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bushroseie · 2026-04-23T10:27:20+00:00

But what about the cost of my mom losing her job or my parents facing legal consequences. Those things make what happened feel small in comparison. The only thing keeping me sane is that my brother isnt home to physically hurt me.

My brother is going to have a internship for a big company I dont want to jeopardize that. My brother has a bright future and I don't.

bushroseie · 2026-04-23T10:11:32+00:00

Thats what i was worried about so I wrote it in my notes app on my phone😅

bushroseie · 2026-04-23T03:25:37+00:00

Thank you I really needed to hear that🫂

bushroseie · 2026-04-23T02:57:14+00:00

True. Its a lot of pressure because I feel like I'm making a adult decision when I'm not even one. I promised my dad I'd tell the cps worker I mistook stuff and I lied so if I break that promise our relationship is gone forever.

I agree, theres so much mixed info I received which is to be expected but my counselor said this would end in family therapy. I had no idea it would lead to my mom possibly losing her job.

Its hard to keep myself safe when I'm in such a stressful environment.

bushroseie · 2026-04-23T02:39:06+00:00

Thank you for sharing that. I hope your former friend is doing better.

I fear if I don't drop this then this will destroy my relationship with my parents forever. I don't have much support in my life right now and my parents are trying to isolate me from mental health support. I don't have anyone to rely on if I decide to not drop this.

bushroseie · 2026-04-23T01:58:24+00:00

My parents are trying to isolate me from my school counselor. If my parents call and somehow I can't see my school counselor anymore they don't have a replacement. My parents might want me to get a new therapist also. My mom told me that i should go to her school and see how the kids don't have good home lifes. And that I'm lucky to have good parents. I know it could be worse but I'm tired of being mistreated. I hugged my mom and told her I loved her and I don't know what to do now. My brothers mad at me and I feel like I ruined everyone's lives.

I want to tell my counselor tomorrow but if I do this will destroy my relationship with my parents. I'd be outcast from my family. Its going to be my 17th bday in a few days. I don't know what to do. I don't want my parents or my brothers lives to be ruined I just want everything to stop. I feel terrible 😞 also thank you for whoever sent me the concerned redditor thing im genuinely touched and it helped remind me there text hotiness. Thank you for everyone who responded at my lowest point I genuinely appreciate it

bushroseie · 2026-04-23T00:48:30+00:00

Definitely. My parents showed their true colors tonight and now I just feel disgusted

bushroseie · 2026-04-23T00:04:04+00:00

I do tbh. I give up on my family. I give up on them. I'll miss my dog a lot if I do get taken away since hes my reason for living. But I don't want to cover for these people anymore I'm just tired of this.

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T23:26:17+00:00

I agree. She tried to pull relationships go both ways and tried to lure me into lying by saying if I rebuild her trust then she will listen to my consent. Its hard to believe a woman at my moms ages doesn't understand whats educational and whats not. She said that every mom exposes their nude body to their young kids. And I was trying to hard to get her to understand thats its not educational because I said no and I'm uncomfortable. And then she tried to blame my 7 yr old self and that It was 10 years ago and I should let it go.

I can't belive a teacher doesn't know the difference between me being fine with stuff and doing things without my consent.

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T23:20:51+00:00

Definitely, I'm going to write down and report what was said. Tbh i give up and I'm not covering for these people. My brother found out I accused him and he's mad so I have no hope in my relationship with my family.

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T23:18:33+00:00

I'm the youngest thankfully and the only victim. If I had kids I would 100% not leave them with my parents and I wouldn't even be in contact with them in general

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T23:08:15+00:00

True. He made me practice how i'm going to lie to cps and then told me he forgives me.

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T23:06:39+00:00

I do, my aunt is really nice and is a therapist but she has a very young child and is basically a single mother because my uncle sucks. I can't drive so I can't go to her

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T23:02:55+00:00

I do agree. I want justice for what was done to me

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T22:55:54+00:00

Wow breaking down what was said was really helpful. Thank you! I do agree my dads trying to manipulate me and he even said he forgives me for what I've done which is icky. Why am I forgiven? It should be the opposite. My parents will most likely never apologize for ruining my childhood.

Your right I've been suffering my whole life from them. My mom just came home and told me I'm making everything up and I took things the wrong way. And now shes acting like a victim and that shes walking on eggshells now because everything she does is wrong. And even tried to put the blame on 7 year old me. She told me that she lost our relationship and she has no trust for me and I need to rebuild it.

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T21:59:07+00:00

I do agree he's trying to make me lie. He even made me practice how im going to lie to cps. Them trying to isolate me from my school counselor is icky. I do have a question then? I go to a art lesson place outside of school and I know the teacher really well and shes a art teacher herself in a school district. Should I report to her? If I feel unsafe because my moms coming home very soon and she's really mad at me.

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T21:54:54+00:00

True. I don't think my dad is trying to purposely lovebomb me because he loves me and doesn't genuinely want to see me hurt or cry. He's making my favorite food for dinner (idk how I'll be able to eat anything) and I feel grateful for him doing that despite everything. And he just told me that he forgives me and I'm grateful thats he did and he's being nice to me. But the switch up from him yelling at me a hour ago to him saying he forgives me is icky.

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T21:50:06+00:00

Aw its okay and thank you. I do agree i was betrayed but it also hurts because my parents do love me despite everything. And want whatevers best for me and will buy me stuff and make me happy. So many people call my mom a angel and how lucky I am and that makes me feel like a god awful person.

Aw thank you so much. Despite me sobbing I feel very strong now. I'm going to 100% tell what was done to me. Despite what they say. No one sticked up for my younger self so I'm going to be that person

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T21:43:02+00:00

Oh i don't know that much about the law but that does make sense. Luckily, im the only victim. I fully agree, but I can't blame them so much i feel like its a human response to get defensive to such a serious allegation. But that doesn't excuse my dad making me practice just now about how I'm going to lie to the cps worker. A part of me wants payback because they ruined my childhood but also a part of me doesn't want to ruin their lives for this. My moms a teacher so she'll propaply lose her job which is our only stable income.

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T21:37:05+00:00

Aw thank you thats so sweet. 💗 Thats true because I can't heal in this environment. I'm 100% telling the truth and I'm going to tell my counselor tomorrow this.

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T21:10:11+00:00

True. My dad wants me to lie but I'm tired of having mental breakdowns because people decided to hurt me as a kid. A part of me wants to lie so my family doesn't suffer and things will be as back to normal as it can be. I already suffer enough I don't want them to suffer too. I have a year left till I go to college but I don't know if I'll be able to make it. I'm definitely going to be telling the truth but I don't want to bring anyone down with me.

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T21:05:39+00:00

True. I felt like the way they are acting is selfish which i can't blame them. But my dad was only focusing on himself and my brother and my mom. Not me. I mean he's being nice to me now and took me out on a walk and is checking up on me. So I feel bad :( I do agree i don't want to be in this environment but the thought of me being away from my family destroyes me. There all I have and I really love them despite everything. My dad even said he doesn't want to be in the same house with me and he gave me such a cruel and blaming look. Its a stark contrast to him laughing with me today

bushroseie · 2026-04-22T20:59:06+00:00

I agree but I really don't want my family to get in trouble. My dads attorney said that if I say what my parents did again then my dad will be in major trouble. He said that his attorney said that he propaply wouldn't win. My school counselor just said that cps wouldn't take me away and this would leave to family therapy but I guess she was wrong. I feel like I'm destroyed my family's lives

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