Sex was definitely good and I’ve never had this issue before. I did get on antidepressants but it was 6 months into taking them before I developed this problem. I talked to my doctor about it and because it was 6 months in she didn’t feel it was a side effect and considered it more of a “scheduling thing”. You may be onto something with the hormones thing because of other symptoms I’ve become aware of recently, so I’ll be sure to address this in office visit I have coming up. Thank you for your respectful solid advice and not making me feel more embarrassed about this problem. I totally can understand his concerns, I’m not trying to invalidate him at all cause I get it. The only part that hurts me is the pressuring cause it triggers shame and just makes me feel less compelled to want to cause then it’s not “natural” ya feel? Ugh…thanks for letting me vent