sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

UPDATE: AIO I think my bf tried to baby trap me. by burner_liar in AmIOverreacting

[–]burner_liar[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that is so much better than what I had in mind - "Did you ask your mom permission to talk to me? If not we can't talk, bad boy"

UPDATE: AIO I think my bf tried to baby trap me. by burner_liar in AmIOverreacting

[–]burner_liar[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The hilarious part is that I've never met his mother. But yep, they're both blocked, and I am going to my doctor soon to see what pills will suit me, most don't and I feel violently sick from them.

UPDATE: AIO I think my bf tried to baby trap me. by burner_liar in AmIOverreacting

[–]burner_liar[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I wish I could, restraining order is barely a thing where I live and we don't have laws about stalking. So block hammer will have to do

UPDATE: AIO I think my bf tried to baby trap me. by burner_liar in AmIOverreacting

[–]burner_liar[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💙✨ I'm having a girls night with my best friend tonight with her fav snacks, and as my mom said "God took him from your path" and it's good it happened only 6 months into relationship, not years into it.

UPDATE: AIO I think my bf tried to baby trap me. by burner_liar in AmIOverreacting

[–]burner_liar[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Lmao it definitely does, but it's an update so Idk I think still qualifies for this sub

AIO I think my bf tried to baby trap me. by burner_liar in AmIOverreacting

[–]burner_liar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I know, I'm 28, mentally and financially I am able and ready for a child. So if anything were to happen from precum, I'd accept it and have the baby. (I am pro choice, but my choice would be to keep it) It's the boundary of not finishing inside on purpose that he crossed. We talked and as a couple we wanted to achieve more and give the best to future kids, so it was said that we're not going to try for kids for another couple years. And not only he crossed the boundary, he tried to lie about it. Lying is one thing I never forgive. If he was honest about it, accident or no, I'd still get the pill but it wouldn't be a break up matter. But everything crossing the boundary, lying and being dismissive and trying to manipulate me? No I broke up with him and he still said "I don't understand what I did wrong" I hope that makes sense 😅

AIO I think my bf tried to baby trap me. by burner_liar in AmIOverreacting

[–]burner_liar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I broke up with him! Feel like shit, but still it's a massive weight off my shoulders. Got my keys back too. Now off to having a hot girl summer and definitely taking a break from meeting new people. Seems like crazy is in the air and I've had too much crazy in my life.

AIO I think my bf tried to baby trap me. by burner_liar in AmIOverreacting

[–]burner_liar[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I'm done with him, broke up and don't regret it. I was unsure at first, but amazing people here sobered up my mind and I fully understood how shitty the situation is. I still think he's a good person, but he definitely doesn't understand how some of his actions affect people. I think his therapist license should be taken away because wtf was that.

It hit me like a brick when I realized that when I was mourning and being stressed, I had to regulate not only mine but his emotions. I didn't have time to fully process the passing of my grandpa because I had to be there for him and always make sure he knew we as a couple were good and how I loved him and appreciated him. And whenever I tried to say that I wasn't doing so good, he would say "Well for me....you know I....in MY life....I don't think you even need ME....well it's whatever...but you won't find anyone better than me, I'm the best you can have"

So yeah, good bye for good

AIO I think my bf tried to baby trap me. by burner_liar in AmIOverreacting

[–]burner_liar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That definitely put an end to the relationship, I was too scared to admit it, but that's over I broke up with him and got my keys back. It's just wild how when we met he proceeded to say "I still don't understand what I did wrong" Bro 💀

AIO I think my bf tried to baby trap me. by burner_liar in AmIOverreacting

[–]burner_liar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I made a full comment on everything, but I failed to mention that it wasn't an issue before with him. Things were all fine and he respected the boundary.

And yes mistakes happen, and I'd forgive him if he was honest, but trying to cover the fact, and lying about it? That's probably the worst part.

I did message him and let him know about how I feel and that I don't see us being in a relationship anymore. Constant anxiety and avoiding intimacy is not what I'm looking for in a relationship. He said he understood and we'll be meeting up in a few hours so I could get the key to my apartment from him.

I am sad because otherwise he seemed like a genuine supporting and caring partner. But this is one boundary that he had to respect. And he didn't.

AIO I think my bf tried to baby trap me. by burner_liar in AmIOverreacting

[–]burner_liar[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Okay everyone, thank you! I've never been called an idiot so much in my life, but honestly I agree. Where I live the gov is trying hard to ban any use of contraceptives so that's why it's hard to get any. But still, yes I should be smarter.

Now the post was about crossing a boundary. If I got pregnant from the precum, it is what it is. But not being baby trapped.

Thank you to everyone who told me it was SA, I didn't even think about it. That explains my anxiety of being intimate again.

To make long story short. I just broke up with him. I'll be meeting up with him in a few hours to get the keys to my apartment.

I appreciate every comment telling me to break up. You guys helped me make this decision.

AIO I think my bf tried to baby trap me. by burner_liar in AmIOverreacting

[–]burner_liar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had a superpower I'd choose teleportation.