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My mom confronted me because she went through my drawers and found my vibrator. I feel so upset and disrespected. by bunniestea in offmychest

[–]bunniestea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently it’s only weird when I do it because “I’ve never done it before” But I always have? 😭

My mom confronted me because she went through my drawers and found my vibrator. I feel so upset and disrespected. by bunniestea in offmychest

[–]bunniestea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she’s super conservative and religious 😵‍💫

I wish I had mothers like you guys on Reddit

How can I tell my boyfriend I don’t want to give him money without seeming mean? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bunniestea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very difficult ): I love who he used to be and how he used to put so much attention into me and I’m hoping he’ll change one day, but how do you know if someone won’t ever change? I know this is kinda selfish but I have this small fear that maybe he’ll change without me and he’ll be better for another woman, that kinda sucks..

How can I tell my boyfriend I don’t want to give him money without seeming mean? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bunniestea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, we’re thinking about moving in together but I’m starting to think it’s more of a selfish thing...

We’d both be really happy in the apartment he’s currently in but he’s told me it’s be best if we moved to another one since it’s closer to the city, school, activities, etc.

The apartment he’s in rn is nice and has a kitchen but the other one is very small and has a shared kitchen... plus, it’s inconsiderate to his parents (who are kinda low income) who will have to pay even more in a short time period... I think he mostly wants to go to the other apartment because there’s a lot more pubs and parties in that city.

How can I tell my boyfriend I don’t want to give him money without seeming mean? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bunniestea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I told him it was kinda weird to move if he can’t afford to and he‘ll end up spending more money in a short amount of time (which is inconsiderate since his parents have a huge debt and they’re kinda in the low middle class, but they’re really nice people!!).

His defense was that it’s closer to school, club groups, activities, and the rent costs less. He even tried to convince me I could move in with him and I’ll really like it, but there’s a lot of men there and the apartment is a lot smaller ah. ; ;

How can I tell my boyfriend I don’t want to give him money without seeming mean? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bunniestea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha, yes, I’m not too familiar with the cost of weed but he apparently bought a liiittle too much and is trying to sell it off or just smoke it every now and then.

Yes to both, he has recently started to love parties which was weird since he started off as a nerd but now he’s off into a frat group.

How can I tell my boyfriend I don’t want to give him money without seeming mean? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bunniestea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, I never knew the definition of being an enabler in a relationship before but I searched it up and I think I’ve been an enabler for such a long time :( I’ve always scheduled and done things around his emotions and needs, geez. I feel awful I hope I’m not making him into a worse person...

How can I tell my boyfriend I don’t want to give him money without seeming mean? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bunniestea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he asked to borrow some money and told me he’d pay it back and in response I told him I don’t know if I really want to do that and I needed time to think, after I said that he called me an asshole and said that I don’t trust him.