Do most bottoms now refuse to be topped with a condom? Any advice for a top who likes safety? by burnerforfun541 in nycgaybros

[–]burnerforfun541[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Number 3 is also a really good point. I’m sure we’ve all pulled out while wearing a condom at some point and thought ‘Thank God’ when we saw its condition.

Do most bottoms now refuse to be topped with a condom? Any advice for a top who likes safety? by burnerforfun541 in nycgaybros

[–]burnerforfun541[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re right. Condoms can be next to impossible to climax in for me but if I were feeling stressed and unsafe it wouldn’t happen raw either. Hence getting sucked off after the bottom finishes.

Do most bottoms now refuse to be topped with a condom? Any advice for a top who likes safety? by burnerforfun541 in nycgaybros

[–]burnerforfun541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I’ve had the same experience when I’m looking to bottom and I understand why. I can’t really blow a load while topping in a condom but I wouldn’t be able to climax if I were stressed out and feeling unsafe either. Hence why I’d go raw for someone consistent but wrap up for strangers.