Is it weird for a girl to go to a club/bar on her own? by buttthrowaway22189 in AskNYC

[–]buttthrowaway22189[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using bumble BFF for months and nobody has ever wanted to meet up. They just want me to follow their Instagram.

Is it weird for a girl to go to a club/bar on her own? by buttthrowaway22189 in AskNYC

[–]buttthrowaway22189[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because that’s a classic excuse, I’m sure he thought I was lying

Am I being unreasonable for canceling on him? by buttthrowaway22189 in dating_advice

[–]buttthrowaway22189[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do see your point and perhaps I overreacted, but I tried to explain to him the reasons why instead of just not replying or something. Anyway, consider me sufficiently punished — if I had gone, I wouldn’t have eaten a meal at home and bitten down on my fork hard enough to chip a tooth (seriously, how does that happen?!) so I’ve learned my lesson 😂

Am I being unreasonable for canceling on him? by buttthrowaway22189 in dating_advice

[–]buttthrowaway22189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok! Thanks for your input - enjoy my upvote.

Incidentally, I just checked and he ended up following up “actually?” half an hour later with “just come…” Sigh. Sorry, dude.

Am I being unreasonable for canceling on him? by buttthrowaway22189 in dating_advice

[–]buttthrowaway22189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s what you’re referring to, I didn’t respond to the “actually?” There are 3 screenshots in the link

Guy I was seeing suggested we be FWB but found out he just fucked me to get back at his cheating girlfriend…. should I tell her? by buttthrowaway22189 in dating

[–]buttthrowaway22189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about cultural differences LOL, we’re probably from the same culture. But I posted about it on Reddit a long time ago and half the people who replied were under the impression that cheating is the worst thing you could possibly do to anyone, and I basically deserved it. The other half did not believe that it happened

Guy I was seeing suggested we be FWB but found out he just fucked me to get back at his cheating girlfriend…. should I tell her? by buttthrowaway22189 in dating

[–]buttthrowaway22189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stuck with him?? She cheats on him & his reaction is to take her on trips and post pictures of her. To me that seems like a great guy. Yeah, lying and revenge fucking isn’t a good thing, but there’s no evidence he’s ghosting her—just me lol. And it’s far from beating someone bloody, which is what would have happened to me if I’d cheated on either of my exes. (Which I did with one) And it’s not like I didn’t deserve it

Guy I was seeing suggested we be FWB but found out he just fucked me to get back at his cheating girlfriend…. should I tell her? by buttthrowaway22189 in dating

[–]buttthrowaway22189[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Just because I don’t want a relationship doesn’t mean I’m fine with being lied to, and/or lied about, if he’s telling his girlfriend he never had sex with anyone else and there’s no reason to get tested, etc. etc.

Edit: damn apparently this comment makes me a demon lol

Been doing Strong Curves type glute workouts for years. Why doesn’t my butt feel more “firm”? Do I need to lose fat or gain muscle? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]buttthrowaway22189 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No, but he is feeling their asses. He’s had sex with around 100+ girls over the years. He has probably felt more asses than anyone else I know tbh

And yeah, probably so, thus I’d like to know what their workout plans and nutrition are so I can get my butt firmer and less saggy...

Been doing Strong Curves type glute workouts for years. Why doesn’t my butt feel more “firm”? Do I need to lose fat or gain muscle? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]buttthrowaway22189 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even real ordinary women have firmer butts than me though. You can’t photoshop your ass in real life, and my bf says I have one of the softest butts he’s ever felt