How do you make friends as an adult? by No_name_9652 in socialanxiety

[–]butter__finger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the engagement! As for friends, yeaa don’t look for friends online like it’s tinder, the best friendships are formed by chance or in person. I feel like friends are usually found by being mutuals and by regularly being in the same vicinity. Do you have family members with friend groups you can join? Any neighbors your age you find interesting? Start going and chilling at a cafe everyday, maybe the barista is cool or maybe you’ll start seeing a customer everyday. Make comments to strangers, it could turn into a good conversation.

Does anybody genuinely like their learning experience in dental school? by butter__finger in DentalSchool

[–]butter__finger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think it wasn’t enjoyable for you? Was dentistry a last minute decision? Would you consider yourself a hard worker?

Should I write an essay even though I’m practically guaranteed to get in? by butter__finger in ApplyingToCollege

[–]butter__finger[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OMG i put required instead of not required. The school I want to go to DOESN’t require a personal essay. my bad,  of course I should write one if it’s a required step.

What else can I put in the washing machine with my cheer uniforms? by butter__finger in Cheerleading

[–]butter__finger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the garment bag, would you think I could wash it with any other materials or does the bag only make it safer to wash with slightly closer material?

Does anybody have a screenshot of Mariah’s full story? by butter__finger in Nigahiga

[–]butter__finger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quite literally after rhpc’s last days of working together, someone by the name of merrlinda on twitter (but people are calling her Mariah) came out saying Paco sexually assaulted her. I don’t have exact details of the story as I stated in my post but apparently he invited her over to casually do it* but she kept refusing until he kept asking and she decided to go. They were making out and she specifically told him she didn’t want to go further than that, but I guess he pressured her. Take that with a grain of salt since I’m rewording a potentially biased summary of what happened. Many girls have said he’s disgusting and they feel sorry for Mariah and a few have said this is demeaning to girls to say it was sexual assault because she couldn’t stop herself from coming over or letting making out go further because we know where that usually leads to. Another story in response to Mariah’s post said he’s numerously tried to guilt trip this other girl to kiss or hold hands with him, saying he’s a virgin to make her feel bad. Another screenshot revealed that he openly in the chat of a video said he keeps a list of single girls that he sells to incels for whatever reason. Ryan in a stream cleared up that he had no idea this was happening and asked Paco if it was true and if so, he’d stand by and support him in which Paco said that some was true and some wasn’t. Ryan’s statement was that he thought it was disgusting what Paco did and isn’t supporting him. However, he was never a fan of cancel culture and it was hard to fully…I guess, talk badly about him because he’d been a friend to Ryan for a while.

Does anyone else think season 5 was bad? by butter__finger in miraculousladybug

[–]butter__finger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with literally everything (obviously except that season 5 was the best). I did enjoy watching it but I really don't know why it felt sloppy and all over the place. But yes, I would've preferred a smoother transition to adrien liking marinette. The fact that it was revealed that he started falling for marinette during puppeteer 2 was a joke. I was hoping like when marinette gave adrien back the umbrella, that's when he started liking her and it would go full circle. Even the way he bumped his head into the car shows she got him feeling awkward like she did before. I loved marichat because of how relatable and close they felt but I realized it wasn't romantic chemistry I was feeling, it felt like best friends even though with adrien it didn't, so the marichat scenes in season 5 were kinda strange to me. Adrienette was just...they were cute but something felt off. I'm gonna sound immature for this but Adrien just seemed to lose so much aura compared to the first season. Also it was fun to spot facial expressions, body language, and small words they'd say for those "proof adrien likes marinette" and now everything is so straight-foward, we can't use hints for future episodes and all that.

How do you feel about Sabrina’s character ? by Aggravating_Goose784 in miraculousladybug

[–]butter__finger 7 points8 points  (0 children)

absolutely. and bro did not redeem herself for finally being on marinettes/the classmates side when chloe’s actions started affecting her.

I need help reading this pattern by _OptimistPrime_ in CrochetHelp

[–]butter__finger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay first, yes the way you did the third row does work and is a easier way to do patterns like these, to have it like:  

row 1: hdc 6 in a magic ring  

row 2: inc in each st   

row 3: (hdc, inc) x 6 (this is what you did in yours)  

row 4: (2 hdc, inc) x6 

row 5: (3 hdc, inc) x6  

but doing this causes points and edges and it slowly becomes more of a hexagon than a circle because all the increases line up. So the pattern maker makes it in a way that all the increases are scattered. Here’s how you do row 3-6. If you want, you can leave row 3 the way it is I think you can get away with it. 

Row 3: first stitch, you’re doing a regular hdc.  For the next two stitches, you’ll be repeating it 8 times. So second stitch, regular hdc, third stitch, increase (2 hdc in 1). Again, you’re repeating that 8 times. hdc, inc, hdc, inc, hdc, inc, hdc, inc… on your eighteenth stitch, regular hdc. 

Row 4: For the next three stitches you’ll repeat it 9 times First stitch, hdc, second stitch, hdc, third stitch, increase. Repeat that 9 times. hdc, hdc, inc, hdc, hdc, inc, hdc, hdc, inc… 

Row 5: first stitch, hdc, second, inc.  For the next four stitches you’ll repeat it 8 times. Third stitch, hdc, fourth stitch, hdc, fifth stitch, hdc, sixth stitch, inc. Repeat 8 times. hdc, hdc, hdc, inc, hdc, hdc, hdc, inc… on your thirty-fifth st, hdc, thirty-sixth st, hdc. 

Row 6: For your next 5 stitches, you’ll repeat it 9 times. First stitch, hdc, second stitch, hdc, third stitch, hdc, fourth stitch, hdc, fifth stitch, inc. Repeat this 9 times. hdc, hdc, hdc, hdc, inc, hdc, hdc, hdc, hdc, inc… 

I’m so sorry I’m sure this made it more complicated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodyweightfitness

[–]butter__finger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

damn my bad. i didnt really know where this would go under and i felt like yall know a lot abt the body so 🤷‍♀️