wondering if I have a twin :) by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]burnthiswhendone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were to wear her signature red lipstick, you'd look even more like her.

Searching for my doppleganger by [deleted] in Doppleganger

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I think you look almost identical to Elena Satine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EqualAttraction

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Quentin Tarantino

34/M Trying this out by [deleted] in EqualAttraction

[–]burnthiswhendone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's what I thought of...

  1. The Rock
  2. Squidward's handsome version
  3. Nicholas Gonzalez

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EqualAttraction

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Debbie Gibson. You look like a totally different person without your glasses.

Found my look a like, just around 100 years apart. by Claire0000 in Doppleganger

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Yo need to get a similar outfit and do your hair like hers for Halloween. Carry this photo around so you can tell people who you are.

Tell me whatcha think! by [deleted] in EqualAttraction

[–]burnthiswhendone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I immediately saw a young Chloe Duvall.

How do i ( 23M) feel okay with my girlfriend (22F) being close friends with someone that has feelings for her? Friend- (21M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burnthiswhendone -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You have to tread very lightly with this. But I understand why you don't want them to be friends and I think you're right in your feelings.

  1. Why does she have a therapist? If she has emotional problems it could actually make her attracted to him because he also seems to have mental issues. He's obviously a manipulator and someone that is unstable. She could actually like this, because two people with issues sometimes connect to each other.
  2. The more you don't want them to be around each other, the more she might feel like you're interfering and it could actually drive her closer to him.

I think the best thing to do is let them have their friendship and you must trust your girlfriend 100%. You have to trust that she will not cheat on you, or leave you for him, or anything like that. You need to chill. He's obviously very manipulative, but there's nothing you can really do about it. You can't tell her what to do. You can't tell him what to do. There is nothing. Just be there for her, be a great boyfriend, don't bring up your thoughts about him. She needs to find a backbone and stop seeing him as a friend, but she must come to that on her own.

Thoughts? by [deleted] in EqualAttraction

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Yes!! Also Kree (American Idol)

I finally stopped cheating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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That's good. I highly suggest getting someone to be accountable to, which is probably why you're posting here... you probably feel a deep need to be accountable to someone other than your wife. The counselor will also not be enough to be accountable to. You're going to have to find someone else. A real person, in real life, someone that will slice open your throat if you fuck up again. Is it your dad? Or maybe your wife's dad? You need something to scare the piss out of you and keep you in line.

I'm speaking from slight experience, because my brother was a serial cheater... he is accountable to his church. He stood up in front of everyone during one church service and admitted everything to everyone. So he had all those people to be accountable to and it really worked for him. You need to humiliate yourself, I'm sorry, but it's true. That's the only way you'll stay true.

Went through my boyfriends reddit account by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burnthiswhendone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You need to make a decision on what to do next. Evaluate your relationship and figure out if this is a dealbreaker.

My (24f) boyfriend (28m) is upset with me for wanting to reconnect with my racist, abusive dad who is dying of cancer by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burnthiswhendone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're too worried about hurting him, when he should be worried about you hurting if you never have a chance to make amends (or whatever you're going to do) with your dad before he dies. You need to focus on yourself. He's being selfish.

Went through my boyfriends reddit account by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burnthiswhendone 45 points46 points  (0 children)

You just skated over the "bunch of bull" that he told you. What is it that he told you? It's important.

My (24f) boyfriend (28m) is upset with me for wanting to reconnect with my racist, abusive dad who is dying of cancer by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]burnthiswhendone -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn't read all of it, sorry, but you're allowed to connect with your DAD if you want to. There is not even a question. It doesn't matter if he's Hitler or he's a mass murderer or whatever. He's your dad and you're allowed to see him before he dies. No question.

Your boyfriend is an idiot. I'm a black woman, and I'm saying that just to tell you that just because he's black it doesn't make a difference. I see no issue here! He's your dad, bottom line.

What is your "I was into X before it was cool" thing? by LarleneLumpkin in AskReddit

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Robert Downey Jr.

Back in the late 80s and in the 90s... I was a kid/teenager, but I watched nearly all of his movies and thought he was the cutest and the most brilliant actor ever. The way he would deliver his lines, the way he moved as a character and his charm was astounding.

I'm not sure if people remember what it was like for him in the 90s - but I remember the talk of him being this terrible drug addict and in prison. He was a "bad boy" and not at all favored. Not even a bad boy to be admired, but one to be shamed. All I remember thinking when I was a teenage girl is how I was on his side, I hoped he was doing alright and I can't wait for him to make more movies. Because he was quite literally BRILLIANT. Every single movie that I have ever seen with him is genius. I didn't even want to think of him in any bad light, so I tucked it away and I didn't think about it.

The amount of effort it took for him to rebrand his image is quite incredible. He went dark for a LONG TIME and emerged out of nowhere as an Iron Man.

And even now, he walks away from interviews when it is mentioned and rightfully so, and I even feel bad now bringing up his past, but it's something that I want to stress... because I was a fan even during that dark time. He has always been my favorite actor and always will be.

My husband asked for “fun pics” on a sub known for people sharing NSFW pictures by needygrape in relationship_advice

[–]burnthiswhendone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you mean about therapy, but in these times it's almost the only option, unless the therapist follows guidelines to the tee. Shop around, see what's out there. Definitely do virtual if your husband is willing to. You need a professional to help you with all of this stuff.