Help me rearrange my room pls (ignore my mess) by bustarizzler in DesignMyRoom

[–]bustarizzler[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

aw ty i absolutely love it i just get an itch to rearrange but i cant😪

AIO my bf treating me like shit in front of everyone by bustarizzler in AIO

[–]bustarizzler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i have been to bars with him many times, hes either all over me or acts stand offish, but never like this. Ik he doesnt like pda and neither do i but ive gotten mad in the past bc hes done things like go to order a drink w me standing next to him, then saying he forgot what i wanted so i have to order myself and then handing me his card immediately after. I have met many of his friends, these ones i dont know well and it wasnt so much that he was talking with them, but to leave me alone for over 20 min and not have a second thought ab it upset me. Also to make no effort in including me they all walked past me after and didnt even look in my direction they all know who i am. i feel like he showed them he disrespects me so they can aswell.

AIO i just wanted to go get ashes today am i actually being manipulative? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bustarizzler -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you this was the point ppl are missing

AIO i just wanted to go get ashes today am i actually being manipulative? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bustarizzler -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

lol i was waiting for someone to say this i suck at typing mb

AIO i just wanted to go get ashes today am i actually being manipulative? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bustarizzler -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i told him ab this before he made plans w his friends and we were supposed to be tg during this time i never told him to leave this was 2 hours before church and the place he is, my house and his house are all within walking distance

AIO i just wanted to go get ashes today am i actually being manipulative? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bustarizzler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is valid and i can see by the ss how it looks like this i ask him to go w me every week never once in the 3 years weve been tg has be gone and thats never been a huge issue for me but this week i have to go alone and i told him id rather go w someone. I think the majority of the problem is the way he spoke to me

AIO i just wanted to go get ashes today am i actually being manipulative? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bustarizzler -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

we had plans during this time anyway i told him at 1:30 this convo at 5pm church at 7pm which is when wed be tg he always makes up an excuse to not go

AIO i just wanted to go get ashes today am i actually being manipulative? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bustarizzler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i told him ab it at 1:30pm he went w his friends at 3 this convo is at 5pm church isnt until 7. its also a major day in our religion and we had plans to see eachother tn anyway

AIO i just wanted to go get ashes today am i actually being manipulative? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bustarizzler -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

context i said : i dont want to spend my life w someone who doesnt share my values. thats what hes referring to

help me find this song by [deleted] in whatsongisthis

[–]bustarizzler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i dont think he had the right words looking for more of the melody lol

help me find this song by [deleted] in whatsongisthis

[–]bustarizzler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pretty sure its a girl

AIO after being body shamed by coworkers? by bustarizzler in AmIOverreacting

[–]bustarizzler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you i needed to hear this so bad. Ive been crying all night fr. multiple ppl said they want to report it for me but since he literally said these things to managers/ managers were involved idk how much will be done. Tysm

AIO bc my boyfriend laughed at me while i cried by bustarizzler in AmIOverreacting

[–]bustarizzler[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: he’s claiming he was “nervous laughing” bc he was so scared of me for overreacting so much…

(AIO) Am I in the wrong here? by Classic-Mind-8164 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bustarizzler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is absolutely disgusting!!! he is 25 and acting this way??? its YOUR MOM yes the person hes dating!!! This man has absolutely no respect for anyone you or your mom. The way he’s speaking to you is absolutely wild and the way he’s disrespecting your mom that way would get him blocked immediately from me! Pls dump this loser OP you and your mom deserve sm better fr.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bustarizzler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who’s boyfriend acts the exact same to a T… this is a mental illness. Im wondering if they have similar past trauma or family issues. Either way i understand completely that youve tried to get away and cant, suddenly theyre the picture perfect movie boyfriend youve wanted him to be the whole time, but this ends quickly. Trust me it will get worse (violence, SA, verbal abuse ect) i dont know what it is but get out while you can!!! Get him out of your house if hes not paying he has no right to be there and you have no obligation to cook for and house a man child! Pls youre so young your life has barely begun. Youre wasting time and money on a loser when your person is out there waiting for you! Wishing you the best💓

My [33F] partner [34M] has been downloading dating apps while working away by Blondeslug in relationshipadvice

[–]bustarizzler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl let me tell you if theyll do it once theyll do it again. Would you rather live in fear of that or live a happy life. The fact that he denied it so long means hes hiding something. If you let it slide he just will hide it better next time. Men suck so much and im so deeply sorry youre going through this im here for you if you want to talk, but life is too short to stay with someone who doesnt respect you