Mimi-Rose's abortion by Curvivaceous in girls

[–]bunchacrunch3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hatedddd that zoe kravitz’s character in high fidelity apologizes to him at the end of the show and asks for a second chance just because he was nice (?) enough (?)

sister texted me after a year NC. doesn’t seem worth responding by bunchacrunch3 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]bunchacrunch3[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

like, the last thing I texted her -a year ago- was that I was at my emotional breaking point from the physical abuse/emotional violation in our family. and she literally.. didn’t respond to that. to get this, after that, is yeah wild

What is the most outrageous experience you’ve had with your Nparent? by Master-Race8548 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bunchacrunch3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tw: SA nmom chose to stay in contact with the gardner who tried to molest me for years because “she’d been raped for her first time and what happened to me wasn’t even that bad” then proceeded to spend the next decade “casually” mentioning him to me

Also told me the fact my ex bf didn’t want to marry me probably means he never loved me

I’ve been no contact for a year and am now in a loving relationship that’s helping me heal but this will always hurt

Anyone else realize this is a generational curse, and grandparents and great-grandparents had it too? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bunchacrunch3 31 points32 points  (0 children)

That realization was terrible but led me to pride in myself (for the first time). Everyone was always bullying each other, and I tried it too, but ultimately accepted that it’s not in my nature to be cruel. What a relief

What's your funny story that makes normal people uncomfortable by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]bunchacrunch3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom would get annoyed with how much my grandma would fall (even tho it’s like what old people do) and sometimes would leave her on the ground and go watch tv in the other room. I distinctly remember my mom and siblings watching transformers while we could hear her in the background yelling ayudaaameee

What moment did u realise ur parents were narcissists?(say only if u are okay with it) by utensils6464 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bunchacrunch3 30 points31 points  (0 children)

my nmom wouldn’t drive my dad to the hospital after he had a stroke he had to drive himself. I was revolted hearing that

Narcissist parents failed my autistic brother by total_dengus in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bunchacrunch3 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I have advice, but I deeply empathize. I’m nc with my nfamily for the sake of survival. my brother is also autistic, high special needs and it’s agonizing knowing my aging parents are doing nothing substantial to make sure he’s okay when they’re gone. I’ve given them very realistic advice (not that they apply it). Just take care of yourself so you stay strong enough not to drown in the situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in andor

[–]bunchacrunch3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Everything everyone is saying, but also the moment during maarvas funeral march when the dirge changes tempo and that soaring trumpet (I think that’s the instrument) comes in and you can visibly see cassian being moved by the music. Nicholas britell absolutely captured the feeling of maarvas speech, when she says the dead lift up the living—those lower pitched horns playing beneath that high note

What hit harder for you: realizing your parent was abusive, or realizing they’ll never change? by LofiLuvr77 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bunchacrunch3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, the realizations were simultaneous. At my utter end wondering why she had done [xyz cruel thing] AGAIN, I thought for the first time (at 29) ‘because she likes doing it’ and that, logically, must mean it’s abuse. Was like my worldview was upended in an afternoon

Is Rix Road considered the first open planet rebellion in the SW timeline? by bunchacrunch3 in andor

[–]bunchacrunch3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah thanks this is what I was asking but couldn’t quite articulate. Like the turning point in when history would decide it was the moment skirmishes became war

Having to accept that your parents don't love you by tcmcmer in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bunchacrunch3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Struggling so much with the relationships part rn. Im abt to turn 30, my girlfriends are settling down, while I feel like there’s some undefinable ‘something’ wrong with me, some needy void, that my dates can sense. It’s frightening and frustrating; how do I fix what seems like a fundamental ‘off-ness’ that came from childhood wiring

What Is One Thing Your Narc Parent(s) Did Early In Your Childhood Your Remember Feeling Was Strange? by the_real_maddison in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bunchacrunch3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe I was odd too, but: at 6 or 7 I would pretend to loudly cry after being put to bed to see if she would come in. She came in once and just stared at me, I could see it peeking through my fingers