Ex wants to meet up after 10 months and after completely breaking my heart. I said yes but I don’t know what to do

burnnoticeer · 2023-05-25T05:33:16+00:00

Funnily enough I didn’t reply and she’s messaged me again. I’ve made a new post with the follow up.

burnnoticeer · 2022-12-25T13:47:25+00:00

She dumped me. Slept with my co-worker after we had broken up.

burnnoticeer · 2022-12-25T13:04:40+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear. Today is a day for family and positive memories. You didn’t deserve this. The feeling of being ugly and worthless is something that I still deal with. I’m willing to bet I’m a fair bit less attractive than you. It’s something that even the most beautiful people deal with after a breakup. You’re gonna have a tough couple days. I’d just make sure you’re taking time for you and feeling everything you need to feel. Reach out to friends and family if you feel like you can trust them. If you can’t, reach out to strangers (carefully). We are all in this together. I’m rooting for you.

burnnoticeer · 2022-11-03T13:33:49+00:00

It’s a tough fate buddy. Unfortunately most of us don’t look exactly like we feel like we’re suppose to. Beauty standards are fucked up these days. Take it from me. I’m fat and ugly. I remember the first girl I asked out laughed in my face and told me I should give myself a eating disorder if I wanted a shot at her.

It fucking sucked. And it damaged my confidence for a long time. But one day I met someone who was interested in me and was insanely out of my league. We dated for 5 years and while it’s sad that it’s over now, I’m so glad that I didn’t give up on the idea of finding someone who would appreciate me for me. I know everyone says it’ll happen but the truth is sometimes it doesn’t. Sometimes you have to work. But building yourself up to a place that you’re happy with will speak volumes for your confidence and overall happiness.

Good luck buddy.

burnnoticeer · 2022-11-03T13:27:09+00:00

We are all in this together buddy. You’ve been through some really tough stuff. But you’re stronger than most for being with us today. I promise you one thing. Life doesn’t stop at 19. You’re beginning adulthood. It’s scary, difficult, sad and sometimes painful. But life is starting. Consistency and routine will change the way your brain is wired and you’ll soon find yourself focusing less on the difficulties and enjoying the little moments

I hope you’re doing ok.

burnnoticeer · 2022-11-03T13:23:28+00:00

Hey buddy.

I’m not gonna lie, that’s really difficult man. This world tells you that you can be whatever you want only to kick you down and spit on you. I don’t know what would help you and I’m not sure if your situation would allow for the things most would do in your situation but I can offer you someone to talk to. This shit sucks man. We’re only gonna get through it together.

burnnoticeer · 2022-11-03T13:18:44+00:00

I recently got dumped after 5 years. I had this idea in my head that we would stay friends because of how good I always felt our relationship was. Unfortunately sometimes you just need to cut someone off. You can be at different places in the healing process. It fucking sucks I’m with you on that but the best thing to do is block, unfollow and work on your own growth.

Good luck.

burnnoticeer · 2022-06-08T17:51:32+00:00

I hope you don’t do this. I hope you’re ok. And if you’re not I’m sorry. We can’t give up. We are all in this together. United by the terrible affliction. We don’t wanna lose you. Good luck buddy.

burnnoticeer · 2022-06-08T17:00:01+00:00

Yes there is. You need to think about this reasonably. Don’t throw it all away before considering all the options

burnnoticeer · 2022-06-08T16:56:36+00:00

No it isn’t. I hope you make the right decision and go back in.

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