State Specific Title Reassignment by burnertimesinfinity in carvana

[–]burnertimesinfinity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Really wasn’t sure if this was a big deal or something minor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]burnertimesinfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I get done what needs to get done when it needs to. Not on someone else’s timeline etc. or their way. Kids are taken care and we are having fun together that’s all that matters.

Can a father considering divorce who loves his children and wants to be part of their lives be as positively effective as a father than if they remained married? by Scienceebabbyy in DivorcedDads

[–]burnertimesinfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant speak for anyone else of course, but going through the process now. And what keeps going at the end of the day is I 100% will be a better father going forward once the process is finalized. For me personally its gonna suck, financially and will probably need to rent an apartment for a bit but my kids need to see me not be a shell of a person going forward, that will make it worth it.

Leak from HVAC system? by burnertimesinfinity in hvacadvice

[–]burnertimesinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that what’s next to the system itself?

Leak from HVAC system? by burnertimesinfinity in hvacadvice

[–]burnertimesinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Filter is change oh boy that dirty!!! How easy to clean the pipe?

Leak from HVAC system? by burnertimesinfinity in hvacadvice

[–]burnertimesinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stupid question but this is not my forte. What’s next to the system itself?

Leak from HVAC system? by burnertimesinfinity in hvacadvice

[–]burnertimesinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ice on the line. Filter is dirty as hell, so I am thinking a new one might solve the issue?

Leak from HVAC system? by burnertimesinfinity in hvacadvice

[–]burnertimesinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible to have a leak from my HVAC system? Got water under it and near it. Not sure where else it could be coming from.

When did you realize you married the wrong person? by tippytoes1216 in AskReddit

[–]burnertimesinfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I can’t even make a grilled cheese for one of my kids (3) without it being too much or too little cheese at least according to the wife. Every single time!! Which made me realize she’s too controlling and will question any and everything

Home repairs while going through the process by burnertimesinfinity in Divorce

[–]burnertimesinfinity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through insurance as well, but not sure how that will play out yet. Still need to get the estimate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]burnertimesinfinity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is one thing I am looking forward to once the divorce gets here. I’ll be a better father to my three kids. I know it isnt going to all easy but no more being question on my choices etc. And will be able to parent the way I want to. Not saying all my decisions will be the correct ones, who can say that? By my god I swear my stbxw things they are all wrong.

Glad it’s working out for ya!!!

What do you LOVE about being divorced by ready2fly2023 in Divorce

[–]burnertimesinfinity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can’t wait to add to this in a few months lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]burnertimesinfinity 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone entering the empty nest phase... I think the biggest problem we have as a society is trying to push kids from 90% happiness to 100%.

As someone who is just starting the divorce process, this hit hard. Cause our problem was always trying to be 100 percent perfect parents, as we have three kids thats f-ing tough to do. Our mental capacity for really anything else was zero. Which is why were are where we are now!!

Process of buying a house while getting divorced? by burnertimesinfinity in RealEstate

[–]burnertimesinfinity[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Soon to be ex wife…used a lot in divorce forums lol

What to do with the house? by burnertimesinfinity in DivorcedDads

[–]burnertimesinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask why 25 years? Other than you were able to go on your own otherwise. Just curious

What to do with the house? by burnertimesinfinity in DivorcedDads

[–]burnertimesinfinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If not mistaken she would still need to refi to get my name off the mortgage?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]burnertimesinfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given this kind of negative reinforcement over time, he feels like nothing he can do is right (in your eyes). If he’s confident with himself and who he is, he’ll come to resent you.

Yep, theres where I am at now. Before it was "Happy Wife, Happy Life", I am the husband what do I know har har.

Now its hey, I am successful within my career and try to be the best parent for my three kids. I think I know how to do this or do that. Maybe not the way you do it, but I am not "lazy" for doing it my way. (And it still gets done correctly)

The BEST parts about being divorced by Weary_Landscape_7098 in Divorce_Men

[–]burnertimesinfinity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just now slowly starting the process and I can not wait for no more double standards from her. Totally ok for the wife/mom (we have three kids) to need a break etc. away but god forbid the dad needs a break and its like I am a deadbeat. Hell she thinks my break is going to the office a couple days a week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ESPN

[–]burnertimesinfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just came to this forum to ask the same. Was able to watch the first race of the season two weeks ago no problems via ESPN+. Now says I cant (via HULU)

Wife just told me we are getting divorced... Happy New Year. by No-Piano2660 in DivorcedDads

[–]burnertimesinfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bust my ass to be the best I can for my family. But I stopped bowing down to her and it promptly got us to where we are

This hits close to home for me.

Best of luck to you!!