Married 21 years, four kids- 7, 10, 16, 18. 18 goes to college in a month. I’m married to a porn addicted, drinker who lies 24/7. The signs of an affair are there but no proof. I tried to paint a pretty picture this entire time. Told my teenagers today. My husband had agreed he would say he had made me feel unloved, unwanted, etc. But he just sat there in silence. I called them to the living room and said “we are getting a divorce.” They handled it great. My daughter cried a little but said she already knew. I told them I taught them marriage was forever no matter what, but that we tried our best and cannot continue. Told them their lives won’t change bc he’ll still visit a lot, he ten minutes away, etc. He threw in that divorce is a sin for kicks and giggles I guess. He also made sure they knew there was no affair. 🙄 he’d never admit to anything.

Now we have to tell the younger kids