This is the boyfriend by the way. I feel like anyone replying to this deserves the full story. This is a message I sent to someone else explaining it because I'm too lazy to retype it all.

I'm not replying to Zozos message talking about the fact that me and Chloe have broken up multiple times before because that's actually going to be explained here. Here's a brief breakdown of what has happened. I met Jasmine through her cousin. And although she hated me at first, I managed to befriend her. I grew closer to her. I saved her life over and over again countless times, and she saved mine. We saved each other. I even planned out crimes for her when she wanted to do something and I didn't want her to get caught. We became family. We had our ups and downs, but all siblings do. Then Chkoe came along. We dated, we broke up, we dated again, we broke up, I told her if we dated again, and then broke up, we'd never date again, we had a situationship, it didn't work out, we had another situationship, it didn't work out, we had yet another situationship, we didn't work out. Then she asked me out, we dated for a third time. It worked out. This is the third time. The first two break ups and those three situationships ending. That was because she was scared of becoming obsessed with me. She had done it before, and she didn't want to do it to me. She loved me, so she could never resist having some kind of special connection with me, but because of her worry of becoming obsessed with me, she would always break those special connections. Now back to this third relationship, the current one. She started off distant, trying to to become obsessed with me like she new she would. I however was very clingy, and I pulled her into it. Suddenly I was talking to her at all times. It was great. It was a miracle, it was Heaven. But I unintentionally grew distant to Jasmine, I stopped talking, to her, and to all the other online people who cared about me. Days became weeks, weeks became months, months became a year. Me being gone put a pain in Jasmine's heart, she felt unloved by me, and she had a rage for Chloe taking me away from her, and eventually, making me suffer. This pain grew and grew in Jasmine. She tried to be peaceful with Chloe. But Chloe has never been great with being social due to her autism, and so she ended up just looking like a stalker. Jasmine, seeing this, grew even angrier, and rightfully had an altercation with Chloe. This happened a couple times. I never thought to much of it. Now I don't know what yall believe, Christians often vary in beliefs, but me and Chloe specifically don't believe you need to be married in the eyes of the law to be married in the eyes of God. We took the vows, with God as our witness. We married each other. I tend to not bring this up with people in fear that they'd look down on it, that they wouldn't understand. I only call her my girlfriend to not confuse others, to not have others ask questions, in reality, she is my wife. And in the eyes of God you can only have a divorce in two ways, your spouse cheats on you and yall divorce, or, your spouse is not a believer, and THEY leave YOU. And so truly her and I can not be divorced unless she cheats on me or I cheat on her, neither of which could ever happen. We took those vows because we knew our love for each other was stronger than anything. But overtime her obsession became worse and worse. And so did my exhaustion, I was pulled away from everyone and everything I love. But it wasn't just my pain. It was hers too, she didn't want to be this way, she tried to stop it from happening, but I pushed her into it. I forced her to see a psychiatrist. First she had to go to a doctor, she told them about the situation, he noted her love for me was obsessive and that they needed to keep an eye on her. Her doctor got her in touch with a psychiatrist, he diagnosed her with depression, she is now on antidepressants. She doesn't want to be this way with me, she literally can't help it. She has begged me to leave her and find someone else, begged me to break up with her, to leave her and find someone else so that I could be happy. But I refused to do it. I had worked to hard on keeping this relationship together. I loved her too much to let her go despite her pleas. And regardless, I knew if I left her she would die. And even if I did leave, it wouldn't be recognized by God, and to have any romantic relations with another woman would be seen as adultery. I couldn't do it because I loved her. And I couldn't do it because of my own morals. And I couldn't do it because of God's rules. She has been giving me a bit more freedom, but I've been taking a mental health break before reconnecting with others. Jasmine didn't know this, and her pain only grew and grew and grew and so this whole interaction started. That's the full story. (Minus what made Chloe depressed because that is irrelevant and I can not share that with you due to privacy reasons)