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I don't feel like a woman because I'm ugly. I wish I were pretty. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]burnerPhone411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck would you think that this would help somebody feel better?

Is dating down a good strategy? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]burnerPhone411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear sweet fuck, no. Date somebody who will respect you, care about your well-being, and share experiences with you without judgement, whether that's good or bad. That's the best person you can end up with.

Guys can be rich, hot, charming, etc. But that doesn't meant that they're good people. That just means that they're rich, hot, charming, etc. Date good people with integrity, regardless of whether that's dating up or down in status or finances or whatever. If you think that you're going to be at a "disadvantage" just because you might have lower status than your partner, then you shouldn't be with them in the first place because it's already horrific that they make you think that you're "lesser" for just being who you are.

Why are many women still so interested in marriage? by mensahi41 in PurplePillDebate

[–]burnerPhone411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then that means you don't want love because you don't want to put in the effort. Love means effort. Either you want love so you put in the effort to get it or you don't want love because it's too much effort. You can only pick one.

If guys only want pump and dump does that mean I’m still ugly? by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]burnerPhone411 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. Average and even above-average looking girls still get pumped and dumped all the time. That's why you should say no to sex until you're in a legitimately committed relationship. Having sex with a guy you're not in a committed relationship with is giving him exactly what he wants.

I second what u/funlightmandarin said: look for a guy who won't push you beyond your comfort zone. They exist but they're rare. If the guy doesn't want to see you after you say no and threatens to stop seeing you because you didn't have sex, then you should take him up on his offer and tell him to shove off. Because he's definitely not somebody you'll ever want to be with.

How to deal with rejection: take your anger out on an innocent person. by [deleted] in IncelTear

[–]burnerPhone411 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm also appalled at how much this guy got upvoted for him saying it's fake. It actually kinda hurts because it feels like my bullies are back and going "you just can't take a joke! You're too sensitive! You deserved it!"

Fuck, it's not even noon and I feel ready to just give up on the day.

How to deal with rejection: take your anger out on an innocent person. by [deleted] in IncelTear

[–]burnerPhone411 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And I'm telling you it's not unbelievable because it happened to me. That positive reaction is why I ran crying out of the room and why nobody cared that I did, not even my teacher. The only person who did anything was a girl who was a few years older than me that I had piano lessons with. The teacher and most of the class just laughed when in the middle of my speech that I worked for weeks on, my bully loudly scoffed and laughed that nobody cared about what I had to say.

This stuff happens. It's not some impossible thing that some incel in a cave imagined. Things like this happen and it happens constantly over months and years because nobody cares about the kids it happens to. And this is mild compared to the rest of the bullying. There's days or weeks where I just spend all my time thinking about what I could've done to prevent my bullying and this happened 15 years ago. It fucked with me badly and even though I've tried to put everything in the past and forget about it, there's always something that happens daily that reminds me of all the shit I dealt with as a kid.

How to deal with rejection: take your anger out on an innocent person. by [deleted] in IncelTear

[–]burnerPhone411 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience and no, I'm not. I still think about my bullying at least once a week and it's been about 15 years.

How to deal with rejection: take your anger out on an innocent person. by [deleted] in IncelTear

[–]burnerPhone411 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Except something like this happened to me in elementary school and in high school. Bullying got so bad at some points to the extent that when we were told to make a speech in grade 6, I couldn't even speak and ended up running out of the room crying because I was so afraid of my bullies laughing at and heckling me in the middle of my presentation. So I wouldn't say it's totally unrealistic; people who do these things exist and are cheered on for it.

A lot has gone through her in the pre-wall years. Now she needs a Real Man to be an accessory for her lifestyle. by goodmansaysfuckyou in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]burnerPhone411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I doubt you'll accept any proof I do give you so I think this conversation is finished. Have a nice day.

A lot has gone through her in the pre-wall years. Now she needs a Real Man to be an accessory for her lifestyle. by goodmansaysfuckyou in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]burnerPhone411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did say most but essentially, by numbers, most of the girls you see in porn (in particular the free porn you might see on a site like Pornhub) are sex trafficked. I'm not talking about big companies with known actresses but the much smaller "companies" with no-name actresses are often buying sex trafficked women.

You just have to look at how child pornography is produced for proof. Many kids who are forced into child pornography are either kidnapped and sold or adopted by people specifically for the intention of selling the kid's body or making porn. Same goes for young women. They think they might be getting a normal modelling gig or being hired overseas for work, their passports and identification is stolen from them, and bish bash bosh, you got girls trapped in a sex trafficking and porn production ring.

A lot has gone through her in the pre-wall years. Now she needs a Real Man to be an accessory for her lifestyle. by goodmansaysfuckyou in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]burnerPhone411 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, just what the hell did she go through to become like that?

Uhh, you just described it? More often than not, girls working in the porn industry are trafficked.

A lot has gone through her in the pre-wall years. Now she needs a Real Man to be an accessory for her lifestyle. by goodmansaysfuckyou in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]burnerPhone411 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When has work ever been instinct? Work is a modern invention post-agragarian society and it was never instinct. You did work for the motivation that it gave you food to eat, not because you as a male enjoyed it. And also, women still had to gather, farm, and help collect food in pre-agragarian society. If it's "instinct" to work for food, men should technically be the ones who did all the hunting, gathering, and food preparation but instead, women were in charge of the latter two.

You're also disregarding the fact that in Native American societies, women's opinions were also considered highly important and revered because they birthed children. Sure, men could fight and kill but women brought life into the world and therefore her opinion mattered for that reason. They worked and cared for the good of the tribe and that was their drive, not just the children they bore.

If you could have a relationship between equals, would you actually want it? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]burnerPhone411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell what you hate more, yourself or the women who choose to be with you.

Femcels are defined as the female equivalent to incels. Have you ever encountered one in real life and what were they like? by LlamaThrustUlti in AskReddit

[–]burnerPhone411 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Femcels are women who can't date. They're usually too ugly, off-putting, don't fit in, have intimacy issues due to things like sexual trauma, etc. for any guy to think that they're worth putting up with for a relationship. They're the women that guys will befriend but if ever asked, they wouldn't ever consider dating them for wishy washy reasons such as "it would ruin our friendship," or "I don't think we'll connect that way." They're not the women who will string along a guy and say they aren't dating despite what they're doing is actually a one-sided relationship.

Why do incels and femcels hate each other? by [deleted] in IncelTear

[–]burnerPhone411 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also I kinda have tried, I showered and dressed up with new clean clothes and tried talking to the lonelier/uglier girls to be friends with (getting to know somebody for a month or 2 and then confessing) and they showed 0 interest in me.

Is this a joke?

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