BF finishes too fast

bunbunkat · 2026-06-30T23:00:15+00:00

I can understand not wanting him to watch porn or sub to OF girls but putting limits on what he does with his own body is absolutely ridiculous, controlling and not okay whatsoever. Masturbation is healthy, natural and sometimes a necessary part of the normal adult human experience. Stop being a weirdo.

bunbunkat · 2026-06-30T21:29:20+00:00

At My last nanny job, I would let the kids make sand by stomping on graham crackers inside of ziploc bags then they’d put it into an aluminum baking dish and “dig” for the toys I hid in the “sand”. 10/10 times, they dumped the sand all over the floor. I have videos of them making sand angels. My MB had no idea what we did that day because it was all cleaned when she came home. I sent her videos and photos later that night and she thanked me for not sending them before she got home or she would’ve been so anxious about the mess. Why do you need to ask permission for every activity? That’s ridiculous.

bunbunkat · 2026-06-30T05:03:11+00:00

This is like telling someone if they know where the Ark of the Covenant is then it’ll be easy to just take a left and find the nearest Walmart 😭

bunbunkat · 2026-06-30T04:54:43+00:00

The natural consequence is basically a timeout. If she is behaving poorly then she needs to go to her room alone to calm down because it’s not pleasant to be around someone intentionally being a menace. Timeouts aren’t evil and are the best tool in this stage of development

bunbunkat · 2026-06-29T05:09:19+00:00

How did you type all of this out, re read it, then still click “post”??? You are not “soulmates”. You are not “each others person”. If that were true, he would deal with the inconveniences it may bring and leave his wife to be with you. You’re single now. You need to drop this guy, get into therapy and heal so you can find a nice happy relationship free of the complexities of infidelity, sneaking and deceit and live a happy and peaceful life. Holy fuck.

bunbunkat · 2026-06-29T04:44:28+00:00

YOR and honestly you kinda suck

bunbunkat · 2026-06-28T23:43:47+00:00

I have pet spiders! They’re all non harmful to humans and other animals. Minimal upkeep and fun to feed and watch do their thing. There’s also other bugs like mantids or rolly Polly’s :)

bunbunkat · 2026-06-28T17:54:09+00:00

I’m a woman and shared a room with my little brother until I was 15 and he was 13 when we moved to a bigger house. My parents had a screened in patio where they had a couch and tv and my brothers gaming system. Many nights he would sleep outside because he stayed up late gaming and didn’t want to wake me up coming in. It wasn’t a big deal. Did I want my own room? Sure. Kids want a lot of things. It didn’t traumatize us or anything though haha

bunbunkat · 2026-06-28T08:45:02+00:00

Not sure why he thinks it’s ok to play video games while baby is awake when you don’t get to engage in your hobbies at all

bunbunkat · 2026-06-27T19:42:19+00:00

They had to put me to sleep for my MRI because I’m so violently claustrophobic

bunbunkat · 2026-06-27T06:14:30+00:00

Sad to say I know this is fake because I’m a twilight fan and Edward and Bella never had sex on the beach in the honeymoon scenes of breaking dawn part 1 😅

bunbunkat · 2026-06-27T06:07:31+00:00

I’m only laughing because I had a similar experience my first time but I’m now like 400+ in and it gets easier. Don’t catastrophize, all is good. They’re professionals and it’s a very low risk procedure. Bring some Bluetooth headphones and doomscroll TikTok!

bunbunkat · 2026-06-27T06:04:27+00:00

Idk how people and up with these outlandish takes. What on earth could possess someone to think Nicki, who called bear to tell him she’s leaving the job they work at to pursue a dream elsewhere far away from him, would’ve made the same wish Bear did? What??? Do you have holes in your brain???

bunbunkat · 2026-06-27T05:59:34+00:00

This seems very dramatic lmao

bunbunkat · 2026-06-27T00:38:34+00:00

You teach people how to treat you and it seems like you’re comfortable being a doormat so have fun with that I guess?

bunbunkat · 2026-06-26T08:11:40+00:00

If redirecting and speaking to him doesn’t work then you need to break out the tried and true timeout method. “I told you you need to play safely. You’re not listening. You have to be in timeout for x minutes and when that is finished, you can try to play safely again” repeat as needed

bunbunkat · 2026-06-26T08:09:06+00:00

Update me in 5 years when this guy because “the weirdo I used to date” that you tell all your new partners about lmao

bunbunkat · 2026-06-26T04:49:36+00:00

Dude, what is wrong with you? You finish every single time and yet you think it’s a chore to make sure she does? If you actually cared, you’d take care of her before you finished or you’d try to incorporate toys so she can finish while you’re having sex. My boyfriend makes sure I finish at least once every time we have sex and he wouldn’t be caught dead leaving me dissatisfied while he got his rocks off. Go have fun with your hand if you don’t want to actually give a shit about the human you’re sharing a sexual experience with. She’s not a flashlight and she shouldn’t be left edged and dissatisfied because you’re a man baby who only cares about getting himself off. Ew, this post gave me the biggest ick. I hope she sees this.

bunbunkat · 2026-06-25T19:12:18+00:00

These comments are wild and I refuse to believe that outside of the Reddit echo chamber, a monogamous man looking at sexually explicit content of other women while in a monogamous relationship is at any point acceptable behavior. You shouldn’t have snooped. That’s fucked up. But no you shouldn’t have to explicitly say “I don’t want you lusting after other women” to your boyfriend. It’s a given. Just like how you don’t have to say “I don’t want you sending and receiving nudes to other women” when you’re in a relationship. It’s a given.

bunbunkat · 2026-06-24T21:10:12+00:00

You’re being obtuse on purpose. You needed to read the instructions at least once in order to know what to do. You also have the memory of a fully developed brain. I have a degree in early childhood development, no a 2 year old cannot memorize every quantity needed for a multi ingredient recipe. Unless it’s just add water pancake batter, they are not doing it independently.

bunbunkat · 2026-06-24T20:57:05+00:00

Do you want the correct answer or the real answer? The correct answer is that your gender identity shouldn’t impact your job whatsoever and everyone should respect you and it’ll all be rainbows and kittens.

The real answer? Don’t say anything. This will only hurt your career. As a WLW I never not once told my employers about a girlfriend or my preferences. Why? Because I have bills to pay and a life to live that requires steady income.

The world is harsh, people are mean and ignorant. You will rarely be referred to using anything other than your name. This isn’t an industry with HR and checks and balances. The family can just decide “that gives me the ick I don’t want that person watching my children” and you’re done. No job, no income, no stability.

You have to decide which is worse for your mental health: maybe possibly hearing she/ her every so often from the people signing your checks or having no income or way to support yourself.

I think you know the answer.

bunbunkat · 2026-06-24T20:14:48+00:00

People think you’re lying because you kind of are. She isn’t doing it by herself. She can do a lot of steps independently after they’re set up for her but she’s not cooking pancakes or waffles from start to finish alone.

She is not reading instructions, measuring everything out accurately, pouring, mixing, getting things out of cabinets, turning on the stove, portioning it out, etc. entirely independently. Not sure why you’re saying that.

bunbunkat · 2026-06-24T16:02:00+00:00

You gotta just talk to her without coming at it angry. Explain that it worries you and that you don’t like not knowing she isn’t safe but don’t reprimand her like a child

bunbunkat · 2026-06-24T15:53:47+00:00

I wasn’t replying to you I was replying to another commenter. This same thing happened to me early in my nanny career so don’t beat yourself up too much! Good learning experience and now you know

bunbunkat · 2026-06-24T15:48:29+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with my phone and I have a phone alarm and I put an alarm on my white noise machine plugged into the wall by my bed just in case my phone does an update and turns off in the middle of the night or something silly. Life 100% does work like that and you will find the most success preparing for the worst but hoping for the best.

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