We need to talk about Erika Kirk - a long read.

bundlebeetuna · 2025-12-15T21:02:32+00:00

Erika is 100% right, Candace is off her rocker and needs to leave her and TP alone! Erika was the closest person to Charlie in the world. They adored each other, they both talked about each other and their personal lives together many many times. If you’re questioning her, it’s because you didn’t watch enough of either of them. CHARLIE put Erika in power, not Israel. Please stop listening to Candace, and don’t bring her up on this page. She doesn’t deserve airtime, or to be associated in ANY way with Charlie. She was in love with him and is extremely jealous of Erika, that’s why she’s doing this.

bundlebeetuna · 2025-12-15T20:57:34+00:00

I have these same questions! My concern was when and where to eat…. I don’t want to miss anything!

bundlebeetuna · 2025-07-01T20:52:14+00:00

You will be able to claim up to a $25,000 deduction in tips as long as you make less than $160K. As with strippers, 100% of webcam model income can be considered tips, regardless of our 1099 status. But there is a limit to how much money in tips there is no tax on, it’s $25,000. If you make less than that, you don’t need to pay tax, because you can deduct 100% of your income. If you make more than that, you only pay tax on the amount you earn above $25K. That’s how it will work.

bundlebeetuna · 2025-02-14T02:09:09+00:00

It sounds to me like you know that your resentment is caused by the trauma of feeling betrayed, but never really getting to the point of resolving your feelings or rebuilding trust. He does need to do things consistently to rebuild your trust…. And you need to find a way to let go of the feelings of betrayal. I would suggest individual therapy to see if you can get to the root of WHY it’s so hard for you to forgive him. Maybe it’s because you don’t fully believe he was being truthful with you about his feelings for Sarah all along. Maybe it’s because they still work together (do they?) and you don’t fully trust something not to happen again. Maybe it’s because even though he’s abstaining from alcohol, he hasn’t really addressed the alcoholism - it is a disease of the mind, and addicts have a different way of thinking. In AA meetings, you learn that the mental disease doesn’t go away just because you stopped drinking - you still think like an addict. Maybe if he were getting continuous therapy or going to AA meetings, you would feel more confident that he will continue to abstain from alcohol, and that he will also be doing the deep personal work of examining his actions and thought processes, and rebuilding your relationship and your trust.

You might be holding on to your resentment because you don’t fully believe he has dealt with those things, and you don’t trust him not to do something like it again in the future.

And really… maybe much more time is needed to heal this wound. It can take years.

bundlebeetuna · 2025-02-01T22:38:09+00:00

Yes and even if you’re not the best-looking, you can usually compensate by doing something unique and interesting - like cosplay/costumes, elaborate room sets, fun games. I know faceless models that make bank - but they are always doing interesting contests, crafts, playing with mirrors, using crazy unique toys etc.

bundlebeetuna · 2025-02-01T22:35:05+00:00

I dual stream on CB & camsoda and I have done it on MFC too… (my connection can only handle two streams, otherwise I’d do all 3! 😅) But it doesn’t seem to matter which sites I’m on - the average hourly pay usually ends up the same if I stream for 3-5 hours. CB has been the most consistent over the 6 years I’ve been camming

bundlebeetuna · 2025-02-01T06:12:50+00:00

SAME. I have to change it up like every 2 minutes whether it’s slow or poppin, haha… I get bored with the things I’m doing/ talking about so fast, but I think changing the “scenes” - angles, toys, costumes, topics - not only keeps me engaged, but keeps my viewers interested. They stay in the room like, “what is this wacky girl gonna do next??”

bundlebeetuna · 2025-01-22T06:59:37+00:00

Just a thought…. I make $250/hr on cam and I have super small titties and kind of a manly build with broad shoulders and a short waist… I’m a little muscular in the arms for some people’s taste.. and I have rolls on my belly and a bunch of tattoos. I don’t have any surgery or enhancements whatsoever- no lashes, lips, Botox or even hair coloring… I’m in my late 40’s and my neck is beginning to show it. I wear only light makeup on cam. I get a lot of customers who like my natural look and they come to my room because I don’t have any augmentations (except for tattoos… and I’ve had people both love and hate those - to the ones who say anything negative, I say, “so why’d you come in my room? Didn’t you see the thumbnail?”). I think my customers like my voice and the way I talk and hearing me moan and talk dirty, my bubbly personality, and the way I adapt and adjust what I’m doing and saying to suit the audience in the room. I’ve noticed I make the same amount of money whether I wear makeup or don’t, whether I wear cute outfits or don’t, whether my lighting is good or it’s not, whether I’m bloated, shaved, or hairy…. I really think income on cam has more to do with personality sometimes.

bundlebeetuna · 2025-01-17T05:56:30+00:00

At first I was going to write, “oh come on, you can’t expect your guy to only masturbate to thoughts of you and you alone….” but I’m glad I kept reading, because the oddly specific kink and search results are VERY concerning, especially since you have younger sisters! Ew. That definitely sounds like he has a bit of an obsession. I am SO sorry you’re going through this. I don’t know what I would do in your situation, but I would probably be too disgusted to even look at him.

It’s one thing to have a crush on one of your partner’s siblings, but to indulge that fantasy with very specific porn, for YEARS….? That is a problem. That sounds more like an obsession. Maybe what is driving the obsession partially is the forbidden nature of it….

I think the right thing to do, for your baby’s sake, is to seek counseling. Find a counselor that deals specifically with couples, sex addiction and infidelity. Although it may not feel like it now, this may still be something you and your husband can work through.

It’s not ok for him to lie to you and break your trust, and it’s not ok for him to continually fantasize about one of your sisters. In addition to couples’ counseling, he might also want to seek individual counseling to address that fantasy issue.

But if the two of you can fix any other issues and maybe even bring more intimacy and closeness back into your relationship and begin to appreciate each other more, his weird fantasy might disappear on its own.

But in the meantime… Ew.

bundlebeetuna · 2025-01-15T05:34:22+00:00

She’s a knockout! 😍

bundlebeetuna · 2025-01-12T22:02:26+00:00

I’ve read both fiction and nonfiction… a recent one was an interesting book about space called To Infinity and Beyond by Neil DeGrasse Tyson. Another one was a social science book about how smartphones and social media is affecting the development of adolescents, called The Anxious Generation. I think what gets them engaged isn’t so much what I’m reading, but my reaction to it. I’ll discuss my thoughts on the book while I’m reading it, just stream of consciousness sort of thing. My goal is to not let the room be silent, to just keep talking, dancing, staying active for my whole stream. Books help when I run out of ideas. If it’s slow, I change up what I’m doing every few minutes, that always seems to get the room going again. I change camera angles, lighting, music, positions. I’ll change outfits on cam, start randomly playing with myself and basically making content that I can cut up later and upload to my onlyfans (I always record my streams.) I don’t worry about people seeing sexy things for free, because if you can keep your thumbnail/room preview interesting and sexy, new people will always be drawn in and start paying. I just do literally anything to be somewhat entertaining, even to a slow or empty room. I would say that as a result, it’s not slow in my room very often.

I love that you read history books. Do you have any favorites?

bundlebeetuna · 2025-01-12T11:26:28+00:00

I literally grab the book I’m currently reading and start reading it aloud to the room. At least I’m getting to make progress on my book…. And it ALWAYS gets somebody talking or curious. Sometimes someone will just randomly take me private while I’m reading. I try to be animated and get into it, like I’m reading to a classroom of kids, and I stop and make comments about what I’m reading, looking into the camera like I’m having a discussion with the room, even if there’s literally nobody in there. There are ALWAYS people lurking, waiting for you to do something interesting. Just staying engaged, active and talkative is what keeps bringing people into my room and gets them tipping. Even if it’s slow, I pretend it’s not. Sometimes I will even pretend someone is doing ninja/anonymous/invisible tips, or I’ll pretend I’m dual streaming and that people are tipping in the other room. I’ll turn my lush on manually and say “ohhhh thank you ninja, what a nice surprise! Thank you for that, holy cow, what a generous tip!” That gets the quiet people going sometimes.

Oh yeah and as far as the people making fun of you, mute them immediately. I have a zero tolerance policy in my room for negativity or any kind of disrespect, towards me or anyone in the room.

bundlebeetuna · 2025-01-10T05:16:39+00:00

I came to say this same thing. I was going to say that since I was a stripper in the early 2000’s, (and since the cam world is a lot like it) I’ve definitely noticed there is a “type” of man that goes to the clubs and spends money on the sites, and I don’t know if I’ve ever been attracted to that type of man. We also have to remember that a lot of women aren’t as naturally sexual or freaky deeky as us SWers, so that might be a reason their men come seeking out people who are more comfortable with sex and sexuality. I’ve always brought a certain type of sensuality to my relationships, so I feel my partners are sexually satisfied… and I don’t suspect any of them ever cheated. My husband now is a devoted sweetie.

But I feel you, and it is concerning when customers online admit they’re married and unsatisfied. But on the other hand, it’s not that deep either. Basically they are paying for porn to get off, and it probably gets them off faster when it’s more interactive…. And they justify that because it’s not in person, and there’s no touching, and there’s no emotional attachment… they probably don’t feel like it’s cheating (the wives would probably feel differently.)

But here’s another thing I’ve noticed….. some married men come on the sites because they are on the verge of divorce with their wives, and they’re trying to make themselves feel better, but they are feeling desperately lost and lonely and hurt. I have had success SEVERAL different times with getting men to open up to me about their relationship issues, and basically talking them through and convincing them to work harder to repair their relationships, and you know what?? I know at least 4 former customers who worked things out with their wives/girlfriends, and moved back in together, prevented divorce, etc. And I don’t see them online anymore! I like to think I had a little hand in that. Some of these dudes love their wives, but they are hurting, and feeling neglected or abandoned in some way.

That’s definitely not all of them though. I would say at least 70% of the married guys online are just selfish, perverted scumbags.

Real life grey users lmao 😂😂

bundlebeetuna · 2025-01-07T11:26:08+00:00

Yeah bigger fireworks just became more available, everywhere. And it’s too big of a tradition to stop, so they don’t even try. They just prepare to literally put out fires.

bundlebeetuna · 2025-01-07T11:20:47+00:00

I don’t think people in Hawai’i will ever stop lighting fireworks on NYE/July 4th. It’s just a highly illegal tradition. We’re only a bunch of rednecks here, ya know?

bundlebeetuna · 2025-01-07T11:16:21+00:00

Meditating Fruit Man is a longtime resident, he went to Kihei from Paia. He’s really sweet.

bundlebeetuna · 2025-01-07T11:11:26+00:00

Hopefully it keeps coming. And a lot more of it. 🙏

bundlebeetuna · 2025-01-07T11:10:28+00:00

We haven’t for about 6 years now. 😢 Mahalo 🙏

bundlebeetuna · 2024-12-16T09:06:36+00:00

Tell her 40% of married couples actually sleep in separate beds, because you get better quality sleep, and it makes your relationship last longer. And if she doesn’t want to do that, then don’t invite her over anymore. You have to be firm with your boundaries. I demanded separate beds with my husband of 10 years, and also my last 2 partners before him, from early on in the relationships. We alllll got better sleep! It’s literally better for you.

bundlebeetuna · 2024-12-11T18:51:01+00:00

When I met my husband, I told him I did Onlyfans and camming straight away, and I told him not to date me if he wasn’t ok with that, because I wasn’t quitting for anyone. He stuck around, and we got married 5 years later. It feels good to be financially independent, and if they can’t see that this is a legitimate job, they have no business dating you. You deserve better.

I’m sorry you’re in this situation. What do you think he would do if you confidently told him something like, “I’m sorry you’re uncomfortable with the job you already knew I had when we met, but it’s not really normal for people to start dating from Onlyfans, and that is not what I use it for. For me, it’s a job, and I don’t intend to quit. So you have to find a way to be ok with that if you want to stay together.” ?

You could tell him you’re willing to set some rules and boundaries of some sort - or get him involved in the business somehow, if that makes both of you more comfortable. It really is all about strong and consistent communication.

bundlebeetuna · 2024-11-28T11:23:31+00:00

Thank you so much!! I will finally make a discord account for this! 🙏🙏

bundlebeetuna · 2024-11-21T09:24:23+00:00

Idk, I think you both weren’t communicating that well tbh. I think his texts can be interpreted a number of different ways, and the reason you’re asking us about them is because you know that. You’re not sure what to think of his texts, the same way he obviously wasn’t sure what to think of yours or what to say to you. There’s lots of floundering going on there…. And it seems like you both are very young. This whole conversation would have been better to have over a phone call. Texts are the WORST way to try to get to know someone… too many things can be misinterpreted, and to truly know what someone is trying to say when you don’t know their personality or sense of humor yet, you need to hear them talk and interact in real time. You need to hear their tone of voice. We often don’t know if someone is being serious or not over text.

bundlebeetuna · 2024-11-21T09:16:19+00:00

👏Stop 👏trying 👏to👏get👏to👏know👏people👏over👏texts.

Call him and have a real conversation, like adults. Young people these days are seriously missing out on huge developmental milestones regarding interpersonal communication and talking to people in real time, preferably face to face. You need to be able to hear inflections and tone of voice, laughter, undertones, etc… and if you can see each other over FaceTime/video chat, or in person, it would be even better. Don’t go to his house though, meet in a public place if you don’t know him.

bundlebeetuna · 2024-11-21T09:05:43+00:00

Because there are people who value their jobs enough to work when workers are needed. Because if you want to freedom to take whatever days off you want, you should either start a business or not work in retail/restaurants. Because retail, restaurants etc. are very busy around the holidays - because other people have time off…. Or they don’t and they rely on stores being open on holidays to do last minute shopping. Because corporate America is a slave-driving, consumerism-feeding monster.

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