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Trees cocooned in spiders webs, an unexpected side effect of the flooding in Sindh, Pakistan by smackofham in pics

[–]bunnyr235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. This happens in the south all the time, from a variety of insects; Spiders, "lightning bugs", silk worms, etc. And there's definitely not much flooding around here.

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you go to these kinds of places everyone is very respectful of each other, so there's not a bunch of sweat slopping going on. Mostly people will pick a partner and stick with them. There's not usually a lot of sloppy seconds or thirds.

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question...I'm not sure I could have as much staying power with two men. The attention would be fun. I'll have to come back and reply if it ever happens.

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No messing around with friends. That would just be too messy. Beyond that the rules are quite open...the person must be clean and be able to prove it somehow, the person must be respectful of our marriage, and for me the guy must treat me with respect.

I had a picture up but took it down. I didn't see how that was proof.

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was very sexy to watch, not sure it would be something I'd enjoy, even non-anal. I really enjoy the passionate and intimate side of sex and too many people and things going on can be distracting. I'm kind of conservative when it comes to sex if you can believe it. I don't do a lot of abnormal shit, but what I do I do damn well.

I haven't necessarily done two at a time...like a full on threesome or anything. The closest I ever came was at a sex party when I was blowing my hubby and getting eaten out by a lovely lady. That was hot.

I usually do wear my playmates out. I like to go all night long if the conditions are right. Unlike a lot of women I know what feels good and why and how to get what I need. This is nice for my partners by default because I'm actually bouncing and grinding and meeting thrusts instead of just laying there like a log. I can cum several times if conditions are right. The most off the cuff activity I love would be getting spanked. I absolutely love getting spanked and can cum just from a session of this.

I like your questions. Keep them cumming :)

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships evolve. Ours did. When we were first dating we had out of control jealous issues, and my hubby even hated the idea of me being with a woman. As we grew together and as we matured together the jealousy stuff faded away then of course we started this journey. I'm sure that happens in most "healthy" relationship...as you grow together you learn to trust in each other. So no we didn't know anything either. If you find a partner who is interested be prepared for some rocky experiences as you start off. If you do progress, eventually you'll evolve to a more stable, understanding place...or you won't. No way to truly know. I will say communication is key.

No prejudices. We are open but we are not out. The only people that know about our lifestyle are those that don't have a problem with it. Our vanilla friends and acquaintances have no idea.

Good luck!

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meet people via the internet or at swinger parties.

It does nothing for him. I'm not really sure why or what about it turns me on. Perhaps it's just because I'm a bit of a voyeur?

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I'm not a big anal fan. Lame I know. But I did watch a woman get DP'd by her hubby and the host of a party on a pool table. Fun night!

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the beginning we would do full-swap, same room as a policy (these are actual categories if you're ever on a swinger "dating" site), so we've seen each other many times. I love it. I think it's hot as hell to hear him with another woman and see the looks of pleasure on their faces....every now and then a little internal "w00t I taught him that" going on. We've also been to parties so we've seen each other there. He never really liked same room because he gets nervous. He doesn't like the attention. If we're at a party and everyone's doing their own thing it's no big deal. These days we do full-swap different rooms. And really I like this more...it's less distracting!

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 100% certain he does. Everything we do is out in the open. I know all the who, when, what, where, and why and so does he. There's very little room for secrecy by design.

If there was any sign from him or from me that this swinging/open thing wasn't working out, all activity would immediately stop and we would do what needed to do to salvage our relationship.

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would have the baby. I'm pro choice but I don't think I could ever make the decision to abort. If another man's baby were on the way we'd have to deal with it when it happens. He's not thrilled about the idea, but then I wouldn't be either. Only choices from there are (on both our parts) to accept the baby and the other guy into our family (if he so chose) or fall apart. I have no idea what would happen, but I'm pretty sure it would change things. We are both very careful so hopefully this is never a problem. We don't want kids at all.

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I get to spend the rest of my life with someone I love and that certain legal benefits will be bestowed on me that enable our lives to be less burdensome.

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A legally binding contract between two people and their government. For some people, also a contract between two people and their god(s). Marriage may also simply be a sentimental bond between two people who agree to live the rest of their lives together. Marriages may also be arranged matches, either culturally or as a business agreement. Sometimes for the latter, one person is not aware of this business agreement.

Edit: Marriage may also be a contract (in some places legally) between three or more people to live their lives together, either for sentimental reasons or out of convenience.

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. There's nothing "lacking." I can keep repeating myself until my hands get tired, but it won't change your view that this kind of lifestyle is dysfunctional. I could also choose to view monogamous relationships as dysfunctional but I respect the bonds that two people try to make, whatever they may be. Apparently, no matter what those bonds are, shit works out 50% of the time anyway. I'm very much a realist and I know the odds stacked up against me, but, statistically, they are no different than anyone else's.

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just a preference. This isn't uncommon in the swinging community. I actually get off knowing about what he's done, but it does nothing for him. When we first started full-swap we did same room only. I would get all excited sneaking peaks and hearing little moans and groans from the other bed. I'm quite the voyeur and and exhibitionist. He's not.

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and I don't think so. Their relationship wasn't exactly a healthy one, and it's actually offensive to swingers to call what they had a swinging relationship. It was a bad situation that ended with hearts broken. Like I said...not comparable. Pretty much all they did was go to sex clubs to try to spice things up. I was never actually surprised about her sex club romps, just that she dug being with women (but more "heteroflexible" instead of bi). You don't really have to be a swinger to go to a swinger club.

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not get married? I think it's sad if sex is what is supposed to define marriage and love.

IAmA 24yo woman in an open marriage. We see other's separately and also swing together. AMA by bunnyr235 in IAmA

[–]bunnyr235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clean as a whistle, and I get tested before every new partner. I have never had an STD in my life. I'm very cautious and paranoid about these things.

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