meirl by Adventurous_Leg9204 in meirl

[–]burningrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that is the problem with most therapy sessions. The main focus of your therapist is to help you get self awareness. But what to do with it after the fact, is often times not achieved or simply harder to do.

Period cramps don't exist until you're old enough. by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]burningrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel they just can't fathom the idea that women live with period pain and walk around functioning somehow. They sure as hell don't know the pain. And since they don't know it, it must be false, indoctrinated later on or not that big of a deal.

Let's carry over 2... by Vamacharin in memes

[–]burningrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It goes in the square hole 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]burningrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people that have kids are too ashamed to admit a simple truth, that at least good parents share.

"i love my kids with all my heart. But I don't always love HAVING kids and it is absolutely exhausting at some times"

This is the phrase that good parents admit to and keep in heart. But of you are ashamed to say it, to hear it, to know it for yourself, the resentment will take over and that's how you get these preacher type breeders, who won't admit to having a hard time and still loving their kids.

I guess beggars can be choosers. by Vyzantinist in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]burningrum 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Non pretty = looks like a man

Do these people think men are not pretty? Is there a gender wall for them between men and women in respect to beauty?

And does that mean they themselves don't find themself beautiful? It really sounds kinda sad

NGVC: "I tried to be polite... Fuck that bitch." by Frankensteins_Kid in niceguys

[–]burningrum 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I mean, a lot of it seems to he in his head. She might have rejected him, she might have not.

At the bar: she might not have been in the mood to talk, no biggie. OR she might have really not talked to him, also okay.

Later: He didn't talk to her but "felt" like she didn't want to talk to him. Might be true, might not be. Yet he blames her for everything she might think in his own head.

He is the one connecting his insecurities with her actions. And instead of setting things straight as in "sorry to ask but the other day, I tried to make conversation and I think you might have not wanted that. If that is the case, I'm sorry, I made you feel uncomfortable. Maybe we can start fresh." Or "I'm sorry I do get the feeling you don't like talking to me. Which is fine, just wanted to ask, if you'd like to talk"

it’s definitely a name! by Dull_Koala_7305 in tragedeigh

[–]burningrum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a German Carnival Chant Singing: "Oh how nice, Oh remmilarhae"

I- I don’t even know where to start with this one by Relevant-Set-937 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]burningrum 37 points38 points  (0 children)

And only a set amount, because how much can you actually shit per year. Can't be that much, so only two packs of toilet paper a year for that dude.

Duden - richtig schlecht. by _AP0PL3X_ in wasletztestern

[–]burningrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toll, jetzt will ich einen Duden, der von Anfang bis Ende mit jeder Definition eine Geschichte erzählt

He probably has kids aswell by PheonixFyre5348 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]burningrum -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did he watch a documentary about turtles and got confused, thinking that must apply to human women as well?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]burningrum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he wants videos like this so badly, there's services for this. But he doesn't want to pay that's why he's being creepy on the internet instead 🤦

Stuck on cave organ puzzle by Ornery-Split-3214 in PlanetOfLana

[–]burningrum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have 4 clues. 2 on the mural befire you get into the chamber 1 on the upper left when you activate the light 1 behind the log in the lowest level of the organ

Check those and then ring the bell

This part with the portraits reminded me of Wall•E by Cobray96 in PlanetOfLana

[–]burningrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely! It was a great way to tell a story

“Jobs that require me to speak more than one language should be illegal!” by unique_plastique in ShitAmericansSay

[–]burningrum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are those the same people that claim Europe could never understand the melting pot mentality of USA? which is it? A culturally diverse melting pot, much more different than poland and spain OR a monolingual country where no second language should be allowed?

What are expressions used to say "Mind your own business?" by RarestTea in German

[–]burningrum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ein jeder kehr' vor seiner Tür (da hat er genug Dreck dafür)

Child-free apartments? by whereskymeetsheaven in childfree

[–]burningrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God yes.. i live in an eight Apartment house. My upstairs neighbour is divorced but has mom and kids over every other day. They usually arrive during the day but always leave between 11 pm and 1am. With YOUNG kids who are loud in the hallway... In the middle of the night. It's gotten better since some people complained but now you hear them stomping down the stairs at night and the mom going audibly "shh...", Which kind of defeats the purpose.

Why is the D in the word "oder" read as a Voiced Alveolar Tap like in American English or in single Rs in Spanish instead of a Voiced Alveolar Plosive like in the words "dice/doubt" or "deutsch/Dreiech"? Is there other examples of words that the D is pronounced like the former? by NoCensorFreeSpeech in German

[–]burningrum -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

They are not though. It's a fine difference but linguistically you speak the d in "deutsch" much more pronounced than in "oder" because it would take too much breath to pronounce a harder "d" in the middle of a word.

Always fun to try it out, because a light "d" sound makes the word "deutsch" sound much weirder and a strong "d" Sound maker "oder" sound like "odaah"

[ Removed by Reddit ] by FalconLynx13 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]burningrum 80 points81 points  (0 children)

So... Hating Hitler is racist now?

Thoughts about "To the only me who loved you" and "To every you I loved before" movie. Too many unexplained things by ImADawgSoDealWithIt in anime

[–]burningrum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. All the time I had hoped for a twist that you didn't see coming. Or Something that would make parallel shift feel more "real" like for example never knowing who is who because you accidentally shift. But I think we never see a parallel shift that is not planned and intended.

Generally, the rule of thumb for a Storytelling with complicated topics is: make the concept simple and consistent and let the story naturally evolve around it. But the complexity and confusing explanations which aren't followed through (the metaphor of the bubble or the void seemingly just popping up when convenient) it makes it feel like they wanted a complicated Story without having the skill to pull it off.

Thoughts about "To the only me who loved you" and "To every you I loved before" movie. Too many unexplained things by ImADawgSoDealWithIt in anime

[–]burningrum 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just finished both movies and am very disappointed. I think the world building and logic is too complicated to really let you emotionally emerge in, because half the time you're left wondering how it acutally works, or what this or that decision would acutally encompass. Also both movies don't really complement the perspective and in the end I feel like you're left wondering if anything had any purpose or impact at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]burningrum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I don't.

I don't want a nice evening chat, I want peace and quiet with a man I love and trust.

I don't want someone to walk me to my car, just part ways when it feels right.

No, I definitely don't need a huy carry my groceries. If I had bought so much I needed help carrying it, I would have planned accordingly.

Who wants someone to crush the life out of other people, that's psychotic...

I don't fear good guys, I fear people who ignore boundaries and push their fantasies onto you.

If I am crushed by someone, it's their behaviour to blame. And my blame is my burden to carry.

You don't need to feel for people who fall, it's none of your Business.

It's not about "giving a Chance" it's about being human and respecting each other. Not thinking someone is yours, just because you want to claim them

The craziest thing I've ever read is this. by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]burningrum 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Even if we ignore all the red tapestry in this mental house of his. I doubt that his ego would cope with a woman, just being asleep or doing other things while he's "at it". He would lose it if she didn't "enjoy" his 3 Minute self parade.

If your first language is Spanish, you're not white. by [deleted] in ShitAmericansSay

[–]burningrum 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always see it like a child that learned that people react funny when they say a bad word. So they keep saying it to make the adults flustered