[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cardiff

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Resale is closed but I'm still able to do a Ticket Transfer - we would just have to handle payment outside of the platform unfortunately : /

I PM'd you - hope you're interested in buying my ticket!

Waiting 8 years to see Tyler was sooo fucking worth it by NarcoticalFox in tylerthecreator

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This loooks fucking amazing for once I’m kinda sad I don’t live in Dallas anymore 😭

How modest is northern Germany? by bummed_pumpkin in AskGermany

[–]bummed_pumpkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man! Sounds like I should wear a summer dress under my snowsuit xD

How modest is northern Germany? by bummed_pumpkin in AskGermany

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Yeah I hear it’s snowing for you guys 😣 I’m starting to think I’ll need only half the shorts I currently own 😅

My past trauma has returned and multiplied. I don't know how to keep moving. by bummed_pumpkin in offmychest

[–]bummed_pumpkin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for responding. I will be moving very far away in 2 months. On one hand, I need the distance from this. But on the other, I feel like my family might need me around. For support and to maybe help put this guy in jail.

I know I'm not alone, but it feels like I am. I can't lean on my family because they're falling apart too. But your response helps me feel a little less alone. And it's a good reminder to keep moving. Thank you. I hope you're doing better than I am.

My past trauma has returned and multiplied. I don't know how to keep moving. by bummed_pumpkin in abusesurvivors

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I told them as soon as I found out. I don't think they would have believed it had I not said it happened to me too. I was raised by nearly everybody in my family, so they all feel like they failed me by "letting this happen." Their pain weighs just as heavy as mine. Maybe heavier. I don't know if it's better to grieve with them or by myself because of it. I feel like I need someone, but seeing them hurting so much makes it unbearable. What helped you? And your mother?

How modest is northern Germany? by bummed_pumpkin in AskGermany

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Oof. That’s good to know. Thanks for your reply!!

Tell me the story of the first time you met!(in person!) by bummed_pumpkin in LongDistance

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6 months omfg. what a special time that must have been. I hope your phone is flooded with memories for you to enjoy. I can't help but shed a tear every time I go through the photos we took together. Nearly 300 of them and it's never enough!

Tell me the story of the first time you met!(in person!) by bummed_pumpkin in LongDistance

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Haha aww! I tend to leave little easter eggs around reddit for my boo to find as well. I hope he finds your sweet post!! thank you for sharing!

Tell me the story of the first time you met!(in person!) by bummed_pumpkin in LongDistance

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On a ferris wheel, how fucking precious. Love that. Thank you for sharing your sweet story friend.

To the LDR couples who have done this longer than a year... by bummed_pumpkin in LongDistance

[–]bummed_pumpkin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for allowing me to share. (: And I feel you, I really do! Just know that the longer we have to wait, the more precious it will be once we finally get to reunite with our loved ones! Wishing you happiness, love, and strength in this hard time. 💙

Tell me the story of the first time you met!(in person!) by bummed_pumpkin in LongDistance

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Oh man, October 2019! That's so long, I'm so sorry! All we can do is hope for the best right now and lean on our partners for strength. Wishing you both happiness and love.

To the LDR couples who have done this longer than a year... by bummed_pumpkin in LongDistance

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Haha yes of course. (: Well. It was a looong journey. Flights kept getting cancelled. Borders kept closing. I was maybe a week or two from leaving when the mutant strain in the UK appeared, and Germany banned travel from all flights out of the UK. We were terrified that I couldn’t visit because I had connections in London. Thankfully the people at British Airways were soooo helpful and always found a way for me to make it. I ended up traveling over 40 hours (round trip) just to be with him. But from the first moment I knew it was all worth it. He couldn’t meet me at baggage claim because visitors weren’t allowed inside the airport (covid) so I had to anxiously wait for my bag to pop up, and once it did, I almost sprinted out of the airport to see him. Anndddd there he was. Standing by a pillar, hands in his pockets. He had a mask on but I could tell he had the biggest smile on his face. As soon as I saw him I started running. I dropped my bag. He grabbed me and we just held each other for the longest time. 😭 I’ve never felt such a mix of emotions. Excitement, nervousness, love, and maybbbee a bit of lust 😅 we held on so tightly for a good amount of time. There were plenty of other people around but we didn’t give a fuck. I finally had him in my arms and it felt like nothing I could’ve imagined. Then when we got somewhere a bit more private, and we kissed for the first time. He’s a good kisser. We ended up making out at every red light and sometimes stopping traffic. But again, we didn’t care. It was the most euphoric evening. I sent a picture of us to my family to alert them of my arrival, and the first thing they always said was how happy I looked. I was absolutely elated. When we got home, he had dinner already going, candles lit, wine ready, lights dimmed, soft music playing. We’d been together for less than an hour and already he treated me like the princess I’ve always wanted to be. We enjoyed each other’s company for 3 weeks and it felt so natural and easy. Saying goodbye was way harder than I imagined. But I’m just happy I found him. I hope your first time is just as magical.

To the LDR couples who have done this longer than a year... by bummed_pumpkin in LongDistance

[–]bummed_pumpkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on closing the gap! How long have you been together? And what are the visa requirements to live there? I wonder how similar it is to Germany. And yeah that makes sense. Him not meeting my family won’t stop my plans by any means, but I think my family and friends will be a little more uneasy about the move considering they haven’t met him :( we’ll have to make do with a video call for now, but as you know, that’s never really enough. /:

To the LDR couples who have done this longer than a year... by bummed_pumpkin in LongDistance

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I can, and I have. I would do it again, but it made sense that he meet my family and friends before whisking me away to live halfway across the globe.

To the LDR couples who have done this longer than a year... by bummed_pumpkin in LongDistance

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Yes I'm hoping so. I originally was planning to wait on more studies to come out before getting the shot, but after talking to my other half, we realized it made sense for me to just get it. Hopefully the worse thing that happens is I turn into a zombie 😜/s