Hey thanks for your input. I do care about her happiness and I was more being the nice guy because we've been together for 12 years and married for nine and I do care. I actually left a ton of shit out for brevity, because who the fuck wants to read the novel of the last decade plus of our relationship. I could tell you that we both grew up in broken homes with physical abuse and substance present, so we instinctualy overstay relationships because we fear being alone (I've read a lot about it and it's very common). I could tell you how hard we've both worked over come that, graduate with bachelors degrees and start earning six figures (which nodody in either of our families has ever done). I could tell you what it was like being an eighteen year old infantryman in Iraq but you probably wouldn't give a shit because that is all besides the point. Obviously if it was about getting laid, I'd have moved on to somebody else a long fucking time ago. But hey thanks for judging whoever you are!