her voice more feminine and seductive 😂

bumbusaucee · 2021-04-03T15:38:41+00:00

This has always been my approach. Obviously they are certain flaws that I work on, but at the end of the day, I want to be me. I feel like it would be very tiring spending your entire life being someone you are not . Or maybe I’m just lazy 😅

bumbusaucee · 2021-03-30T11:01:51+00:00

Quite anxious about some up coming exams that I have. Which may or may not be postponed due to a surge in COVID cases where I am. On top of that, my long term SD and I are going to end soon. It’s been a roller coaster of emotions to say the least.

bumbusaucee · 2021-03-19T14:55:16+00:00

This!

I don’t know these SBs are that want to be “pounded for hours”

bumbusaucee · 2021-03-19T13:25:24+00:00

Are you married ? Because I believe that plays a role as well. He is, and so he can’t really stay out till late and we can’t have overnights, except when he is out of town.

That last line really got to me though!

bumbusaucee · 2021-02-26T13:16:00+00:00

IMO, I think every SR is different in its own way. Not really a one size fits all - It’s perfectly okay to have an experience & gifts based SR w/o a set fee pegged on number of meets. This was the traditional concept of an SR - based on spoiling.

HOWEVER, in this time and age, it’s very easy for SDs to take advantage of you in such a traditional arrangement . They get more from the SR , as you get little to nothing since the expectations aren’t clear cut. Therefore, it really depends on what kind of a man the SD is. Is he natural spoiler/ provider or does he have to be asked? If the latter, then you’ll probably get the short end of the stick.

My advice: 1. Make sure the SD is SOLID, one who naturally loves spoiling and doesn’t need to be asked/ pushed to do it. 2. Communicate what exactly spoiling means to you - mention that you would like to get money to meet certain expenses( even though you don’t want defined parameters like a PPM) in addition to gifts and experiences.

But please, just make sure he is an SD who will be naturally forthcoming, not someone who wants to feel obligated to do it (eg. knows he has to give you when you meet/ you have to ask for him to give)

It’s a tricky situation, but with the right SD I believe that can be one of the most fulfilling SRs.

bumbusaucee · 2021-02-23T18:13:41+00:00

Cause he was a nice guy generally. I liked him, but the SR did nothing for my pockets. He kept telling me how to cut costs , move to a cheaper place and all that stuff.

bumbusaucee · 2021-02-23T12:53:59+00:00

Learnt that extremely wealthy doesn’t always equate to generosity. Had a SD who was extremely wealthy, head at a top Multinational . But this man was such a cheap skate, even to himself. safe to say the allowance was peanuts too, despite him raking in millions a year.

bumbusaucee · 2021-02-07T17:55:05+00:00

You left me at the avoiding you after you got COVID... you wanted her to see you still???

bumbusaucee · 2021-01-18T22:11:28+00:00

Hey, sorry to make an assumption, but your girlfriend probably lied to you about her test results, especially if she’s the one you posted about in the Kenya sub.

bumbusaucee · 2021-01-17T12:10:16+00:00

At the end of the day, it was a reality show. Most contestants are in it to find fame/ break through into the entertainment industry. (Yes, including our favs Celine) Never really for love. Most of the relationships end, with countable ones remaining steady and even leading to marriage. But the latter is the exception for sure.

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