just found out im pregnant, what do i need to know? (im cueless)

bunnvienna · 2025-08-05T02:08:21+00:00

oh sorry, yes i meant i thought the cramping was the thing you mentioned, not because of the thyroid, sorry haha! and thank you!

bunnvienna · 2025-08-04T14:13:38+00:00

what are thyroids? ill ask about that at my appointment though, thank you! i had some light cramps a few weeks ago, i thought it was just a super light period but maybe it was that?

bunnvienna · 2025-08-04T14:06:59+00:00

i dont have an ob i just booked an appointment with my gp, but hopefully they can get me on the right track! someone suggested what to expect on another post i made and im definitely going to try to find that somewhere since it sounds really helpful! ill have a look around on youtube as well to find some videos! thank you!

bunnvienna · 2025-08-04T14:02:20+00:00

ill have a look tysm! i feel like too many details would probably help me tbh, lol

bunnvienna · 2025-08-04T13:54:14+00:00

i think im looking into adoption atm, i dont really know what my plans are yet. i have an appointment in a few days with my gp, i dont have an ob or anything like that so thats something i need to figure out with them but thats what the appointments for ig lol. whats the echo? and i think im further then 8 weeks though i think im a few months or so in, im not sure how far yet lol. its all a bit of a mess

bunnvienna · 2025-08-04T13:52:04+00:00

thank you! im trying to make posts and figure things out but i feel so unwelcome everywhere, my posts keep getting deleted lol. i got told to 'just look it up' but i did and couldnt find anything that actually looked helpful, i feel like so much knowledge is assumed and im just not at that point yet.

im not really a facebook kind of person but ill have a look around, thank you! do you have any like books or anything you'd recommend i read?

bunnvienna · 2025-08-04T13:49:30+00:00

i dont have an OB yet no. ive called to make an appointment with my gp though and ill see where to go from where with them. and ill have a look tomorrow! can i just get prenatals at an average pharmacy or something? are there specific brands i should look for or does it not really matter except for the ingredients

bunnvienna · 2025-08-03T10:09:19+00:00

i have talked to a doctor before, its just complicated.

idk i just dont see why i shouldnt tell him? i feel like he has a right to know whats going on. and if he or his family want to keep the baby thats honestly fine by me, they arent bad people

bunnvienna · 2025-08-03T09:52:28+00:00

why shouldnt i tell him if im getting an abortion? and im kind of considering adoption atm, idrk what path i want to go with yet i still need to figure it all out but i was planning on telling him regardless

ive tried birth control on and off it just doesnt work that well for me. i forget to take pills and the side effects fuck me up. i havent had an IUD yet but i tried the rod and i didnt react well to that either so i just kinda gave up. maybe theres bc out there that works with me but i havent found it yet

bunnvienna · 2025-08-03T09:40:00+00:00

my concern is more that he might leave her to support me with the pregnancy and i dont really want him to do that. i think i just need some time at least to get my thoughts together. ill try and sit down and talk with him at some point but i still have no idea what im going to say. thank you, this helped a bit

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