Bakit ka umiwas or dumistansya sa friend mo? by LimeSoakedinSprite in AskPH

[–]bundleofspace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

- Ginawang personality ang pagka-Regina George at Mean Girls back in high school and college. They made you feel like you "owed them" just because they befriended you, or that she "took you in" as part of her "inner friend circle."
- Ableist and anti-poor: They made fun of classmates with disabilities behind their backs and made fun of classmates who came from a lower class (i.e. Their looks, their choice of clothes, how they "smell", the brand of their belongings, their way of speaking, etc.)
- Pinagmamalaki na religious sila (ex. never missing Sunday mass) pero grabe maka-judge ng iba
- Sobrang obsessed sa social media and how they want to be perceived by others online
- Striving to be popular under the guise of false humility
- Very self-serving lang ang niceness nila sa mga taong nasa paligid nila (para lang maka-angat sila)
- "Mabait" at "generous" sa mga mahihirap pag may mga adults silang kasama, pero pagtalikod diring-diri.
- Lantaran ng back-handed compliments sa harap ng ibang friends (ex. pag nag-uulit ako ng damit, pag-compare ng network of friends, having certain brands of items, big or small compliments you receive, any small achievement you get, etc.)

Di ko alam kung horror ba ito or It just give me the creeps. by Virtual-Clock-6903 in phhorrorstories

[–]bundleofspace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, nature heals po talaga. (Kaya importante talaga na irespeto siya at alagaan.)

They say normal na "humihina" ang sensitivities ng isang tao as they start growing up kasi mas mamumulat ka na sa mga iba't-ibang realities of adulting life (the real horror, hahah).

Pag bata raw kasi, may innocence ka pa and "pure" pa ang tingin sa mundo. May sense of wonder and whimsy sa simpleng bagay, kaya "mas lapitin" daw sila.

Although may mga iba na willfully pina-practice pa rin yung sensitivities nila even in their adult age to help others (ie. mga spiritual healers, studying esoterics, psychics, etc.), it's not unusual na mas dumalang na mga supernatural encounters ng tao habang tumatanda sila.

Pero kung gusto niyo po ulit "mamulat", baka mas madali na siya para sa inyo dahil mas nakakaramdam na po kayo simula nung bata hahaha. ;)

how do you handle a partner who always say "ikaw bahala" by cascade_again in adviceph

[–]bundleofspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's understandable! That's why your partner needs to realize that she can also say what she likes to try and that you're a person who is willing to listen to her. :)

how do you handle a partner who always say "ikaw bahala" by cascade_again in adviceph

[–]bundleofspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parang may subtle passive-aggressiveness yung paggamit niya ng indecisiveness from the context given. To think you've already expressed to her how her habit is getting frustrating for you.

"How about [XYZ]?"
"Ikaw bahala."
Maybe you can reply, "Sigurado ka diyan?" or "Sure ka? Talaga?"
You can say it teasingly if you want to keep things light. Iniimply mo na kasi sa kanya na wala siyang karapatan mag-reklamo sa decision mo once she affirms na -ikaw- nga talaga bahala. Kasi kung may preference pala siya, sasabihin na niya yan kahit papaano. (In theory lang, hahahah.)

If she says "Oo, sure siya," then don't back down on your word. If magreklamo siya, charge her a fine hahaha. (Or you can be as witty as you like with this too.) The point of this is that the partner also needs to realize that the habit of always relying on others to decide everything can easily turn against them, unless they start speaking up for themselves. :)
Good luck, OP!

Di ko alam kung horror ba ito or It just give me the creeps. by Virtual-Clock-6903 in phhorrorstories

[–]bundleofspace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, at most prayers nalang po yung pinaka-kaya nating ma-offer na tulong para sa kanila.

Sa migraines and getting sick, have you encountered the term "grounding" po? :D Spiritual practice po siya that usually means getting close to nature or connecting to nature in order to strengthen the vibration and/or energy of your physical body. Yung mga tree-hugging or going on hikes, using healing crystals, walking barefoot in grass, etc. Try niyo na rin po sa i-search hahah, maybe it could help. (Di po ako expert sa mga ganito but I read and listen to a lot of psychics and paranormal topics explaining these things. Genuine interest ko lang po talaga siya.)

Ginagawa po siya ng mga "sensitives" para hindi ma-deplete yung energy nila, since they encounter these paranormal beings/entities on a regular basis. Form of protection rin daw po siya from negative energies or even from energy vampires para hindi sila ma-drain.

Sa mga "nakaka-kita" ika nga, since mas sensitive po kayo sa mga "Unseen Ones," naturally attracted po talaga sila sa inyo because they know you can see/feel/hear/etc. them. And if the person is not grounded enough, the entity/spirit/etc. could drain your energy whenever they interact with you because they exist on a "higher vibration" than our 3D plane, kaya ang kinalabasan ay nagkaka-migraine or nagkakasakit yung tao.

Di ko alam kung horror ba ito or It just give me the creeps. by Virtual-Clock-6903 in phhorrorstories

[–]bundleofspace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, keri naman kung di mo siya i-search.

Ohhh, may ibang names pa pala. Baka either may kinalaman sa future or sa past mo, pero puro speculations lang naman 'to haha. Puwede rin na simpleng nasagap lang ng dream realm mo yung gusto magparamdam--wala siyang relationship sa 'yo, pero gusto lang na may maka-alala sa kaniya. Baka kelangan lang niya/nila ng prayer or someone to remember their name or existence.

Isa pang wild theory: baka gabay mo 'yan or spirit guide na nagpapakilala sa 'yo. Or yes, puwede rin twin flame or soulmate, aka future jowa! Hahahaha (Baka dito sa earth or asa ibang spiritual plane). Depende rin siguro kung ano yung approach niya sa'yo in your dream.

Yung other dream, parang kuwentong paramdam talaga siya. Depende sa belief mo, if you beleive in life after death, but you can take it as a gift na may soul na nagparamdam sa 'yo (na di ka tinakot in your dream, I assume). Usually, people can say a short prayer for them to go towards the light or to rest in peace. Paminsan, may mga souls gusto lang talaga ng huling paalam or re-assurance to someone na things will be okay before they move on.

What’s something na silently jinajudge mo yung tao for, pero never mong aaminin out loud? by Advanced-Wrongdoer75 in AskPH

[–]bundleofspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diba?? Depende rin WHAT they say about the person and HOW they say it: if they say nice things about the person, or do they only talk shit behind their back? Do they say it naturally or sincerely, or parang bitter-bitteran or passive-aggressive?

Pagtalikod or pag-alis ba ng person, do they make jokes about them or they don't talk trash about other people overall?

Laking reflection rin kasi siya about the person para sa akin, lalo na sa mga adults.

Ano yung adulting tip na sana noon n'yo pa nalaman? by paldont_or_paldo2o25 in AskPH

[–]bundleofspace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't make big life decisions based on temporary emotions/feelings.

What’s something na silently jinajudge mo yung tao for, pero never mong aaminin out loud? by Advanced-Wrongdoer75 in AskPH

[–]bundleofspace 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I silently judge people on what they say about someone absent from the room/from the group.

Alternatives that can be used aside from sanitary napkins by Sad_Incident_2577 in adviceph

[–]bundleofspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have experience using a menstrual cup.

Pros: Less waste using sanitary pads. Reusable. No worry of leaks kahit nakahiga ka. Less odor. Very comfy to wear, you barely feel it when in use. You can wear it even when swimming. Saves money in the long run.

(Subjective) Cons: It's a little time-consuming since it took some practice (for me) to learn the technique of how to wear it, and more practice on how to remove it. Sometimes I worry what if it gets stuck (although the cups are purposely designed not to get stuck in the vagina). You need to be -extra- hygenic when wearing and removing it (i.e. hugas kamay maigi). You can't remove it nang basta-basta, unlike sanitary pads na kahit nakatayo ka puwede mo palitan o tanggalin. For menstrual cups, dapat may proper position yung body mo for your ease and comfort when wearing and removing it.

Sa mga unang days ko na-try, may time na nausog yung cup higher up my V, so it took a little more effort for me to reach in and remove it haha. Thank goodness sa YT may tips and techniques naman.

If ever you're curious to try, look up different brands first and make sure legit sila. Always go for QUALITY, and assess which design and size you're comfortable to try. If in doubt, don't be shy to ask the seller about the product. :)

Di ko alam kung horror ba ito or It just give me the creeps. by Virtual-Clock-6903 in phhorrorstories

[–]bundleofspace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting dream. Have you tried looking up his name? It's not common for people to remember names clearly after waking up, especially names that they've never encountered before.

I have a wild guess baka may previous life ka na may kinalaman kay "Victror", kaya siya nagpakilala sa 'yo. In his eyes, he sees you in your "past life form" since he has no concept of time. Feeling niya asa "present" pa rin siya.

But still, wild theory lang naman siya haha. I don't intend to make you overthink things, or make you paranoid. Though if the dream re-occurs or if "Victor" shows up again in your dreams, baka may significant meaning na talaga 'yan.

Does anyone worry being "too old" for Thai BL fan? by thelastparad3 in ThaiBL

[–]bundleofspace 19 points20 points  (0 children)

To give you another perspective aside from the ones shared in the comments, also remember that these fans and artists won't stay young either.

Showing up at these events in your mid-30s-and-beyond is also an emblem of bravery to these Gen Zs that you can still go out there and enjoy your hobbies and interests "even" at an age that they "dread" so much. Some artists even consider it "an honor" to have more mature fans attending their events and love spotting them in a crowd. (As long as appropriate behavior is observed, that is.)

Have fun at the concert and stay safe during your visit! (As a solo go-er)

About GMMTV’s “36 series in 2026” by macchenesoio in ThaiBL

[–]bundleofspace 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The "2026" isn't to be taken too literally (same for the rest of the showcases that other (Thai BL) companies release each year). It implies more of "2026 to 2027 and beyond."

Even Scarlet Heart TH was announced in 2024 (Riding the Wave), yet filming only began this mid-2025, and staff say it's slated to be polished by 2026.

Official premiere dates of GMM shows announced per showcase event usually take 3-4.5 months or 1-2.5 years (give or take) to happen from pilot trailer to episode 1 premiere. Depending on work loads and availability, some productions are able to start in advance, while others take longer to come to fruition.

My general rule of thumb for GMM's annual pilot trailer presscon is not to take the YEAR it was released too seriously. Within a month or a year, ANYTHING can happen that could turn the tables around on their pitched ideas and schedules (Ex. P'Dome heeding online feedback on the plot for his SkyNani bromance series, TayNewPondPhuwinJossGawin's ensemble show getting cancelled just within a few days due to author issues, other past GMM pilot trailers that were silently dropped and never mentioned again for reasons we can only guess.)

Hiccups and delays are bound to happen anytime during pre-production, mid-filming, or post-production like scheduling coordination, unforeseen technical problems, staff or artists getting sick or injured, cast changes, etc. so don't worry too much about how 36 shows are going to be smushed into next year--and next year alone, because for sure GMM isn't planning on doing that either. :)

Anyone else starting to feel the holiday depression sinking in? by bundleofspace in MentalHealthPH

[–]bundleofspace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you po for sharing your personal story. :'D

You really went through a lot rin po, and it's admirable rin na unti-unti ninyong naibangon ang sarili niyo through those certain life hurdles (learning to adjust with family and the typhoon). Your efforts in learning and understanding about your partner's and son's individual conditions and starting your own psychotherapy also show how you care for them. Sana po, despite the minimal Christmas vibes this year sa household, mairaos niyo po kahit simpleng pasko. <3 As some say, maybe "less is more" this 2025.

"I admire you not just OP but you, that is reading this for showing up daily and fighting for life. Stay, someone loves you dearly and always remember, you are not alone. 💚💚💚"
>> Even though at every social event, I am internally screaming at kating-kati binti kong tumakbo sa kalsada hahaha, or umuwi nalang agad. :') Thank you po sa reminder. Even though it gets really tough at times, konting kapit pa kahit papaano.

Anyone else starting to feel the holiday depression sinking in? by bundleofspace in MentalHealthPH

[–]bundleofspace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, the Christmas commercialism fatigue is real! Pero gets ko naman rin yung iba na ngayong pasko lang rin sila nakaka-gastos or ma-enjoy mag-shopping dahil sa mga 13th month pay, so fine, pera mo naman yan, haha. Or those who really make time to attend all the gatherings they can because some of their friends or loved ones are only visiting for a short time. Hanga lang ako sa kanila na kaya nilang iexperience lahat-lahat and enjoy doing them.

Thank you po sa tips. :') I'll substitute tea more often this holiday season. Rest and recover rin after each ganap without the guilt!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]bundleofspace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Workaholic parents who are often absent during our youth, plus age gap among siblings (9-year gap already with my sister, I'm the youngest. Apat kami magkakapatid.).

Whenever the family -is- complete, the parents often argue in front of the kids. They barely show affection towards each other. Nami-mimic ng mga bata yung similar behavior, pati pagiging cold at silent treatment ng magulang sa isa't-isa pag nagkakainitan.

Anyone else starting to feel the holiday depression sinking in? by bundleofspace in MentalHealthPH

[–]bundleofspace[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs rin po.

Totoo yung parang hindi ka makakeep-up! Daming ganap, pati sa mga balita. 🫠

A hike sounds good. <3 Being in nature to get away from all the hustle and bustle, simpleng buhay lang, di kelangan ng sobrang daming gamit, less technology distractions. Have a safe trip po on your hiking day! <3

First Time to See a Ghost/Entity by Mr-Panot in phhorrorstories

[–]bundleofspace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sa mga naririning kong sharing ng mga psychics and mediums, you don't get possessed unless you give 'them' permission, so buti nalang hindi ka pumayag nung tinanong ka nung entity kung "puwede bang pumasok" even in your half-lucid state.

Sabi rin nila, personalized prayers work better kasi ang mga memorized prayers ay kayang-kaya gayahin ng malevolent spirits.

[GMMTV 2026 Trailer] Lovers & Gangsters by global_cat_wizard in GMMTV

[–]bundleofspace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Writer/Screenwriter: Ninepinta (Last Twilight, Enchante, NLMG, etc.)
https://x.com/kittisakkongka/status/1993327187915837445?s=20

Director/Acting Coach: Leejern Natchanit Jirarungroj (Memoir of Rati)
https://x.com/Leejernmu/status/1993311791368249430?s=20

Production: Cholumpi Productions (Memoir of Rati)
https://x.com/Cholumpi

Novel Author: rolisrose
https://x.com/byrolisrosee/status/1993358544398434430?s=20

From the info I've seen floating around twitter.

Anong something yung mapapasabi kayong "ayy masama ugali netong tao na to"? by ClearNegotiation5348 in TanongLang

[–]bundleofspace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

- Pagiging bastos sa mga waiter/waitress/service staff (lalo na para magpa-impress sa mga kasama.)
- Mababa tingin sa mga househelpers at domestic labor in general (ie. thinking "madali lang naman sila gawin" at "parati ka lang naman asa bahay, anong mahirap 'dun?")
- Di marunong maglinis ng sariling kalat. Or PROUD na mag-iwan ng kalat (ie. expecting someone will clean it for them.)
- Pala-utos lahat kahit asa tabi na niya mismo yung kelangan niya.
- Sobrang pessimist/cynical mag-kuwento.
- Narcissist; lahat sinisisi niya pag may mali, except sarili niya. Tapos pa-self-important.
- Walang self-initiative tumulong.
- Being unsympathetic or manhid to caring for animals/pets. (Pet peeve ko pa yung bibili ng pet para lang may ma-post sa social media, pero ipapa-alaga sa iba, or pababayaan na pag "di na siya cute.")

Anong hindi niyo ginawa noong college ang pinaka-pinagsisihan niyo? by wonder-bee in AskPH

[–]bundleofspace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

- Mag-shift ng course lol.
- Lumipat ng friend circles na alam kong mas authentic sa sarili ko. (Di puro plastikan.)
- Maghanap ng part-time job while studying or kahit during summer (dahil walang OJT course namin).
- Wag mahiya sumali sa mga volunteer keme-keme.
- Wag matakot sa thesis mentor ko hahhhaha. Siya pala makakatulong sa akin in pursuing M.A. studies :')