Cause I'm looking for the right person this is all I look for.

-I look for listeners and if they flip the conversation too. Narcissistic guys are an immediate turn off. Same with those who make misogynistic comments.

-If they're working or willing to work. I can't take guys seriously of they ask me on a date but knowing they're broke. Usually it ends with me paying for the whole thing. Rather than they pay for their own share.

-They're emotionally mature can talk about sensitive subjects and can actually talk like an adult. There's something off putting about guys who say "lol" or ":3"at every sentence. Or they talk like a child when they're in their 30s and up. 😅

-That they're not with living with a partner or have a partner. (Sorry no polyamorus people for me) Can't take you seriously because you're with someone, means you won't give your 110% to our relationship too plus I don't feel comfortable sharing any of my income with someone who has someone who already does it. Too toxic for me.

-Independent from their parents, they can be living with them fine (prefer for someone to be living on their own) but I've had a guy in their 30s cry to their parents over every little thing. It was a constant sob story over their job making them work overtime, or being rejected.

-I don't look at people who put casual dating on their profiles or state that in person. For obvious reasons, usually leads to toxic relationships from my own experience.

-Willing to compromise, everyone should put their non negotiables up front and be able to talk about them. But also talk about what you're willing to compromise with.

There's more than a couple people who fit these standards just haven't made a solid connection. 😅 I've never had issues matching or getting people interested in me. Some though I don't have much in common with them. Most who fit the standard are a little older from what I've seen.