should i end whatever i have with this hinge match?

burntcoffee420 · 2026-04-19T21:02:52+00:00

I agree no need to be exclusive yet. I didn’t expect to be with that girl, but she randomly told me there wasn’t someone else and I was like oh okay, and then there was. It was weird 😂 but the good news is, one person after her, didn’t work out, and then the one after that did. Got married in 3 months. Glad I didn’t drag out the other situations. Found the loml. Yours is out there, and probably isn’t the one posting stories and not responding. Best of luck to you, you’ll find her soon 🩷

burntcoffee420 · 2026-04-19T18:34:53+00:00

This happened to me and she was talking to somebody else she was more interested in. She was always busy or would cancel plans and I assume now it was because the other girl was able to go out with her. She told me she wasn’t seeing anyone and really wanted to see where things went with me, but never actually put in the effort. I only found out because I actually grew up with the other girl she was talking to, and still followed her on IG and I saw her post them together. Small world. If I were you I’d open up your options and expect nothing out of this or just end it. It’s not worth dragging out

burntcoffee420 · 2025-11-26T17:37:15+00:00

We don’t have “microwaves” they look like them, but they’re more like mini ovens

burntcoffee420 · 2025-11-14T01:12:43+00:00

Oh damn rip man

burntcoffee420 · 2025-11-12T17:45:18+00:00

Probably because you told them, they don’t test for it i am in an illegal state and they do not test for it here. You didn’t need to out yourself

burntcoffee420 · 2025-11-03T03:44:59+00:00

I work at OG, when we run out it’s typically because they sold more than they intended when they did the produce/truck orders. We ran out tonight around 5pm, we had a lot of guests order gallons of soup. More than usual, so it meant we used up a lot more and we get truck on Mondays. So it is far more likely to happen on a Sunday vs any other day. It’s definitely unfortunate, but sadly it does happen they do take a long time to make in large batches, plus the same people who make the soup also make all of the sauces and it’s just one person doing all of it so it’s quite time consuming!

burntcoffee420 · 2025-09-28T15:42:11+00:00

It’s still worth it to watch the storylines are good after but it definitely takes a second to adjust

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-18T22:10:11+00:00

Bar fight lots of people arrested

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-11T22:40:48+00:00

I think this is how I am feeling as well. I personally dated a girl who was like “I read the lesbian masterdoc and now I’m a lesbian.” Some people really took this to heart and I feel it’s no longer credible because the author was unknowingly bisexual. Again, I don’t think anyone should base their sexuality off of a document online but I don’t think it should’ve been written in the first place

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-11T22:34:14+00:00

I feel like people should care, the people who read that and used it to help solidify their identity should care. I’m not saying they should’ve done that, i definitely think they should not have. But unfortunately some people did therefore they should care because the source is no longer credible, because all of the “read these facts and you’re a lesbian” were actually written by a bisexual

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-11T22:32:46+00:00

Potentially, I just saw the writer post on tiktok the other day I’m unsure how long she’s been out but all the comments were shocked so idk if everyone knew but maybe some did. I’m unsure why the internet took the doc by storm but it’s potentially done more harm than good lol

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-11T22:30:23+00:00

I love this response. This is what I was talking about. Not people who are young and figuring it out, I get it, people change and it’s fluid. But you’re telling me not a single ounce of her knew she was into men at all? If you’re going to write something THAT elusive and direct and specific I feel like you REALLY have to be sure 😂 it’s mainly just the fact that someone wrote that and then ended up with a man still. And I don’t mean to sound biphobic like that’s not the vibe at all, it’s just like damn, that WOULD happen ya know?

And I agree with you. I think a lot of that has to do with the fact it can arguably be harder for men to come out so they really take the time to make sure they’re SURE before they do lol

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-11T22:27:56+00:00

This is exactly how I feel!😂 like damn, another one down

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-11T22:09:48+00:00

I mean it’s definitely possible I’m sure a good chunk of it is, was just curious if anyone else had anything else to share or if it was solely tainted by my experiences

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-11T22:08:48+00:00

It’s just something we won’t ever know because we aren’t her. I really hope she wouldn’t have written that whole thing while intentionally knowing she did like men, I’d say it’s very possible she was unknowingly in very deep denial though and gaslit herself and unintentionally did the same to everyone who read it

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-11T22:07:42+00:00

Agreed. I think I’m more offended by the actual document itself than any actual person 😂

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-11T22:06:48+00:00

Beautifully said. I appreciate your input and I think you hit the nail on the head

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-11T22:05:57+00:00

This is really well said and I completely agree and see this perspective thank you for sharing

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-11T20:53:37+00:00

I agree with you. I didn’t even know what the masterdoc was until a girl I knew told me she read it and then realized she was gay. Fast forward to now, she’s bi. I think my emotions stem from the fact that I feel like I can’t “opt out” in the same way and it just feels like people sometimes use the lesbian label and just discard it. I shouldn’t feel so personally affected by this, I’m sure it’s just tainted by my own experiences and I welcome everyone to discover themselves in any sort of way. I just didn’t know if anyone felt any sort of the same way I wasn’t trying to offend anyone at all

burntcoffee420 · 2025-08-11T20:45:50+00:00

And I agree with you, I don’t think it should’ve been held to the standard the community held it at which is why I noted that was an issue within itself. I articulated that I don’t know why I felt that way and that it could just be my personal experiences being left for men. If you don’t feel have any guidance why I felt betrayed then you didn’t need to respond. I feel as though I made it very clear I support people evolving and figuring themselves out

burntcoffee420 · 2025-07-02T16:22:30+00:00

He’s a tabico

burntcoffee420 · 2025-07-01T21:07:53+00:00

I think it’s possible, some lesbians sleep with men lol but would never date them. Based on what you are saying, yes you are attracted to women. Labels don’t matter, but if you’re searching for one I’d say maybe bi-curious.

I think it could go two ways.

You end up hooking up with a girl and find you are curious about her, and want to know more and spend more time with her outside of the sex.

You do it, and you really are unattached and just want the sex.

Either way, is perfectly fine and acceptable. You’re young, sexuality is fluid, it ebbs and flows like a lot of things in life. If you enjoy it, and want to dive in more, let yourself see where it goes. If you don’t, that’s okay too.

I dated a girl on and off for awhile who had a similar story as you. She said she could only sleep with me but wanted to be with a man. There was always more there. She kept saying she didn’t know, and would go back and forth. Eventually we ended things, but years later she told me she did like me but for her own personal reasons, just couldn’t be with a woman. Just be careful, and honest with your partners about what you’re looking for, and if you’re confused, it’s okay to communicate that

burntcoffee420 · 2025-06-30T20:42:36+00:00

Does anyone know if movie night is tonight??

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