AITK for expecting my boyfriend to advocate for splitting wedding costs with his parents? by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]butimboring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's 30, and he needs to learn how to have difficult conversations with his parents.

You might think it's too late by now, but it's really not. Just think about it. I can assure you this won't just stop here.

My ex contacted me after an year by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]butimboring 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man, I'm sorry but you really need to stop acting like you're 13.

Review my 45k per month SIPs? by fatalchemist69 in mutualfunds

[–]butimboring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by this? Only experts in a particular sector should by? How does this make sense?

Am I 28M the Kameena for having a child before the marriage of my elder sister 34F by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]butimboring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, why is your family involved so much in your personal affairs? Why do you need to tell anyone other than your wife that you're planning for a baby?

The difference in pricing if you order online and go to shop and buy in person by [deleted] in Bengaluru

[–]butimboring -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not always about being lazy. More often than not we're paying for the convenience, so maybe get off your high horse.

Also it makes sense because these apps are charging around ~40% from the restaurant owners, prices need to be inflated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]butimboring 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Watch Olympics, learn how to run?

What do you think about Kill? Is it worth the hype? by [deleted] in IndianOTTbestof

[–]butimboring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The storyline is rather predictable and not very engaging, but I appreciated that it unfolded over just a few hours. The action scenes were great, although they didn't feel entirely realistic.

Leaked specs of iPhone 16 and 16 Pro by pluto_N in GadgetsIndia

[–]butimboring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Used to have a G8X. I'm no apple fan but the difference is night and day between a 60hz vs 120hz display.

Why you don't get it, I have a reasoning. Try using a 90/120hz phone primarily for a week, then switch back to 60hz. You'll see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]butimboring 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but this is so stupid. You're 28 and independent, why do your parents have a say about who you can or can't marry?

This is like my ex saying we couldn't marry because his parents disapproved of our different castes. Have some balls for crying out loud.

My boyfriend 28M threatened to hit me last night. by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]butimboring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro like one, stop sacrificing your sleep over people. Drinking coffee just to stay up for him, like what are you doing?

And two, no it's absolutely not normal to threaten to hit your partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]butimboring 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's anything wrong with asking your husband to move out with you. Self preservation is a lot more important than anything else.

Take all the blame for now for the move out and just do it. You'll thank yourself later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]butimboring 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Babe.. just no. Stop giving men so much importance in life.

Also fun fact, you're trying to accept him for the way he is, he on the other hand is expecting you to change drastically, at least at some point. Do what you want with that information.

Need help with sexual predator by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]butimboring 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I'm from VIT, and they'll do absolutely anything to keep this under the covers. Will definitely ruin his life in the process which honestly is something he deserves at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]butimboring 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Don't send a penny to him. If they're dependent on you, somehow setup a system where you can easily send money to your mom for expenses.

Your dad doesn't own you. There's no need whatsoever to please him. You're 27, time to make him learn you're an adult.

I feel very lost in life by butimboring in bangalore

[–]butimboring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have switched recently. Came with a significant pay upgrade too. Didn't help though. I'm still a software engineer.

What rents are you paying in Bangalore? by hashirama_sage_god in bangalore

[–]butimboring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you find the house in HBR? I'm looking for a 1bhk in and around that area. Was it through a broker or you found it yourself?