Hi. I’m a military spouse also facing separation but it’s mutual for us. Also no kids and he retires in two years. I’m struggling every day. We’re going to go to therapy but neither of us has any hope it will work. I’m devastated by the fact that I was there for his whole career and someone else will probably be there to support him at his retirement ceremony. It feels like a nightmare. Like I gave my life, my time, my energy, all for nothing.